What may be the reasons why you talk to a guy through DM's but not give him your number?

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Let's say you consider a guy funny, sweet, kind-hearted, laid back, seems sincere, you respond to his messages but you don't give him your #

Answer 1

Brainsbeforebeauty | 482 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Because dm's are safer then giving out your #..."seems sincere"..…Seems and knowing are not the same thing...
I don't know how long you were talking but if she's not comfortable giving out her number, it's probably better to wait till she is...

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Asker

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We’ve been chatting through dms for probably 2 years well really a year and a half or so
Brainsbeforebeauty

1 y
Well then maybe she doesn't want to take it past dm🤷🏼‍♀️
Asker

1 y
Well that’s a swift kick to the testicles
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Brainsbeforebeauty

1 y
Ouch sounds painful... least it's a virtual kick and not IRL kick 😅🤣
Asker

1 y
Well in that case...*stands in front of you* you may as well give a virtual kick 🤦🏻‍♂️ I already received one of that girl I mentioned in this post
Brainsbeforebeauty

1 y
Nah I don't kick genitals, virtual or real... I hear that's a very sensitive area 🙂

Answer 2

Asker

We’ve been chatting through dms for probably 2 years well really a year and a half or so

Answer 3

Brainsbeforebeauty

Well then maybe she doesn't want to take it past dm🤷🏼‍♀️

Answer 4

Asker

Well that’s a swift kick to the testicles

Answer 5

Brainsbeforebeauty

Ouch sounds painful... least it's a virtual kick and not IRL kick 😅🤣

Answer 6

Asker

Well in that case...*stands in front of you* you may as well give a virtual kick 🤦🏻‍♂️ I already received one of that girl I mentioned in this post

Answer 7

Brainsbeforebeauty

Nah I don't kick genitals, virtual or real... I hear that's a very sensitive area 🙂

Answer 8

Anonymous

I’ve spoken to guys before out of boredom, I know this sounds wrong but I have even flirted before... out of boredom. That’s when I was a teenager lol.

If I don’t like the guy I won’t give him my number because it’s a waste of time. I’ve had to change my number a few times because of unknown numbers and prank calls. It’s quite annoying.

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yeah i get that but if a girl says, she thinks your sweet and a harmless guy... then what could be the issue then?

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Asker

yeah i get that but if a girl says, she thinks your sweet and a harmless guy... then what could be the issue then?

Answer 10

Anonymous

Continued anonymity. While talking to a stranger can sometimes be fun, we don't always trust strangers with personal information like phone numbers, home addresses, real names, or personal email addresses. Besides being safe, it also leaves open the option of "disappearing" should the need arise.

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i just dont get why she would say though i seem like a harmless guy to meet, sweet and funny and like my msgs on IG to responding back to my msgs :-/
Opinion Owner

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Like I said, talking to strangers can sometimes be fun. That's the whole motivation. To have fun talking to a stranger with no intention of ever going beyond that.

Answer 11

Asker

i just dont get why she would say though i seem like a harmless guy to meet, sweet and funny and like my msgs on IG to responding back to my msgs :-/

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

Like I said, talking to strangers can sometimes be fun. That's the whole motivation. To have fun talking to a stranger with no intention of ever going beyond that.

Answer 13

DavidFox

Yoda

They don’t want the guy to be a friend. So can keep him safely at a distance and control communication to only online.

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Marilynjuana | 209 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Well, I give my number if I want him to have it. Whenever I don't, I'm probably just feeling a bit "off" about the guy.

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Asker

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feeling a bit off meaning?
Marilynjuana

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Not into him..
Asker

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but what if u respond back at least once a day to a guy, wouldn't u say that it would be the opposite?

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Asker

feeling a bit off meaning?

Answer 16

Marilynjuana

Not into him..

Answer 17

Asker

but what if u respond back at least once a day to a guy, wouldn't u say that it would be the opposite?

Answer 18

lauragrl

Xper 4

i don't mind him on social but don't want him in my real life

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Asker

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Why is that?

Answer 19

Asker

Why is that?

Answer 20

Anonymous

Cause she ain't interested enough

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Opinion Owner

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XFD you been trying to get this girl number for 2 years? If she ain't giving it to you in like a week you wasting your time man

😂 2 years trying to get a girl's number 😂
Asker

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i know, i know, well i haven't been asking her everyday, i probably mentioned it like 3-4 times in a yr and a half but nevertheless, i can't wait around it is annoying. She responds to me everyday or almost everyday to my DM's, she laughs at my jokes, she's checked my profile, she's said nice things about me, she's turned to me when her mother has passed away, she considers me a down to earth guy then the thirsty guys who wanna fuck her. So regardless whether takes off or not, I can't wait for her, but I know there is a level of respect and I know sometimes girls are either very very cautious and shy and may never open up to guys in that way or maybe she's going through a phase or her own shit. Regardless, I think I pretty much answered my own question after thinking about. I mean I know when guys read my question they'll laugh and say "lmao bro you're not getting any pussy after a month she ain't into you". I can find another girl a few months from now and forget about this girl and move on and hope she's happy as well... simple. I'm not sad or upset about this.
Opinion Owner

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Yeah she's just been using you as an emotional tampon when she needs some attention, she has no intention of this relationship ever going farther than where it is right now
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Asker

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Well, life works in mysterious ways, the girls I felt like I could have married or been with when we dated didn't work out, nothing is etched in stone and things change.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

XFD you been trying to get this girl number for 2 years? If she ain't giving it to you in like a week you wasting your time man

😂 2 years trying to get a girl's number 😂

Answer 22

Asker

i know, i know, well i haven't been asking her everyday, i probably mentioned it like 3-4 times in a yr and a half but nevertheless, i can't wait around it is annoying. She responds to me everyday or almost everyday to my DM's, she laughs at my jokes, she's checked my profile, she's said nice things about me, she's turned to me when her mother has passed away, she considers me a down to earth guy then the thirsty guys who wanna fuck her. So regardless whether takes off or not, I can't wait for her, but I know there is a level of respect and I know sometimes girls are either very very cautious and shy and may never open up to guys in that way or maybe she's going through a phase or her own shit. Regardless, I think I pretty much answered my own question after thinking about. I mean I know when guys read my question they'll laugh and say "lmao bro you're not getting any pussy after a month she ain't into you". I can find another girl a few months from now and forget about this girl and move on and hope she's happy as well... simple. I'm not sad or upset about this.

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Yeah she's just been using you as an emotional tampon when she needs some attention, she has no intention of this relationship ever going farther than where it is right now

Answer 24

Asker

Well, life works in mysterious ways, the girls I felt like I could have married or been with when we dated didn't work out, nothing is etched in stone and things change.

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