Why do girls laugh at guys who try to be confident?

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Like how can a guy ever raise his self esteem when you have people like this who
are relentless

Answer 1

Explorer

There will always be people out there who will enjoy seeing you in shambles.
I never felt the need to laugh at someone who is just trying to become a better person.
Don't pay the women who do that any mind, they're not worth the pain cells.
No matter what you do, no matter what other people do to you, the end is the same for all of us.
Just do you.

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Answer 2

winterfox10

Master

It seems like a lot of women view men as entertainment.

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Answer 3

flowers95

Xper 3

If they laugh at you, they’re NOT for you. Keep working on yourself and the RIGHT girl will recognize your confidence as attractive.

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Asker

1 y
So I have been working on myself for awhile
flowers95

1 y
keep going!
flowers95

1 y
Also, it’s good to note that if you accept the flaws about yourself no one can use it against you
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Asker

1 y
Well I can show you the biggest flaw I have is accepting my ugly face
flowers95

1 y
you have to change your perspective. change ugly to different
flowers95

1 y
looks isn’t everything if you have a bad personality. don’t limit your value to just looks
Asker

1 y
Looks matter https://imgur.com/a/26sl8G0 I have a good personality but I realize that women want a guy who is easy on the eyes
flowers95

1 y
Not all women are like that. Where are you finding these girls? because that can impact why you keep getting the same responses
Asker

1 y
You seen my picture my odds are very low with any women
flowers95

1 y
In my opinion, your odds are very low because of your negative self talk. I personally didn’t think you were ugly. But you probably wouldn’t believe me because of what you believe about yourself. How can you want women to find you attractive if you don’t think and carry yourself like you’re attractive?
Asker

1 y
Because I have a very belief in telling the truth and that includes what I say to myself I feel like if I tell myself I’m attractive I’m lying
flowers95

1 y
what do you feel like you need to change about your looks to be attractive?
Asker

1 y
My face

Answer 4

Asker

So I have been working on myself for awhile

Answer 5

flowers95

keep going!

Answer 6

flowers95

Also, it’s good to note that if you accept the flaws about yourself no one can use it against you

Answer 7

Asker

Well I can show you the biggest flaw I have is accepting my ugly face

Answer 8

flowers95

you have to change your perspective. change ugly to different

Answer 9

flowers95

looks isn’t everything if you have a bad personality. don’t limit your value to just looks

Answer 10

Asker

Looks matter https://imgur.com/a/26sl8G0 I have a good personality but I realize that women want a guy who is easy on the eyes

Answer 11

flowers95

Not all women are like that. Where are you finding these girls? because that can impact why you keep getting the same responses

Answer 12

Asker

You seen my picture my odds are very low with any women

Answer 13

flowers95

In my opinion, your odds are very low because of your negative self talk. I personally didn’t think you were ugly. But you probably wouldn’t believe me because of what you believe about yourself. How can you want women to find you attractive if you don’t think and carry yourself like you’re attractive?

Answer 14

Asker

Because I have a very belief in telling the truth and that includes what I say to myself I feel like if I tell myself I’m attractive I’m lying

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flowers95

what do you feel like you need to change about your looks to be attractive?

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Asker

My face

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KrakenAttackin | 757 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Women/girls have much easier lives than men. Females have no idea what men go through so there is no sense in trying to get them to understand how their mercilessness effects men. Just move on.

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303savedmylife

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What are men going through that women can't understand?
KrakenAttackin

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@303savedmylife If you have to ask you would not understand.
303savedmylife

1 y
Looks like you already know where I was going with this and called it quits. Fair choice.

Answer 18

303savedmylife

What are men going through that women can't understand?

Answer 19

KrakenAttackin

@303savedmylife If you have to ask you would not understand.

Answer 20

303savedmylife

Looks like you already know where I was going with this and called it quits. Fair choice.

Answer 21

Anonymous

If he was confident he wouldn’t care that girls were laughing

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Asker

1 y
Well the thing is it’s never gonna get better
Opinion Owner

1 y
Then he’ll remain insecure, if you’re really that confident. Why do you care if a girl is laughing? Maybe she’s the insecure one
Asker

1 y
Well I don’t know all I know is I was standing outside waiting on some groceries from Instacart and she walked by with her boyfriend and was laughing at me
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Opinion Owner

1 y
I’m not saying this to offend you in any way. But you need to gain confidence, and not give a fuck about a random bitch laughing at you. She was probably laughing at something else, but your insecurities are telling you that she was laughing at you. Gain confidence! FTB
Asker

1 y
If you seen what I look like it’s very hard to be confident
Opinion Owner

1 y
You’re the only one tearing yourself down. You could be a solid 2, but if you’re confident, dress the right way, (sounds bad but can’t be too nice either), you’ll be fine. But start to read into things to gain confidence and you’ll see
Asker

1 y
Well I literally never had a girl compliment me so I don’t think it’s just me
Opinion Owner

1 y
Everything you’re saying is you being insecure
Asker

1 y
But they don’t compliment me
Opinion Owner

1 y
Girls don’t just compliment guys
Asker

1 y
Ok so what am I supposed to go off then
Opinion Owner

1 y
Just be confident lmao, even if you’re not. You can’t let anyone know that you’re insecure
Asker

1 y
Well that’s definitely not gonna happen I always look at the ground
Opinion Owner

1 y
Okay then you’re the problem
Asker

1 y
How am I the problem you can’t make people accept or like you

Answer 22

Asker

Well the thing is it’s never gonna get better

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Then he’ll remain insecure, if you’re really that confident. Why do you care if a girl is laughing? Maybe she’s the insecure one

Answer 24

Asker

Well I don’t know all I know is I was standing outside waiting on some groceries from Instacart and she walked by with her boyfriend and was laughing at me

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

I’m not saying this to offend you in any way. But you need to gain confidence, and not give a fuck about a random bitch laughing at you. She was probably laughing at something else, but your insecurities are telling you that she was laughing at you. Gain confidence! FTB

Answer 26

Asker

If you seen what I look like it’s very hard to be confident

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

You’re the only one tearing yourself down. You could be a solid 2, but if you’re confident, dress the right way, (sounds bad but can’t be too nice either), you’ll be fine. But start to read into things to gain confidence and you’ll see

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Asker

Well I literally never had a girl compliment me so I don’t think it’s just me

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

Everything you’re saying is you being insecure

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Asker

But they don’t compliment me

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Opinion Owner

Girls don’t just compliment guys

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Asker

Ok so what am I supposed to go off then

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

Just be confident lmao, even if you’re not. You can’t let anyone know that you’re insecure

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Asker

Well that’s definitely not gonna happen I always look at the ground

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Opinion Owner

Okay then you’re the problem

Answer 36

Asker

How am I the problem you can’t make people accept or like you

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SexyAshh | 345 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

We dont? Unless its obviouslu forced

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Asker

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It wasn’t forced
Asker

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She also was with her boyfriend

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Asker

It wasn’t forced

Answer 39

Asker

She also was with her boyfriend

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In_Trance | 2.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Its in disbelief; something they can never be

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