Girls, Why is do girls slightly ignore the guys they like?

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Like she will walk past me acting like she didn't see me. Like she used to wave, smile and say hello to me. But now she doesn't so much. But if start talking to her she will have a conversation with. I generally make her giggle a couple of times too. Or if first interaction feels awkward or a nervous vibe between us, then she'll start conversation with me later

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jennifer_bloom | 1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I do it cause people say that if God wants you together he will chase you

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Are you saying she likes me?
jennifer_bloom

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It depends on the girl - everyone acts different
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She replied like 24hrs later. I'm pretty sure she left me in suspense wondering if she would accept me. Cause I noticed she does go on it regulary. I know quite well at work too. We talk everytime we see each other
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The day she seemed to ignore me i think it was deliberate. As it drove me to adding her. That same day she took 24hrs to accept my request. So it seemed a bit strange as it got me thinking about her

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Asker

Are you saying she likes me?

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jennifer_bloom

It depends on the girl - everyone acts different

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Asker

She replied like 24hrs later. I'm pretty sure she left me in suspense wondering if she would accept me. Cause I noticed she does go on it regulary. I know quite well at work too. We talk everytime we see each other

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Asker

The day she seemed to ignore me i think it was deliberate. As it drove me to adding her. That same day she took 24hrs to accept my request. So it seemed a bit strange as it got me thinking about her

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Anonymous

I ignore guys I am attracted to... its a power thing... or maybe protection? I don't know... if he thinks you're too into him he may a). take advantage of the situation or b). lose interest. Men like to chase but some girls run too far or too long so the guy gets tired chasing..

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If you crush sends you a Facebook friend request. How long do you wait beford you accept the request?
Opinion Owner

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I would probably wait till the next day.
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Really why is that?
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Opinion Owner

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Don't want to look too eager.
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I sent her a friend request and it's been 7 hours.
Opinion Owner

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Its ok. She will accept don't worry. Just give it a day or two.

Tip: After a day and no acceptance of the request change your profile pic to you out and about or in a group of friends or something. If she's playing with you (making you wait) she will accept the request then because she would think you don't care so she would want to get back your attention.
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I'm starting to stress it's the following morning and she hasn't accepted.
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18 d
You were right she accepted my friend request. She did it like just over 24hrs later
Opinion Owner

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Great news! Good luck.
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You reckon she wanted to make me think about her
Opinion Owner

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Yea she probably likes you but didn't wanna seem desperate.
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She is shy with me in person.
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Like it's weird she behaved open with me and was chatty with me and now has gone shy/nervous towards me. The day I added her on Facebook it was like she ignored me but she looked at me in distance and looked away. I had to add her to see if she will become more comfortable with me
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I'm noticing she does go on a few times a day. So I feel she definitely left me with the suspense of wondering whether she would add me. It certainly worked that's for sure.
Opinion Owner

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I think that she likes you but she's not sure if you like her in "that way" so she's playing it safe. Try having a regular conversation with her and when you all are laughing about something mundane watch her pause and say something like "you know I don't know anyone like you... you are pretty special" or something like that to let her know that you don't think of her as just anybody. When you say it just pause and see if she says anything... she may 1). Ask you to expand i. e. she might say "what do you mean by that" (this means she likes you and wants you to compliment her more) or 2). Change topics and dismiss the comment (this may mean that she is not as interested as you). If she asks what you mean say you wish you could be with someone special LIKE her or something like that. Then ask her what she thinks of you and take it from there. This way you're not putting yourself too out there but you can still gauge how she feels about you.
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Yeah but that can sound a bit full on. Especially when you work with the person. She had fake tan on once and i said " I see you got a bit of sun". She said it's actually fake tan. I said " oh really it looks really good ".

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If you crush sends you a Facebook friend request. How long do you wait beford you accept the request?

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Opinion Owner

I would probably wait till the next day.

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Asker

Really why is that?

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Opinion Owner

Don't want to look too eager.

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Asker

I sent her a friend request and it's been 7 hours.

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Opinion Owner

Its ok. She will accept don't worry. Just give it a day or two.

Tip: After a day and no acceptance of the request change your profile pic to you out and about or in a group of friends or something. If she's playing with you (making you wait) she will accept the request then because she would think you don't care so she would want to get back your attention.

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Asker

I'm starting to stress it's the following morning and she hasn't accepted.

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Asker

You were right she accepted my friend request. She did it like just over 24hrs later

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Opinion Owner

Great news! Good luck.

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Asker

You reckon she wanted to make me think about her

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Opinion Owner

Yea she probably likes you but didn't wanna seem desperate.

Answer 18

Asker

She is shy with me in person.

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Asker

Like it's weird she behaved open with me and was chatty with me and now has gone shy/nervous towards me. The day I added her on Facebook it was like she ignored me but she looked at me in distance and looked away. I had to add her to see if she will become more comfortable with me

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Asker

I'm noticing she does go on a few times a day. So I feel she definitely left me with the suspense of wondering whether she would add me. It certainly worked that's for sure.

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Opinion Owner

I think that she likes you but she's not sure if you like her in "that way" so she's playing it safe. Try having a regular conversation with her and when you all are laughing about something mundane watch her pause and say something like "you know I don't know anyone like you... you are pretty special" or something like that to let her know that you don't think of her as just anybody. When you say it just pause and see if she says anything... she may 1). Ask you to expand i. e. she might say "what do you mean by that" (this means she likes you and wants you to compliment her more) or 2). Change topics and dismiss the comment (this may mean that she is not as interested as you). If she asks what you mean say you wish you could be with someone special LIKE her or something like that. Then ask her what she thinks of you and take it from there. This way you're not putting yourself too out there but you can still gauge how she feels about you.

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Yeah but that can sound a bit full on. Especially when you work with the person. She had fake tan on once and i said " I see you got a bit of sun". She said it's actually fake tan. I said " oh really it looks really good ".

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Gwenhwyfar | 222 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

She might not like u like that

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Given when she approach me the other week and her cheeks were actually red
Gwenhwyfar

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How did she act? What did she say?
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She approached me to ask me a question. She called my name and when I responded her cheeks went very very red for no reason. It wasn't a hot day either
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Gwenhwyfar

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Tell me in detail what the convo was like besides the red cheeks part

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Asker

Given when she approach me the other week and her cheeks were actually red

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Gwenhwyfar

How did she act? What did she say?

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Asker

She approached me to ask me a question. She called my name and when I responded her cheeks went very very red for no reason. It wasn't a hot day either

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Gwenhwyfar

Tell me in detail what the convo was like besides the red cheeks part

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