Why do women sleep around during their youth and the complain about not finding a true relationship in the future?

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I'm not saying people dont have the right to sleep around if they feel like doing so, because after all who am I to judge?

but now logically speaking if finding a good relationship someday is one of your priorities in life then why fuck up this same priority for yourself by sleeping around before getting there?

do women not realize that the majority of men who do prioritize serious commitments do not want to waste it all on women who are used up? I mean I can write a book on why is justifying for us men to have these views. used up women are obviously not relationship material because obviously is she had the need to be with different men in such a short period of time then it means she doesn't know what serious commitments are to begin with. lets not forget that sleeping around left to right can also be a sign of insanity, its insane women who love to sleep around because again this is the only way they can feel love and validation and again no man wants to commit to this either.

till then I just ask myself why do these women do this to themselves?

Why do women sleep around during their youth and the complain about not finding a true relationship in the future?

Answer 1

Reaperbot666 | 174 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

it has been proven by many recent studies. that women with a long list of former partners. in either causal hookups or relationships. have a harder time later finding and maintaining a long term relationship. because they become mentally and emotionally scared by their past. while at the same time comparing their former partners to their current one. which leads many of them to end up cheating on their current partner. over time guys will also start to see those girls as damaged goods. who are not worth investing in long term.

part of why I won't even bother with a girl. who has a former partner count more then single digits.

CasaNorba

19 d
that's exactly what I'm saying. I guess women nowadays love to underestimate their own biology. they are so damn desperate to fit in and get an ego boost that will eventually disregard the major consequences
Reaperbot666

19 d
plus by the time their ready to find a long term partner. they often have a few kids by a few different guys or have had a few abortions. which can make them seem like they are physically damaged goods.
CasaNorba

19 d
super damage goods alright. but its funny how these same damaged goods are the ones who tend to bitch and complain the most when men dont value them the way they wish they were valued
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Reaperbot666

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many of them these days. waste their youth trying to chase Chads and Tyrone's. hoping one of them will be exclusive with them. but those types of guys have so many girls to pick from. they almost never settle down with anything under a natural 9 or 10 if at all.
Reaperbot666

19 d
many modern girls these days seem to want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average looks, above average penis size.
which already limits their choices to roughly 5-10% of guys world wide. if you factor in all of those requirements. so if she only wants one of those type of guys.
she should be ready to share him with other girls. as there is a good chance those guys will never settle down. because those guys often have dozen of girls throwing themselves at them.

Answer 2

CasaNorba

that's exactly what I'm saying. I guess women nowadays love to underestimate their own biology. they are so damn desperate to fit in and get an ego boost that will eventually disregard the major consequences

Answer 3

Reaperbot666

plus by the time their ready to find a long term partner. they often have a few kids by a few different guys or have had a few abortions. which can make them seem like they are physically damaged goods.

Answer 4

CasaNorba

super damage goods alright. but its funny how these same damaged goods are the ones who tend to bitch and complain the most when men dont value them the way they wish they were valued

Answer 5

Reaperbot666

many of them these days. waste their youth trying to chase Chads and Tyrone's. hoping one of them will be exclusive with them. but those types of guys have so many girls to pick from. they almost never settle down with anything under a natural 9 or 10 if at all.

Answer 6

Reaperbot666

many modern girls these days seem to want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average looks, above average penis size.
which already limits their choices to roughly 5-10% of guys world wide. if you factor in all of those requirements. so if she only wants one of those type of guys.
she should be ready to share him with other girls. as there is a good chance those guys will never settle down. because those guys often have dozen of girls throwing themselves at them.

Answer 7

ThisIsMyOpinion | 174 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

If a girl had fun until the day she met me, why the hell do I care about it as long as she is loyal and a overall great partner?
If get it a guy says that he doesn't want to date for example a former pronstar, or the girl that was known as the college slut. I get it, not judgging. I would probably stay away from them too.
But those are extremes! If I meet a amazing girl who simply had her share of fun, so what? So did I! I wasn't exactly a saint in that department so am I to judge?

CasaNorba

19 d
that's the point, women who sleep around are never "loyal good partners." seriously if she couldnt commit to all the dudes she fucked before you then what makes you think you're so special that she would make an exception out of you. and if you like to drive cars with high mileage that require more maintenance then that's your problem.

of course a few of us men aren't saints but you dont hear us complaining about it when women call us players, misogynist, unfaithful, etc.
ThisIsMyOpinion

19 d
I am not expecting her to be loyal to one night stands. That's not what one night stands are for. They are just for fun.
If she wasn't loyal in any of her previous relationships, it's different, of course I will stay away from her!

Ah let them call us whatever they want. It won't change a thing.
And I honestly think that the women that insult both men and women for that are the ones that don't get any dick themselves.

