Do woman usually beef with ugly dudes or is it just me?

Question

I don't know many other ugly guys but woman usually aren't afraid to instigate the drama with me

Things get ugly fast between us & from there grudges are held till our deaths with no truces & possibly beefing again

Answer 1

Smoke-n-Growls | 122 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Good communication goes a long way to resolving things like this.

Asker

1 mo
It's odd though

They mostly take offense that I don't "open up" but from all my experiences they dislike me from the start

Acting stuck up & arrogant right from the get go
Smoke-n-Growls

1 mo
Good communication is more than one way.

It's possible you've been approaching people who are just assholes, and it's possible your approach is making them think you're an asshole and they're reacting to that.

It's also possible you're making assumptions on them.

It's hard to tell who's at fault - and it's not even helpful to determine, usually - but it's clear you need to work on either judging who to approach or work on the approach itself.

Answer 2

Asker

It's odd though

They mostly take offense that I don't "open up" but from all my experiences they dislike me from the start

Acting stuck up & arrogant right from the get go

Answer 3

Smoke-n-Growls

Good communication is more than one way.

It's possible you've been approaching people who are just assholes, and it's possible your approach is making them think you're an asshole and they're reacting to that.

It's also possible you're making assumptions on them.

It's hard to tell who's at fault - and it's not even helpful to determine, usually - but it's clear you need to work on either judging who to approach or work on the approach itself.

Answer 4

Tututwerl09 | 376 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

It's probably because you're too quiet

Do woman usually beef with ugly dudes or is it just me?

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