Why do some girls just use you up for all your attention but pretend like they care about you?

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Answer 1

I-have-a-biscuit

Xper 6

That's the nature of girls, my dude. Mature so you can go for women instead

Answer 2

Anonymous

Well some people like the attention
I'm pretty sure you've done before yourself so I think you should've reworded it men do it as well

Answer 3

Anonymous

Are you sure this isn’t a misunderstanding?

Asker

1 mo
I’m sure it’s not. When a girl text you but never wants to hang out, what else to think?
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Well obviously it would depend on the context. I can't do one dimensional thinking since life is not black and white.
Asker

1 mo
What context do you need?
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Opinion Owner

1 mo
Ho wold is this girl? Tututwerl sounds like she sprijecting hre own narrow experience here. And if it's an older girl you're interested in a younger mindset would be wrong. You don't sound that old yourself though since I'd have thought you'd already know better if you were older.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
How old*
Opinion Owner

1 mo
*she's projecting her own
Asker

1 mo
I’m 25 years old
And she is 23. I honestly don’t know
Any better because I lack experience with girls
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Well younger guys and girls do tend to play more games. But nobody here can give you an answer, trust me, they don't have the context so it'd be a mistake to think anyone is right. The only good advice is to follow your gut instinct, not fear or hope, just raw gut instinct. And if you're still unsure, just keep testing the waters until the answer becomes a bit more clear.
Asker

1 mo
My gut tells me exactly what people on this site are saying. I took upon myself to talk to her to see what is up but that ended up being the worst decision I ever made
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Os then go with that, but only if you truly believe it, because ehonestly I've seen more bad advice given here than good. It tends to attract. A lot of the wrong types of people who probably don't even have that much life experience since they seem to spend too much time here while they're all bitter.

Answer 4

Asker

I’m sure it’s not. When a girl text you but never wants to hang out, what else to think?

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Well obviously it would depend on the context. I can't do one dimensional thinking since life is not black and white.

Answer 6

Asker

What context do you need?

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Ho wold is this girl? Tututwerl sounds like she sprijecting hre own narrow experience here. And if it's an older girl you're interested in a younger mindset would be wrong. You don't sound that old yourself though since I'd have thought you'd already know better if you were older.

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

How old*

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

*she's projecting her own

Answer 10

Asker

I’m 25 years old
And she is 23. I honestly don’t know
Any better because I lack experience with girls

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

Well younger guys and girls do tend to play more games. But nobody here can give you an answer, trust me, they don't have the context so it'd be a mistake to think anyone is right. The only good advice is to follow your gut instinct, not fear or hope, just raw gut instinct. And if you're still unsure, just keep testing the waters until the answer becomes a bit more clear.

Answer 12

Asker

My gut tells me exactly what people on this site are saying. I took upon myself to talk to her to see what is up but that ended up being the worst decision I ever made

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Os then go with that, but only if you truly believe it, because ehonestly I've seen more bad advice given here than good. It tends to attract. A lot of the wrong types of people who probably don't even have that much life experience since they seem to spend too much time here while they're all bitter.

Answer 14

Tututwerl09 | 376 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Because she's shallow

Asker

1 mo
She just isn’t interested in a relationship. I guess this is her way of wanting friendship
Tututwerl09

1 mo
Or just using you for emotional support/baggage
Asker

1 mo
How can I tell if that’s what she is doing?
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Tututwerl09

1 mo
Because she never wants to hangout or date
Asker

1 mo
Because she isn’t interested in a relationship with me but wants to be friends?
Tututwerl09

1 mo
I dont even think she wants ur friendship... she's just using u for attention that's not a friendship
Asker

1 mo
I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same?
Tututwerl09

1 mo
I need some context
Asker

1 mo
In regards to what?
Tututwerl09

1 mo
You said she wants to get close to you
Tututwerl09

1 mo
How do you know that
Asker

1 mo
No I said she knows I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same. She has always said she doesn’t want to lead me on
Tututwerl09

1 mo
Dude that's your answer right there. She doesn't want to lead you on... because she doesn't like you like that. N the thing about getting closer what makes you think she wants to be close to you when 1 she doesn't take initiative to hang out?
Asker

1 mo
I never said she wants to be close with
Me I said she doesn’t want to be close with me because she doesn’t feel the same.
Tututwerl09

1 mo
Okay well there u go.
Asker

1 mo
That doesn’t take away from why she text me. If you are not interested in anything you have no business texting me because what’s the point?
Tututwerl09

1 mo
The point is she's using you for attention you should really talk to a therapist about this because others have talked to you about this. Talk to a professional

Answer 15

Asker

She just isn’t interested in a relationship. I guess this is her way of wanting friendship

Answer 16

Tututwerl09

Or just using you for emotional support/baggage

Answer 17

Asker

How can I tell if that’s what she is doing?

Answer 18

Tututwerl09

Because she never wants to hangout or date

Answer 19

Asker

Because she isn’t interested in a relationship with me but wants to be friends?

Answer 20

Tututwerl09

I dont even think she wants ur friendship... she's just using u for attention that's not a friendship

Answer 21

Asker

I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same?

Answer 22

Tututwerl09

I need some context

Answer 23

Asker

In regards to what?

Answer 24

Tututwerl09

You said she wants to get close to you

Answer 25

Tututwerl09

How do you know that

Answer 26

Asker

No I said she knows I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same. She has always said she doesn’t want to lead me on

Answer 27

Tututwerl09

Dude that's your answer right there. She doesn't want to lead you on... because she doesn't like you like that. N the thing about getting closer what makes you think she wants to be close to you when 1 she doesn't take initiative to hang out?

Answer 28

Asker

I never said she wants to be close with
Me I said she doesn’t want to be close with me because she doesn’t feel the same.

Answer 29

Tututwerl09

Okay well there u go.

Answer 30

Asker

That doesn’t take away from why she text me. If you are not interested in anything you have no business texting me because what’s the point?

Answer 31

Tututwerl09

The point is she's using you for attention you should really talk to a therapist about this because others have talked to you about this. Talk to a professional

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