Answer 8

CasaNorba

that's the point, women who sleep around are never "loyal good partners." seriously if she couldnt commit to all the dudes she fucked before you then what makes you think you're so special that she would make an exception out of you. and if you like to drive cars with high mileage that require more maintenance then that's your problem.

of course a few of us men aren't saints but you dont hear us complaining about it when women call us players, misogynist, unfaithful, etc.

Answer 9

ThisIsMyOpinion

I am not expecting her to be loyal to one night stands. That's not what one night stands are for. They are just for fun.
If she wasn't loyal in any of her previous relationships, it's different, of course I will stay away from her!

Ah let them call us whatever they want. It won't change a thing.
And I honestly think that the women that insult both men and women for that are the ones that don't get any dick themselves.

Answer 10

ThongQueenFlirt

Xper 6

I wanted to wait for the man I married to be the one I want to make me that complete woman. In my youth, I didn't play around. I was a virgin until the age of 24. But I was raped. I did not deserve that to happen. It did change me into someone I didn't know. Or liked. I never wanted to get married because I didn't trust any man. Now it's a different time and place. I've changed to someone I can love. And hoping he will love me too.

Answer 11

Marilynjuana | 195 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

This is your opinion and you are entitled to it. But keep your bitterness to yourself. I am not one to sleep around but some women have different ways of living life. Sex is great. If you want a nun then go ahead, if a woman is not fit for your taste then zip it, have some class and move on. It’s also known that men are more likely to sleep around, nothing negative about it, but your rant is just weird and makes no sense.

CasaNorba

20 d
"But keep your bitterness to yourself."

looks like some is triggered if they had the need to bring this up in their second sentence.

"I am not one to sleep around but some women have different ways of living life."

it sounds like you actually do sleep around like those other women if you were triggered by this.

" If you want a nun then go ahead, if a woman is not fit for your taste then zip it, have some class and move on."

I'm not looking for any of the above but thanks for your reminder

"men are more likely to sleep around, "

yea only the 5% but you dont hear them whining about women not wanting to commit to them when they decide to "settle down"

"but your rant is just weird and makes no sense."

makes no sense yet you still answered it pretty well, and your bitterness reveals who's the one ranting here
Marilynjuana

20 d
Mate. I really don’t give a shit.
Don-_-Don

20 d
He made sure not to show that he's no bitter about it at all. Yet, here you are, still getting butthurt about his opinion. The only one being bitter here is you. I'm sure you're exactly the type of woman he's talking about, which is exactly why you're saying all of what you said here.
Tch, it's impossible to speak reason with your type.
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Don-_-Don

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Also, if you didn't give a shit, you wouldn't have shared your opinion in the first place, how contradictory.
Marilynjuana

20 d
Dear Don, don’t make accusations about me when you have no idea what you are even talking about :)
I really don’t give a shit. You two are the ones replying with essays, not me.
Marilynjuana

20 d
I reply because I am active on the site. If you aren’t butthurt then why are you so invested?
CasaNorba

20 d
@Don-_-Don exactly every thing she has said sounds very contradicting. is like she's almost or should I say IS projecting
CasaNorba

20 d
also "I dont give a shit" is usually the response that would come from someone who just lost an argument and dont have shit to say
Marilynjuana

20 d
@CasaNorba I have only been intimate with 2 men, both long-term boyfriends. What on Earth am I contradicting?
Marilynjuana

20 d
@CasaNorba “I don’t give a shit” was a response to you telling me 5x I’m triggered. You sure I am the one projecting?

Answer 12

CasaNorba

"But keep your bitterness to yourself."

looks like some is triggered if they had the need to bring this up in their second sentence.

"I am not one to sleep around but some women have different ways of living life."

it sounds like you actually do sleep around like those other women if you were triggered by this.

" If you want a nun then go ahead, if a woman is not fit for your taste then zip it, have some class and move on."

I'm not looking for any of the above but thanks for your reminder

"men are more likely to sleep around, "

yea only the 5% but you dont hear them whining about women not wanting to commit to them when they decide to "settle down"

"but your rant is just weird and makes no sense."

makes no sense yet you still answered it pretty well, and your bitterness reveals who's the one ranting here

Answer 13

Marilynjuana

Mate. I really don’t give a shit.

Answer 14

Don-_-Don

He made sure not to show that he's no bitter about it at all. Yet, here you are, still getting butthurt about his opinion. The only one being bitter here is you. I'm sure you're exactly the type of woman he's talking about, which is exactly why you're saying all of what you said here.
Tch, it's impossible to speak reason with your type.

Answer 15

Don-_-Don

Also, if you didn't give a shit, you wouldn't have shared your opinion in the first place, how contradictory.

Answer 16

Marilynjuana

Dear Don, don’t make accusations about me when you have no idea what you are even talking about :)
I really don’t give a shit. You two are the ones replying with essays, not me.

Answer 17

Marilynjuana

I reply because I am active on the site. If you aren’t butthurt then why are you so invested?

