Why can’t I be happy for him?

Question

He’s with another girl. He’s my crush and I like him. I want him to be happy but I’m mad that he isn’t with me. My brain is saying, “Let him be happy.” My heart is saying, “He belongs with me. not her.” Why can’t I be happy for him?

Answer 1

Littleshep03

Xper 2

It will come down to you like him, and think about him a lot, imagining yourself with him together, however, he is with someone else, and therefore, the only thing you can do is wonder why they chose who they did instead of you

Marilynjuana

4 d
It doesn't necessarily have to mean that the asker is any less, people have different tastes and preferences. It's nothing to be taken personally.
Littleshep03

4 d
@Marilynjuana yeah, it doesn't mean they are better or worse than the other person, it just means that the other person prefered someone else, sorry I don't think I stated that in my answer
Marilynjuana

4 d
No worries, mate, gotchu :)

Answer 2

Marilynjuana

It doesn't necessarily have to mean that the asker is any less, people have different tastes and preferences. It's nothing to be taken personally.

Answer 3

Littleshep03

@Marilynjuana yeah, it doesn't mean they are better or worse than the other person, it just means that the other person prefered someone else, sorry I don't think I stated that in my answer

Answer 4

Marilynjuana

No worries, mate, gotchu :)

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