She doesn’t want like me and isn’t interested in anything but occasionally idle chat, why does she text me?

Question

We met in person

Answer 1

jennifer_bloom | 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Either lonely or bored or wants to exploit your connections or likes you but does not trust you

React

Asker

1 y
Exploit my connections?
jennifer_bloom

1 y
Like maybe doesn’t have friends so wants to become friends with your friends
Asker

1 y
Oh got it. I don’t think this is the case because she doesn’t even want to come around me. I think she is just lonely and bored and using me to kill time. She said herself she doesn’t like me that way

Answer 2

Asker

Exploit my connections?

Answer 3

jennifer_bloom

Like maybe doesn’t have friends so wants to become friends with your friends

Answer 4

Asker

Oh got it. I don’t think this is the case because she doesn’t even want to come around me. I think she is just lonely and bored and using me to kill time. She said herself she doesn’t like me that way

Answer 5

rachel776 | 402 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

grls like to chat sometimes

React

Asker

1 y
I notice that and usually it’s about nothing. Girls just want someone to boost their ego and entertain them when they’re bored
Caynen

1 y
@rachel776 u ok

Answer 6

Asker

I notice that and usually it’s about nothing. Girls just want someone to boost their ego and entertain them when they’re bored

Answer 7

Caynen

@rachel776 u ok

Answer 8

socksguy

Xper 6

Because she's bored and you answer.

React

Asker

1 y
So she only text me because I’m bored and nothing else?
socksguy

1 y
No idea... it's my opinion. You should ask her.
Asker

1 y
Honestly why would she be honest and if I ask her why do you text me but not interested in hanging out? In fact I already did and it’s because I like her

Answer 9

Asker

So she only text me because I’m bored and nothing else?

Answer 10

socksguy

No idea... it's my opinion. You should ask her.

Answer 11

Asker

Honestly why would she be honest and if I ask her why do you text me but not interested in hanging out? In fact I already did and it’s because I like her

Answer 12

TeddyGotT

Xper 5

Because you're her friend

React

Asker

1 y
I didn’t know this was friendship
TeddyGotT

1 y
How? You outlined it perfectly in your title.
Asker

1 y
Idle chatting is not friendship
Show All Show Less
TeddyGotT

1 y
Yeah it is, you don't have to constantly hang out with a person to be their friend.
Asker

1 y
I never said anything about hanging out let alone constantly hanging out. In fact we never hang out at all since we met and we live in the same city. This has been a issue for years. I think that is a problem
TeddyGotT

1 y
Yes I know you didn't, it was hyperbolic. She is still your friend, just a very distant one.
Asker

1 y
I disagree
TeddyGotT

1 y
I figured as much

Answer 13

Asker

I didn’t know this was friendship

Answer 14

TeddyGotT

How? You outlined it perfectly in your title.

Answer 15

Asker

Idle chatting is not friendship

Answer 16

TeddyGotT

Yeah it is, you don't have to constantly hang out with a person to be their friend.

Answer 17

Asker

I never said anything about hanging out let alone constantly hanging out. In fact we never hang out at all since we met and we live in the same city. This has been a issue for years. I think that is a problem

Answer 18

TeddyGotT

Yes I know you didn't, it was hyperbolic. She is still your friend, just a very distant one.

Answer 19

Asker

I disagree

Answer 20

TeddyGotT

I figured as much

Answer 21

Gwenhwyfar

Master

Likes idle chat

React

Asker

1 y
Yea but I don’t and I’m pretty sure most people don’t
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
I do
Asker

1 y
Let me rephrase that most guys don’t
Show All Show Less
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
Got it
Asker

1 y
Especially if you’re talking about nothing and texting just to text me what’s the point?
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
It’s fun. Keeps her from getting bored. Like this chat is doing with me.
Asker

1 y
I’m glad I could entertain you. Hear me out I use this site when I’m bored. Me and her met in person so this isn’t a online friend. I would think this is different
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
She still just wants to chat
Asker

1 y
Okay

Answer 22

Asker

Yea but I don’t and I’m pretty sure most people don’t

Answer 23

Gwenhwyfar

I do

Answer 24

Asker

Let me rephrase that most guys don’t

Answer 25

Gwenhwyfar

Got it

Answer 26

Asker

Especially if you’re talking about nothing and texting just to text me what’s the point?

Answer 27

Gwenhwyfar

It’s fun. Keeps her from getting bored. Like this chat is doing with me.

Answer 28

Asker

I’m glad I could entertain you. Hear me out I use this site when I’m bored. Me and her met in person so this isn’t a online friend. I would think this is different

Answer 29

Gwenhwyfar

She still just wants to chat

Answer 30

Gundham

Xper 1

Cuz she's bored?

React

Asker

1 y
I think so. Maybe she just wants to be friends I don’t really know.

Answer 31

Asker

I think so. Maybe she just wants to be friends I don’t really know.

She doesn’t want like me and isn’t interested in anything but occasionally idle chat, why does she text me?

AI Bot Choice

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes