Girls, How can a guy seriously be expected to ever date when women are legitimate afraid of me?

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Like I’m just walking home from grabbing stuff at a close by cvs and I happen to be walking behind a girl and she looked back at least 6 or 7 times here’s the thing nothing is off about me I’m not behaving abnormal that would cause someone to be on edge like I’m not creepily following her she just happens to be walking in the same direction my apartment is.

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Thanks

Answer 1

Gwenhwyfar

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You probably just scared her. Don’t take it personal.

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Asker

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How did I scare her
Gwenhwyfar

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Not sure
Gwenhwyfar

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Walking too close?
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Asker

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No I was way behind her
Asker

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I even kept looking down at my phone occasionally because she kept looking back like it was really just getting awkward
Gwenhwyfar

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U made her feel unsafe. Not sure exactly why she felt that way.
EmmaMary

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You shouldn't take this personal simply because any lone woman is going to be on her guard.
Asker

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This is why I don’t even try to date it’s like why lol women are scared of me
Asker

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But this wasn’t at night this was in broad daylight, I wasn’t walking close and lastly I wasn’t acting out of ordinary and I am a university student just like she is. Had on a plain t shirt jeans and Nike shoes
EmmaMary

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I can assure you that it would not just be you, it would be for any guy following.
Gwenhwyfar

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@EmmaMary exactly
Asker

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Yeah I just started to feel bad and thought this is why I can’t get a girl to like me they are afraid
Asker

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Could this be race based?
Gwenhwyfar

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They would not be afraid in a classroom setting or a campus cafe. It’s just different.

I gotta get to work. Good luck.
EmmaMary

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And I've got a baby needing my attention.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Asker

How did I scare her

Answer 3

Gwenhwyfar

Not sure

Answer 4

Gwenhwyfar

Walking too close?

Answer 5

Asker

No I was way behind her

Answer 6

Asker

I even kept looking down at my phone occasionally because she kept looking back like it was really just getting awkward

Answer 7

Gwenhwyfar

U made her feel unsafe. Not sure exactly why she felt that way.

Answer 8

EmmaMary

You shouldn't take this personal simply because any lone woman is going to be on her guard.

Answer 9

Asker

This is why I don’t even try to date it’s like why lol women are scared of me

Answer 10

Asker

But this wasn’t at night this was in broad daylight, I wasn’t walking close and lastly I wasn’t acting out of ordinary and I am a university student just like she is. Had on a plain t shirt jeans and Nike shoes