The girld I was really close with and where we both had untold feelings for eachother, ghosts me, now telling people she likes someone else. Why?

Question

There is this girl I really like and was close friends with just ghosts me out of the blue. Things were fine Monday, but Tuesday she does like I do not exist... She was showing like too many obvious signs of attraction to me, but she now tells all her friends she really likes some other guy. She ghosted me 1 week ago. She showed many obvious signs of attraction until she ghosted me. Is there anything I can do to be at least friends?

Updates:

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And why would she ghost me out of the blue

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Update 2, part 1: I had a conversation like every Wednesday with a women that comes to my house to talk about my problems. I talked about her and how she behaves as soon as she sees me. She often stares to the ground when we walk passed eachother, sometimes she looks straight at me.

Answer 1

Callmemylady

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she ghosted you out of the blue maybe bcz she thought this relationship would be hopeless or something.. maybe she didn't see a future with you... maybe something you did creeped her out.. maybe someone told her something about you that she shouldn't have known... or maybe something that made her change her mind about getting together with you...

so she might have thought that she had already showed enough signs which conveyed that she was attracted to you and now she can't just go back and be "friends" with you pretending that the attraction never happened.

She might be struggling to move on or something like that bcz she had some interest in the beginning and now she had to let go ( due to some reason ).. so for the sake of her own mental health.. for the sake of moving on.. she decided to ghost you.
I don't know about that other guy she likes but if she has already decided to Ghost you.. like you never existed... like this never happened... know that she might also be hurting deep inside and trying to move on..

So respect her decision of ghosting you. and don't try to be "friends" with her. Just ghost her back... block her everywhere. delete her number. try your best to disappear from the online social life and then if she appears infront of you.. just ignore her. Play the game with full power.. ghost her the right way and move on.

BECAUSE IF YOU TRY TO BE AT LEAST BE FRIENDS WITH HER, YOU'LL COME OFF AS NEEDY/CLINGY/DESPERATE/ANNOYING/IRRITATING PERSON, YOUR VALUE AND RESPECT IN HER EYES MIGHT BE DECREASED.. YOU MIGHT GET TREATED AS TRASH... AND THEN YOU MIGHT START TO HATE YOUR FACE AND YOUR WHOLE EXISTENCE FOR DOING THIS AND THAT AND REGRET AND CRY AND AFTER A LONG LONG WHILE.. AFTER TOO MANY EFFORTS.. MAYBE YOU'LL BE ABLE TO MOVE ON. ( sorry to be harsh with my words... just want you to realize what's happening and what could happen if u try to be friends after they ghost you )

TAKE YOUR DIGNITY AND WALK AWAY. YOUR EXISTENCE IS MEANINGFUL. YOU ARE AWESOME. IF YOU DON'T VALUE YOURSELF, NOBODY ELSE WILL. GHOST HER HARD!! KEEP FIGHTING FOR YOUR WORTH.!!

that's all.

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Callmemylady

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and the moment she decided to ghost you was the moment it was OVER between you two.

Don't give her the power. do what I said. you don't owe anything to them. They are NOT the one's who'll decide when they'll come and go from your life.. It's your life!! You're the one who will decide!!!

She might have had some temporary feelings and "infatuation" for You and later maybe she found that other guy more interesting and lost her interest in you.. and she decided to ghost you...

Regardless of what was the reason... she did what she did. and now it's your turn to do the RIGHT THING FOR YOURSELF.

She might come later into your life after losing interest in that guy.

dont let her in.

YOUR HEART IS NOT A TOY TO BE PLAYED WITH AND TO GET THROWN AND PICKED UP AS OTHERS PLEASE.

It's over now. forget her. she's not the one.

Answer 2

Callmemylady

and the moment she decided to ghost you was the moment it was OVER between you two.

Don't give her the power. do what I said. you don't owe anything to them. They are NOT the one's who'll decide when they'll come and go from your life.. It's your life!! You're the one who will decide!!!

She might have had some temporary feelings and "infatuation" for You and later maybe she found that other guy more interesting and lost her interest in you.. and she decided to ghost you...

Regardless of what was the reason... she did what she did. and now it's your turn to do the RIGHT THING FOR YOURSELF.

She might come later into your life after losing interest in that guy.

dont let her in.

YOUR HEART IS NOT A TOY TO BE PLAYED WITH AND TO GET THROWN AND PICKED UP AS OTHERS PLEASE.

It's over now. forget her. she's not the one.