Why are some women such users towards guys? A guy is a caring friend and they text him with their problems non stop?

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Why? Then some women wonder why men can be distant and cold. Seriously if you need help get counselling or something

Answer 1

Xper 6

What are friends? 🙄

They aren’t using you, they think you are a friend, and friends talk about life issues. It’s normal. If you are a friend that cares, then you will genuinely be there to listen and support. However, if you think some people are overbearing... Then, you just need to assert boundaries. For example, you have a test coming up... you can’t be there fully... but you can get back to them when you can.

Answer 2

TeddyGotT

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So you're complaining that you being a caring person is causing people to come to you with their issues? That's how that shit works you donkey.

Asker

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Why employ psychologists when all the caring people can just address issues then? Seriously
TeddyGotT

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They don't come to you to solve anything, they come to you because you're basically their support blanket. If you don't like it (which is fair) then consider being less of the person you are now.
Asker

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I have learnt to withdraw it. I can’t change being a caring person but I can moderate it. I usually call people out for it or just withdraw it
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TeddyGotT

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Keep it up long enough and you should see a decent decline in people coming to you with their issues.
Asker

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I hope so. It’s nice to be there for someone but there’s a difference between being a therapist for someone and being a friend. A friend can provide brief support but for continued support I think it’s best to see a professional

Answer 3

Asker

Why employ psychologists when all the caring people can just address issues then? Seriously

Answer 4

TeddyGotT

They don't come to you to solve anything, they come to you because you're basically their support blanket. If you don't like it (which is fair) then consider being less of the person you are now.

Answer 5

Asker

I have learnt to withdraw it. I can’t change being a caring person but I can moderate it. I usually call people out for it or just withdraw it

Answer 6

TeddyGotT

Keep it up long enough and you should see a decent decline in people coming to you with their issues.

Answer 7

Asker

I hope so. It’s nice to be there for someone but there’s a difference between being a therapist for someone and being a friend. A friend can provide brief support but for continued support I think it’s best to see a professional

Answer 8

RenWalker101

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Because you let them.
I've learned to avoid the people who just want to dump all their problems on me so they can feel better.

Answer 9

Anonymous

This is “friendship” to woman. They dump all their problems on you but they don’t invest nothing else. I’m sorry but I’m not a therapist

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Why are some women such users towards guys? A guy is a caring friend and they text him with their problems non stop?

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