Why do girls match with me on social media and dating apps just to unmatch me?

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Like this isn’t a situation where you accidentally right swipe some of these you actually have to click a heart for. As soon I message the girl she unmatches me could it be by my appearance she assumes I’m some certain type then I eve I start talking it’s not what she originally expected

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samiammm

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Maybe it's what you say?

Your picture is obviously visible already.
Maybe you text them back too soon or too late.
Maybe you come out as too bold or too shy.

Whatever it is, it's got to do something with what you text them.

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So I shouldn’t introduce myself

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So I shouldn’t introduce myself

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Bella9191

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I don’t always look at the other pics, sometimes I only look at first. Then when I match and before replying to someone I look at all their pics,
if i changed my mind I unmatch.
but often I am too lazy to unmatch so I just don’t reply.

it could also be something you have written on your profile she didn’t see before,

or it could be something you said in your opening line.

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So introducing myself is bad

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So introducing myself is bad

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laPrincesitaRoxi | 99 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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Do you just say a reg hey? Or do you maybe try and be funny? If so sometimes guys say weird things thinking there funny that automatically make us girls think in our brain is a red flag.
Or they maybe didn’t look at your bio right and seen something you said that’s they didn’t like and found to be a dealbreaker

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So introducing myself is bad
laPrincesitaRoxi

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Depends how you’re doing it
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I literally just sat my name
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Asker

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Just said my name
laPrincesitaRoxi

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Hmmm what about your bio?
Asker

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I mean my bio says my goals and aspirations it says I’m a full time nursing student and that I work full time
laPrincesitaRoxi

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Anything that states maybe what you don’t want? Or like saying how you don’t appreciate being swiped on?
Asker

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No nothing like that
laPrincesitaRoxi

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Hmmm could be just swiping on accident or a glitch
Asker

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Yeah that makes my self esteem way worse when I find out they swiped right on my be accident
laPrincesitaRoxi

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It could be a glitch don’t think poorly of yourself babe and even if so there missing out on a good guy somebody is going to recognize it and snatch you up don’t worry :)
Asker

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How are they missing out on a good guy
laPrincesitaRoxi

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You sound like a normal good dude
Asker

1 y
Yeah but honestly I’m not good talking to women

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So introducing myself is bad

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laPrincesitaRoxi

Depends how you’re doing it

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Asker

I literally just sat my name

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Asker

Just said my name

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laPrincesitaRoxi

Hmmm what about your bio?

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Asker

I mean my bio says my goals and aspirations it says I’m a full time nursing student and that I work full time

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laPrincesitaRoxi

Anything that states maybe what you don’t want? Or like saying how you don’t appreciate being swiped on?

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Asker

No nothing like that

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laPrincesitaRoxi

Hmmm could be just swiping on accident or a glitch

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Asker

Yeah that makes my self esteem way worse when I find out they swiped right on my be accident

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laPrincesitaRoxi

It could be a glitch don’t think poorly of yourself babe and even if so there missing out on a good guy somebody is going to recognize it and snatch you up don’t worry :)

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Asker

How are they missing out on a good guy

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laPrincesitaRoxi

You sound like a normal good dude

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Asker

Yeah but honestly I’m not good talking to women

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StephenCF | 136 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

This happened to me many times too. There were even girls who’d match and message me to say hi, and when I responded with a similar greeting, they’d unmatched me, not just ignore me 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Yeah dude it’s like what’s going on

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Yeah dude it’s like what’s going on

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Anonymous

The only do that so they can get attention and have their egos boosted 😡. And they're hidden responses are " thanks for the boost aashole! 🖕"

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