What do I change? How?

[TemptedTerry]

Man, you need to find out what her motives are for asking you to change.

Did you game all the time with your friends and neglect her? Then it's obvious.

Is she asking for more attention/gifts etc, but doesn't offer them to you as much? Then there are issues there you perhaps want to address.

The main thing is not to lose your self respect. Doing that can give her power over you, however unintentional on both parts.

She needs to be clear, and you need to defend yourself if her complaints aren't warranted. Otherwise you may stay together short term, based on her power over you, but that can't last. She will lose respect for you and move on.

Tread carefully.

[YourSong]

The things you did wrong