Must admit then I'm most fond of assholes as you put it. As over confidential guy or girls make me sick
Not as I put it, it was you who wrote “asshole” in your post. I used your words. Which further begs the question, what is it about lower self-esteem that you find attractive? It makes me curious since I have read numerous post here by men who assert their lack of confidence and wish for feminine attention. I imagine you could create a post helping how those sorts of men to better attract women with an appreciation similar to your own of the same men. Now, I am confused over why someone who is “over confidential” would make you sick. I mean, if they have a career where secrecy is required, confidentiality would be exceedingly necessary. That is the point of “secrecy”.
Confidence is very horrible usally men with too much confidence are creating trouble and fight, take the street fights were over confidence guys go around fighting.
Well it's like everyone know most fights are started by tall guys , as they seems to have far too much confidence given we women usally find them attractive with no reason whatsoever
@Petra150As I see it, the violent kind is precisely those who lack confidence, because they need to look virile in front of others and assert themselves. Those with confidence find need any of that. They can just walk away knowing that is the proper course of action, ignoring the insult they get from the other side.
@Hawner confidence make me nervous as there's a thin line between cover confidence and psychopaths, and I have difficulty telling who's who
What you describe is not confidence. Further, with regard to tall men starting fights, again, I find the opposite to be more resembling reality. In other words, I see far more short men stirring the pot. Perhaps true for your area, it certainly is not for mine. “Over confidence” and false bravado are the same thing... weakness.
I've yet to ever seen a guy NOT tall starting a fight , and either do I ever seen a NOT tall Gus shout and make notice, perhaps them tall guys need to impress, and want attention all the time. By the way I'm 44 years and been in most bigger towns in northern Europe and the picture is the same tall men cause trouble everywhere
You certainly travel in a different world and circles than I do if you even see this taking place at all. Fights are a rare thing where I am. The last fight I saw was started by a short women with a slightly taller woman.
@Petra150Psychopaths, by general rule, don't care much for the consequences. They can't be overconfident because they can't care as they should fire whatever is happening. So, what they do is just throw themselves into the situation without even considering.Overconfidence is feeling himself capable of something when they are not but they don't know. For example, he has taken 2 computer lessons and thinks he can repair your computer.Seeing both apart is easy just by looking how they react to the situations they face.The line, contrary to what you think, is quite wide.If what you say is true (not saying it isn't) and all trouble you have seen is caused by tall men, there has to be another factor besides lack of confidence.I am tall, about 1.91m, yet I actively try to avoid all confrontation. I don't always succeed, obviously, but, in all cases I needed to make use of violence, was always in self defense and only as needed to stay uninjured (stun him enough so I could walk away, reduce him on the ground till he calmed down...).I can be that I am of the few exceptions, but I personally believe that is not so. There has to be something else that not even you are aware of. Many things can become a factor in why some men are just prone to violence, not only confidence or being big.
@Hawner usally the typical picture is that the tall and big guys try to first provoke guys shorter to a fight verbally, and when that usally don't succeed, due to the great self controle most modest guys have, and perhaps also the experience they might have with taller guys that they akway over react in a way it typically get dangerous as many times more tall guys gather up against a shorter guy, and will keep on hitting him until an ambulance is needed. Just like the tall and typical unfair guys need to prove they are Abel to beat up casual victims, and admitted most girls tend to just laugh and even think it's great when 3-4 guys 6'4 + can beat up a single shorter guy. But if the shorter guy once in a million get angry and very very rare start the fight BUM everyone will trow the diagnosis Napoleon complex at him, she the 3-4 big guys will be looked upon as hero's, as there is no restrictions for how horrible tall guys can act. Just my everyday experience during my soon 30 years grown up time. To your info I'm very tall myself, so it's not at all sn Vendetta against tall people , my dad is very very tall 6'10 and was very violent too until he fortunately hit the wrong guy, and were lucked up for long time
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Hope I'd haven't been too hard on you guys, as I love the lot of you
Its been real hard.