Girls do you feel obligated to help a guy lift something?

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Or do you think men are strong enough and don’t need help

Answer 1

Xper 6

Obligated, no... will I ask if someone wants help, definitely. My dad is far stronger than I, but I still offer to get the top of jars as I get a better grip

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chris_987

1 y
It’s sucks because it feels like girls know men are stronger so the don’t help us, but then they us to treat them equally? If we were equal you’d do the same things a man would do
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
Well I can pee standing up but not well if that helps XD
But personally in this type of situation, I've found guys dont ask girls and often in a work situation I'm busy but if someone asks then I would help... one can not expect the help to be there if someone doesn't inform another that help is required. There can be an attitude from guys that they would be considered weak if they asked for help, but there is nothing wrong with asking
chris_987

1 y
Well I was just referring to my work, cause I would get called sexist if thought women where weaker than me but a girl can say I’m stronger than her, but won’t consider herself sexist. It’s just a messed up situation that all. Really nothing I can do but just try to expose the hypocrites
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Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
Fair enough, although if I male is physically stronger, it isn't sexist, not is it is you called a specific female weaker... it is sexist when you call the group stronger or weaker
chris_987

1 y
Well there was a guy at work that complain he didn’t want women helping her because she was strong enough, so yeah she thought it’s was sexist. I guess if men and women didn’t work along side each other there wouldn’t be this much confusion. We’d probably appreciate each better because we’d respect that each sex has there roll to play in society. But no everyone want be treated equally even though we’re not built equally. Oh well that’s life 😥
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
That is pretty much life. People should strive for Parity in my opinion... it basically means striving for equality with the understanding of limitations that are out of the control of the individual groups in this case...
chris_987

1 y
I believe men should be men women should be women. Compare ourselves makes as much sense as a cat compared to dog. Just live and let live
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
That isn't true, human males and females are the same species so comparing them to two different species is just not true. There is differences in how their body develops, but that is the same within the seprate sexes as well...
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
And the part where it becomes sexiest is saying, only males/ females can do X... if someone is weaker, they are weaker but saying it is because of their sex is the offence
chris_987

1 y
Well even in different species the two genders have different rolls, like in the lion king the female lions never said they didn’t need a king, so animals don’t expect genders to do each other rolls
chris_987

1 y
And we say men and women are different all the time if they were the same why not make men and women face each other in sports
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
First, while both interesting points...
I never said there are not differences, just not as much of a divide as people seem to believe... also if you are using lions then sure, men lie around, showing off and fuck stuff and women do all the hunting and work XD
As for sports, again as I said males and females are built differently biologically but in sports such as tennis males and females are on equal terms... however again, build within the sexes also comes into play for this as you wouldn't have a guy who's a bodybuilder go in a swimming race and a female made for gymnastics isn't one that should be playing rugby
chris_987

1 y
The divide to me is pretty big, I’ll never experience what it feels to give birth. And you’ll never experience what it’s like to have dick. So we can live our whole lives and not be able to relate to each because we can’t do what the other can do. By you saying where not that different means that there’s no point in discovering how different men and women are. And if we don’t learn what weaknesses and strengths are, then we will be unsatisfied as a species
Aliceinwonderland22

1 y
If you can't relate to someone because of those factors, a lack of empathy and respect is the problem... I can't say, I know how it feels to be kicked in the balls but a) i dont see why i should come up, and b) i can however say, i understand that is painful for you
chris_987

1 y
I’m willing to bet that girls kick guys in the ball more often than guys do. You’ve basically proved my point that empathy isn’t enough to relate to someone. Well it’s clear that we both disagree so I see no reason to go around in circles, thanks the conversation though.

