Why do some girls behave this way?

Question

You meet a girl, she shows interest, but once you start to show interest she begins to start trying to making you jealous, sometimes even going to the extreme of using another guy, you begin to get confused & frustrated so you start to ignore the girl, once you do that they begin to either get upset or moody looking like it really bothers them, they linger around you but it’s like there not able to communicate so they just stand there with a lost look on there faces.

Answer 1

Hangry22

Guru

The girl's trying to get you to show your feelings. She thinks by showing that she's not interested in you, you would start to feel insecure and try to chase her. But most times the guy thinks the girl has lost interest and moves on. When the plan fails, the girl feel sad and doesn't know what to say or do. So she gets mad because she thinks the guy didn't actually like her that much enough to go after her. When a girl does this, it's not because she doesn't like you, it's because she likes you that she does this.
Ik it's hard for you guys to understand but it's the truth which happens to fail most times (mine failed 😅😅)

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cgdude

1 y
when they already showed you that they love you why you wanna let them chase you. Whats fun in that. Tbh its like playing with the feelings of guys. Girls don't even understand how much pain guys take when they have to let her go.
Hangry22

1 y
@cgdude If they already showed, I don't see the reason why girls do it. I did it because the guy didn't confess anything. So kinda like a test.
Hey girls get played too and feels hurt when they have to let go of a guy they like
cgdude

1 y
maybe fuckboys play these types of games but i don't think a guy who really cares for you would do such a thing. and what's the point in playing such a game in which he would leave you in the end.
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Hangry22

1 y
Ya fuckbois are the ones who play such games
ivancho1BG

1 y
No, it'll make me desperate, hurt and screwed over. I will start acting cold because i'll feel like "im not enough" or really liked.

Guys, or at least I, dont rant how i got into a fight with a guy only to show her how strong i am or to make her impressed. I dont see the point in this.
Hangry22

1 y
@ivancho1BG I learned that just now. If a girl stops acting interested, the guy would do the same and act cold. I learned the lesson. It's better to confess and ask things you want to. You can get to know if you're on the same page or not.
ivancho1BG

1 y
@Hangry22 There are probably plenty of guys who will get along with it, I just wouldn't. I'm peaceful, i dont want to get into problems. I don't like competing for "the heart of the girl". I remember once a girl made it seem more innocent, that a guy was disturbing her, and I went out a bit out of my way to tell her what to do if a similar situation occurs. She thought that this was a sign that i like her and she kinda hurt herself, i feel bad for her.

And no, im not straight to the point person, im one to overthink a lot. I'm fine with some clues or responses that you like me, just don't do me like that.

Sorry for my ranting.

Answer 2

cgdude

when they already showed you that they love you why you wanna let them chase you. Whats fun in that. Tbh its like playing with the feelings of guys. Girls don't even understand how much pain guys take when they have to let her go.

Answer 3

Hangry22

@cgdude If they already showed, I don't see the reason why girls do it. I did it because the guy didn't confess anything. So kinda like a test.
Hey girls get played too and feels hurt when they have to let go of a guy they like

Answer 4

cgdude

maybe fuckboys play these types of games but i don't think a guy who really cares for you would do such a thing. and what's the point in playing such a game in which he would leave you in the end.

Answer 5

Hangry22

Ya fuckbois are the ones who play such games

Answer 6

ivancho1BG

No, it'll make me desperate, hurt and screwed over. I will start acting cold because i'll feel like "im not enough" or really liked.

Guys, or at least I, dont rant how i got into a fight with a guy only to show her how strong i am or to make her impressed. I dont see the point in this.

Answer 7

Hangry22

@ivancho1BG I learned that just now. If a girl stops acting interested, the guy would do the same and act cold. I learned the lesson. It's better to confess and ask things you want to. You can get to know if you're on the same page or not.

Answer 8

ivancho1BG

@Hangry22 There are probably plenty of guys who will get along with it, I just wouldn't. I'm peaceful, i dont want to get into problems. I don't like competing for "the heart of the girl". I remember once a girl made it seem more innocent, that a guy was disturbing her, and I went out a bit out of my way to tell her what to do if a similar situation occurs. She thought that this was a sign that i like her and she kinda hurt herself, i feel bad for her.

And no, im not straight to the point person, im one to overthink a lot. I'm fine with some clues or responses that you like me, just don't do me like that.

Sorry for my ranting.

Answer 9

cgdude

Xper 1

I don't know if this happens or not but girls like to play with feelings a lot and a guy like me would just hate it.
It's like I would never let my girl get away with me until she cares for me but if she is gonna play with my feelings with these types of fuckin games I am not gonna chase her at all bcz it just shows me that she can leave me any day without caring even a little bit.
And I think a guy who care for his self worth would do the same and should do the same. Our heart is not a toy so girls should be really careful when they do these types of cheap things.
But i really think doing these kinda things is really common for girls.

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Answer 10

winterfox10

Master

Could be a lack of self confidence thing. A lot of women will give guys little tests to see how interested he is. They seem to need reassurance from time to time

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Answer 11

jennifer_bloom | 1.8K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I started ignoring one of my friends because I believe God told me too - it still doesn’t make sense to me why

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Answer 12

hahahmm | 581 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Wants to have power over you. Do yourself a favor and ignore women who play games like that 100%.

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Answer 13

Lucifer__

Xper 1

Girls generally do this to see whether you have courage or ability ti win her back.

And if you fail or quite because you that she is already engaged , they will become upset.

So go and grab her in public!! She will love it !!❤️

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Answer 14

Anonymous

"she shows interest, but once you start to show interest she begins to start trying to making you jealous..." they want you to chase them. harder and faster

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Answer 15

Anonymous

Cuz they want you to chase them

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