Why do I only attract people who likes to socially degrade me in front of other people?

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Both romantic and platonic, it seems like the only thing people around me want to do, when we're out, is to make me seem like a good for nothing idiot. All my romantic relationships have been with boys who fetishised my alternative style and made fun of my in front of family and friends and I'm so tired of it but it doesn't seem like anyone else wants to be my friend or be with me sexually. To rephrase, I feel like I have to be a fetishised stupid little girl for anyone to wanna spend time with me. What am I doing wrong?

Answer 1

socksguy

Xper 6

Stand up for yourself and make no mistake how you are to be treated. You're not doing anything wrong, but take your power back, and don't let ANYONE belittle you.

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Answer 2

Avicenna | 3.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Maybe you should keep this fetish to yourself until you can trust someone.

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lilpl124e

1 y
That's the thing, I don't really have a fetish, I'm very vanilla, but apparently my style is apparently a turn on for people who like the more extreme Dom/sub thing. So they see me as a sub who should be treated as less than them in many ways.

Answer 3

lilpl124e

That's the thing, I don't really have a fetish, I'm very vanilla, but apparently my style is apparently a turn on for people who like the more extreme Dom/sub thing. So they see me as a sub who should be treated as less than them in many ways.

Answer 4

msc545 | 668 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

It's very difficult to tell from your sparse description of yourself what is going on however I am certain it has something to do with you. Maybe it's related to your alternative Style?

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lilpl124e

1 y
Maybe it is, and maybe I should change it, but I really feel comfortable in my clothes. I don't really share the alternative culture, I just like the clothes.
msc545

1 y
Well then, even simple choices like clothes have consequences

Answer 5

lilpl124e

Maybe it is, and maybe I should change it, but I really feel comfortable in my clothes. I don't really share the alternative culture, I just like the clothes.

Answer 6

msc545

Well then, even simple choices like clothes have consequences

Answer 7

Iron_Man | 4.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

You have to tell us about what you’re doing what your lifestyle is?

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lilpl124e

1 y
I honestly feel like I have a very normal lifestyle. I work a normal job and enjoy the same activities as my peers such as social media, netflix, reading and sports. The only niche thing is that I sometimes wear alternative clothing.
Iron_Man

1 y
Ok that’s it

Answer 8

lilpl124e

I honestly feel like I have a very normal lifestyle. I work a normal job and enjoy the same activities as my peers such as social media, netflix, reading and sports. The only niche thing is that I sometimes wear alternative clothing.

Answer 9

Iron_Man

Ok that’s it

Answer 10

con19th

Xper 5

Easy target clearly, just call them a cunt

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Why do I only attract people who likes to socially degrade me in front of other people?

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