Why will woman not respond but will be posting on they social media?

Question

I hate it when I hit someone up to hang out or we set a date and time to do something but you never here back from them. And at the same time you see that person posting on social media about how they are hired and want to hang out with someone. That shit is annoying why do females do this shit?🙄

Answer 1

ZiZi_Bell | 92 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Most likely they aren't interested but feel it would be "mean" to straight up say that so they just ghost.
I've seen guys do this too. It's just a human anxiety reaction. Lol

MLGbreezy

25 d
I'd rather people just he straight up ugh and even worse then they will hmu a week or a few days later tryna do sum
MLGbreezy

25 d
This isn't a romantic interest but as a friend you'd think someone could just be straight up with you especially if they claim they feel they can be themselves around you
ZiZi_Bell

25 d
I get that, but that's not how everyone thinks.
And them contacting you later just means they do want to hang out, it just wasn't a good time when you contacted them before.
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MLGbreezy

25 d
But your missing my point you can't post telling someone to hit you up to hang out then never respond to that person and then a week later hit then up on some hey wassup we haven't talked in a while

Answer 2

MLGbreezy

I'd rather people just he straight up ugh and even worse then they will hmu a week or a few days later tryna do sum

Answer 3

MLGbreezy

This isn't a romantic interest but as a friend you'd think someone could just be straight up with you especially if they claim they feel they can be themselves around you

Answer 4

ZiZi_Bell

I get that, but that's not how everyone thinks.
And them contacting you later just means they do want to hang out, it just wasn't a good time when you contacted them before.

Answer 5

MLGbreezy

But your missing my point you can't post telling someone to hit you up to hang out then never respond to that person and then a week later hit then up on some hey wassup we haven't talked in a while

Answer 6

Anonymous

I agree with the other poster that said they don't value you. They want attention but not from you because they don't value your attention (I'm not trying to be mean). I suggest you pull away from the person. Go no contact for like 2 weeks and see what happens. They will start contacting you but by that time who knows you probably won't even be interested anymore...

Answer 7

Anonymous

they probably just don’t value you enough or they don’t like talking to people all the time. maybe they care more about their social media pages.

MLGbreezy

25 d
if that's the case then why don't they even have social media it's a place to literally be social it's in the name. and if that's also the case then they should be making post telling people to hit them up so they can hang out after work. Further more if they don't like me or value me then I don't know why they just don't unfriend me or stop talking to me cause shits honestly fucking annoying. It's even more annoying when you had set something up with that person to help you do something important and you are trying to reach then all fucking week and the day before or day of they tell you they can't do it and that they are sorry cause they don't be in they social media that much yet they made like 4 post in the last 6 hrs
MLGbreezy

25 d
Females piss me off so much sometimes I swear
Opinion Owner

25 d
those kinds of girls are honestly fucked up and not even worth your time. they usually want validation from others hence why they keep on canceling plans (they just like knowing people want to spend time with them) it seems like they are not ready for relationships or even friendships lol
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MLGbreezy

25 d
Seriously tho what is even more annoying is they will then hit you up a week later randomly. I try not to take things personally but it's just irritating sometimes anyway thanks for the advice
Opinion Owner

25 d
Ikr. that has happened to me with guys but I just block them because they don’t count as ‘men’ in my eyes and I don’t want to associate with anybody who is inconsistent. there are girls out there who won’t do that to you, they will come. just patience is key. I know this shit is irritating you but please know that you’re worth more than these unreliable girls. at least you know that they aren’t relationship-material before even dating them. and no prob :)

Answer 8

MLGbreezy

if that's the case then why don't they even have social media it's a place to literally be social it's in the name. and if that's also the case then they should be making post telling people to hit them up so they can hang out after work. Further more if they don't like me or value me then I don't know why they just don't unfriend me or stop talking to me cause shits honestly fucking annoying. It's even more annoying when you had set something up with that person to help you do something important and you are trying to reach then all fucking week and the day before or day of they tell you they can't do it and that they are sorry cause they don't be in they social media that much yet they made like 4 post in the last 6 hrs

Answer 9

MLGbreezy

Females piss me off so much sometimes I swear

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

those kinds of girls are honestly fucked up and not even worth your time. they usually want validation from others hence why they keep on canceling plans (they just like knowing people want to spend time with them) it seems like they are not ready for relationships or even friendships lol

Answer 11

MLGbreezy

Seriously tho what is even more annoying is they will then hit you up a week later randomly. I try not to take things personally but it's just irritating sometimes anyway thanks for the advice

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

Ikr. that has happened to me with guys but I just block them because they don’t count as ‘men’ in my eyes and I don’t want to associate with anybody who is inconsistent. there are girls out there who won’t do that to you, they will come. just patience is key. I know this shit is irritating you but please know that you’re worth more than these unreliable girls. at least you know that they aren’t relationship-material before even dating them. and no prob :)

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