Answer 2

chris_987

It’s sucks because it feels like girls know men are stronger so the don’t help us, but then they us to treat them equally? If we were equal you’d do the same things a man would do

Answer 3

Aliceinwonderland22

Well I can pee standing up but not well if that helps XD
But personally in this type of situation, I've found guys dont ask girls and often in a work situation I'm busy but if someone asks then I would help... one can not expect the help to be there if someone doesn't inform another that help is required. There can be an attitude from guys that they would be considered weak if they asked for help, but there is nothing wrong with asking

Answer 4

chris_987

Well I was just referring to my work, cause I would get called sexist if thought women where weaker than me but a girl can say I’m stronger than her, but won’t consider herself sexist. It’s just a messed up situation that all. Really nothing I can do but just try to expose the hypocrites

Answer 5

Aliceinwonderland22

Fair enough, although if I male is physically stronger, it isn't sexist, not is it is you called a specific female weaker... it is sexist when you call the group stronger or weaker

Answer 6

chris_987

Well there was a guy at work that complain he didn’t want women helping her because she was strong enough, so yeah she thought it’s was sexist. I guess if men and women didn’t work along side each other there wouldn’t be this much confusion. We’d probably appreciate each better because we’d respect that each sex has there roll to play in society. But no everyone want be treated equally even though we’re not built equally. Oh well that’s life 😥

Answer 7

Aliceinwonderland22

That is pretty much life. People should strive for Parity in my opinion... it basically means striving for equality with the understanding of limitations that are out of the control of the individual groups in this case...

Answer 8

chris_987

I believe men should be men women should be women. Compare ourselves makes as much sense as a cat compared to dog. Just live and let live

Answer 9

Aliceinwonderland22

That isn't true, human males and females are the same species so comparing them to two different species is just not true. There is differences in how their body develops, but that is the same within the seprate sexes as well...

Answer 10

Aliceinwonderland22

And the part where it becomes sexiest is saying, only males/ females can do X... if someone is weaker, they are weaker but saying it is because of their sex is the offence

Answer 11

chris_987

Well even in different species the two genders have different rolls, like in the lion king the female lions never said they didn’t need a king, so animals don’t expect genders to do each other rolls

Answer 12

chris_987

And we say men and women are different all the time if they were the same why not make men and women face each other in sports

Answer 13

Aliceinwonderland22

First, while both interesting points...
I never said there are not differences, just not as much of a divide as people seem to believe... also if you are using lions then sure, men lie around, showing off and fuck stuff and women do all the hunting and work XD
As for sports, again as I said males and females are built differently biologically but in sports such as tennis males and females are on equal terms... however again, build within the sexes also comes into play for this as you wouldn't have a guy who's a bodybuilder go in a swimming race and a female made for gymnastics isn't one that should be playing rugby

Answer 14

chris_987

The divide to me is pretty big, I’ll never experience what it feels to give birth. And you’ll never experience what it’s like to have dick. So we can live our whole lives and not be able to relate to each because we can’t do what the other can do. By you saying where not that different means that there’s no point in discovering how different men and women are. And if we don’t learn what weaknesses and strengths are, then we will be unsatisfied as a species

Answer 15

Aliceinwonderland22

If you can't relate to someone because of those factors, a lack of empathy and respect is the problem... I can't say, I know how it feels to be kicked in the balls but a) i dont see why i should come up, and b) i can however say, i understand that is painful for you

Answer 16

chris_987

I’m willing to bet that girls kick guys in the ball more often than guys do. You’ve basically proved my point that empathy isn’t enough to relate to someone. Well it’s clear that we both disagree so I see no reason to go around in circles, thanks the conversation though.

Answer 17

SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ | 152 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Depends.
I mean if I see him struggling then I go over and help otherwise I'm just doing my thing and they need to ask lol.

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chris_987

1 y
Yeah at work men are quick to help each other but girls usually just watch me, so I figure they don’t feel like they have to help men because we’re different.
SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ

1 y
I think men project that though. Trying to be as alpha as possible, we just assume they got it sorted.
chris_987

1 y
Hmm so you see men as different? So why are women saying we’re the same. I feel like if I knew women acted like men where stronger I wouldn’t be confused as to why they wouldn’t want to help, but it been the opposite for me

Answer 18

chris_987

Yeah at work men are quick to help each other but girls usually just watch me, so I figure they don’t feel like they have to help men because we’re different.

Answer 19

SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ

I think men project that though. Trying to be as alpha as possible, we just assume they got it sorted.

Answer 20

chris_987

Hmm so you see men as different? So why are women saying we’re the same. I feel like if I knew women acted like men where stronger I wouldn’t be confused as to why they wouldn’t want to help, but it been the opposite for me

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