Why don't women initiate sex even though they desire the man so so much?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

See, you answered your own question with your update, you're generalizing..
Maybe "some" women don't, but "some" women do... And the ones that don't, there could be lots of different reasons...
Example: Maybe the guy only wants sex when he wants it, so she stops asking or initiating...
Best way to get that answer is if/when you're in a relationship and you don't feel they initiate sex enough, is to ask her why, and explain men want to feel desired, wanted to, and how you don't want to be the one initiating sex all the time...

[rainpeltbriver]

Personally because of trauma and insecurities from emotional and mental abuse. Every girl is different. And our vaginas have a mind of their own. The muscles literally can hold grudges and if your body doesn’t always cooperate with your mind that can be an even bigger insecurity.

[TemptedTerry]

Generally, women want their man to want them. And if you initate sex, you are telling her you want her, and she is desirable.

It's not always the case of course. Other women are confident enough to know what they want, and they try to get it.

What can also be a factor is the environment of the relationship, and how good the man actually is in bed lol.

*tip: a sexually satisfied wife, makes for a much happier life ;)

[MountAverage]

I hate to burst your bubble there, but that seems to be a problem YOU have. Women definitely do initiate sex a lot. Sucks for you they don't do it with you, but I guess that means you should work on improving some things about yourself!

[Juxtapose]

They always want to be in the role of the one who can reject rather than be the one who has to take the risk of being rejected.

It's born out of emotional fragility and laziness

[_piotr]

Women just do not desire men sexually as men desire women. They function differently.

[soleil7000]

The book called 'the rules'. American rubbish

[Anonymous]

Women are subs... you have to take them.

[AlwaysBelieving]

All of the above.

[Redstang88]

Sure they do

[In_Trance]

They do