Why do I only attract people who likes to socially degrade me in front of other people?

Both romantic and platonic, it seems like the only thing people around me want to do, when we're out, is to make me seem like a good for nothing idiot. All my romantic relationships have been with boys who fetishised my alternative style and made fun of my in front of family and friends and I'm so tired of it but it doesn't seem like anyone else wants to be my friend or be with me sexually. To rephrase, I feel like I have to be a fetishised stupid little girl for anyone to wanna spend time with me. What am I doing wrong?
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