Answer 18

CasaNorba

@Don-_-Don exactly every thing she has said sounds very contradicting. is like she's almost or should I say IS projecting

Answer 19

CasaNorba

also "I dont give a shit" is usually the response that would come from someone who just lost an argument and dont have shit to say

Answer 20

Marilynjuana

@CasaNorba I have only been intimate with 2 men, both long-term boyfriends. What on Earth am I contradicting?

Answer 21

Marilynjuana

@CasaNorba “I don’t give a shit” was a response to you telling me 5x I’m triggered. You sure I am the one projecting?

Answer 22

ThisAndThat | 274 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Women have this false impression that all men are dogs that will sleep with many sex partners that sleeping with any and everything. COMPLETELY FALSE. My record to this day is 2, and it wouldn't have been two had the first one wanted to be faithful. After the second one that was the town's girl, I went MGTOW Monk and never looked back.

CasaNorba

6 d
I guess sleeping around is just a projection habit of theirs
ThisAndThat

5 d
That's how they try to justify it when they do it by accusing men of doing it.

Answer 23

CasaNorba

I guess sleeping around is just a projection habit of theirs

Answer 24

ThisAndThat

That's how they try to justify it when they do it by accusing men of doing it.

Answer 25

Liam_Hayden | 798 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

I am not certain of the correlation. My mom had a friend, absolutely lovely lady even in her mid-50's. She was widowed early and had little luck afterward. She explained it that, to her, guys want it both ways. Most focus upon sex, sex, sex, but then want a relationship with a virgin.

Answer 26

Don-_-Don | 79 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

I like how you make sure to tell us know you're not bashing women who do this, you're just asking a genuine question.

I'm not going to give you an answer for this question though, since this is a question directed towards women.

CasaNorba

20 d
Thanks, though I’m pretty the answer they’re gonna give I not gonna be anywhere near as logical and honest as yours at the moment

Answer 27

CasaNorba

Thanks, though I’m pretty the answer they’re gonna give I not gonna be anywhere near as logical and honest as yours at the moment

Answer 28

Apple1996 | 531 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

I heard that women with more sexual partners have a harder time trying to settle down. Not sure how true that is but I ain't living that life. I gave my virginity to my husband and I'm pretty happy about that.

CasaNorba

20 d
very true indeed, that's because very few men actually want to settle down with them to begin with and you know sleeping around with different folks every night pretty much destroys your ability to connect with one person. its what I tried to explain in my description.

but yea you were smart to choose the traditional way of life

Answer 29

CasaNorba

very true indeed, that's because very few men actually want to settle down with them to begin with and you know sleeping around with different folks every night pretty much destroys your ability to connect with one person. its what I tried to explain in my description.

but yea you were smart to choose the traditional way of life

Answer 30

dandiecandie | 140 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

How many partners is too many based on your opinion?

CasaNorba

19 d
maybe 5+
dandiecandie

19 d
Ok fair enough!
CasaNorba

19 d
as far as I can look back this is usually how much most average chicks will have by the time they're in high school.
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dandiecandie

19 d
Hahahaha no way thats too many for high school.
CasaNorba

19 d
trust me, the high school I went to was a headquarter of chicks with 5+ dudes. I can only imagine college
dandiecandie

19 d
Hahahhaha that's insane. It seems like they went to school to get dudes.

Answer 31

CasaNorba

maybe 5+

Answer 32

dandiecandie

Ok fair enough!

Answer 33

CasaNorba

as far as I can look back this is usually how much most average chicks will have by the time they're in high school.

Answer 34

dandiecandie

Hahahaha no way thats too many for high school.

Answer 35

CasaNorba

trust me, the high school I went to was a headquarter of chicks with 5+ dudes. I can only imagine college

Answer 36

dandiecandie

Hahahhaha that's insane. It seems like they went to school to get dudes.

Answer 37

Brendan90

Xper 1

Not all women are like that, however the few that do participate in this. Most are just insecure looking for validation.

CasaNorba

19 d
the vast majority are and yes I agree all the way with your last sentence. I just wanted to hear them testify this on their own, which so far for now I really doubt the will

Answer 38

CasaNorba

the vast majority are and yes I agree all the way with your last sentence. I just wanted to hear them testify this on their own, which so far for now I really doubt the will

Answer 39

Mollynotgemma | 98 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

I’ve had many sexual partners and relationships and struggle to settle down!

CasaNorba

20 d
not surprised, sure wish more women were as honest as you.

not because I want to settle down or sleep around but because I just hate hypocrisy

Answer 40

CasaNorba

not surprised, sure wish more women were as honest as you.

not because I want to settle down or sleep around but because I just hate hypocrisy

Answer 41

joshtheman

Xper 4

Good question.

Why do women sleep around during their youth and the complain about not finding a true relationship in the future?

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