So she just used me because she had no one else?
not exploitation, it's something mutual. don't react too emotionally.
I’m very emotional. I see it as exploitation because I provided more than I got back
keep calm and try to think logically. everyone has difficult times in their lives. but needless to say that you cannot deny this kind of stuff is something mutual.
Why you keep saying something mutual? I go through stuff all the time and in fact I’m depressed but I don’t use anyone just to vent.
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I can’t get her to be honest. She text me trying to be friends but it’s clear that isn’t what she is doing. At first I was a guy she vented too and mostly I’m just a time killer
Do you want a person in your life who can't be honest with you? If her actions doesn't match up with her words. Do you want to continue live this confusion?
I honestly don’t. It’s too much of a headache. I’m certain she acts this way because I like her and she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings
There you go. You answered yourself. Girls sometimes would do things just to get attention. Someone it's better let people go before they can hurt you.
So you think she just wanted attention? If so what made you think that?
Yes, sometimes people just like the fact someone likes them. It gives an ego boost. Everyone loves attention. But, the thing about good person and person who would waste your time is that they don't care if it's going to hurt you. If a guy likes me and I don't like him. I'll try to spend less time unless it's emergency.
I’m with you. In a sense we were both selfish and definitely bad communicators. She even texted me saying I’m thinking about you after midnight while at a party. That clearly showed me she was all about games. I know she isn’t interested but till this day I have no idea why she was contacting if she wasn’t interested in hanging out or anything
Give her time and tell her either you're all in or out. There's no in between. Tell her to take time to answer you. You want clarity.
I tried that and that was my intention all along but it turned into an argument. I said some hurtful things that I truly regret
Yeah but you're also thinking about her a lot to ask this question to random strangers on internet. When someone likes you or even be friends with you. Their actions and words are aligned. They don't confuse you.
I think about her a lot honestly. I know I was wrong and I overreacted. Why argue with her? I’m not obligated to anything. I’m just a terrible communicator. I was forcing something that wasn’t there. My thing it didn’t feel like friendship or anything more than a convenient penpal but that was my fault. If I knew I didn’t want this I should’ve walked away
It's okay shit happens. at least, you know what you have to work on and the kind of people you don't want in your life. You're growing. Isn't that great?
Absolutely but it didn’t have to come at the expense of a person I really liked
That's life. Life didn't promise it is going to be full of roses.
You’re right. If you don’t mind me asking what is your nationality?
I just knew. You have the look of girls I’m attracted to. I love Indian girls
Can I inbox you? I wanna get to know you
The username is papichulo
Why you say that?
Was just thinking out loud.
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