She hasn’t said she doesn’t want to go out but clearly she doesn’t. All the times I invite her out in groups or whatever and she ignores it says a lot. We don’t talk about much through text which tells me I’m just entertainment when she is bored
Well then ask her questions about herself. If she is chatty she will reveal something about herself. If she sends you one word answers then she’s obviously not interested. In that case there’s clearly no chemistry between you two and you should just move on.
Because she knows I like her and she won’t come around. It’s exactly how it sounds.
I understand that you like her. I understand that she doesn't want to come near you. You said this as if the second statement is the logical result of the first statement and it needs no explanation. It DOES need an explanation, WHY won't she come around?
You know girls she doesn’t want to come around me because I like her. She thinks hanging out or doing anything besides texting will give me the wrong idea
Okay. This idea may sound rather absurd to you, but. . . sometimes, people meet and it is obvious that the boy likes the girl, and the girl WANTS to hang out with the guy. They actually go on dates and spend tome getting to know each other. If you think that liking a girl means she will never want to spend time with you, then I guess you need to stop liking girls.
I’m in agreement with you. This is how I think and clearly she doesn’t think the same. I guess she only hangs out or spends time with guys that she likes back. Me on the other hand texting is all that she is willing to do.
Okay, so she doesn't spend time with you because she is not attracted to you and is not interested in a romantic relationship. Therefore, she avoids you so that she won't give you the impression that she does have a romantic interest in you.So, if she doesn't want you. . . you can't make her want you. Why would you want to spend time with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Wouldn't that be like taking someone hostage?
Okay so why does she text me? ClearlySince she text me we have some kind of relationship so why can’t I invite her out?
Texting you does not mean that she wants you in her bed.
I didn’t say anything or imply anything about trying to get in her bed.
It was a figure of speech. I did not mean it in a literal fashion. She does not see you as a romantic partner. She does not want to date you. She can text you without having those feelings.It's not going to happen with this girl. You can accept that and move forward, or you can remain fixated on something that you can't have.
Seems like a big waste of time on both sides. Clearly she has no problem doing this because she is bored.
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