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I’m sure it’s not. When a girl text you but never wants to hang out, what else to think?
Well obviously it would depend on the context. I can't do one dimensional thinking since life is not black and white.
What context do you need?
Ho wold is this girl? Tututwerl sounds like she sprijecting hre own narrow experience here. And if it's an older girl you're interested in a younger mindset would be wrong. You don't sound that old yourself though since I'd have thought you'd already know better if you were older.
*she's projecting her own
I’m 25 years oldAnd she is 23. I honestly don’t knowAny better because I lack experience with girls
Well younger guys and girls do tend to play more games. But nobody here can give you an answer, trust me, they don't have the context so it'd be a mistake to think anyone is right. The only good advice is to follow your gut instinct, not fear or hope, just raw gut instinct. And if you're still unsure, just keep testing the waters until the answer becomes a bit more clear.
My gut tells me exactly what people on this site are saying. I took upon myself to talk to her to see what is up but that ended up being the worst decision I ever made
Os then go with that, but only if you truly believe it, because ehonestly I've seen more bad advice given here than good. It tends to attract. A lot of the wrong types of people who probably don't even have that much life experience since they seem to spend too much time here while they're all bitter.
She just isn’t interested in a relationship. I guess this is her way of wanting friendship
Or just using you for emotional support/baggage
How can I tell if that’s what she is doing?
Because she never wants to hangout or date
Because she isn’t interested in a relationship with me but wants to be friends?
I dont even think she wants ur friendship... she's just using u for attention that's not a friendship
I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same?
I need some context
In regards to what?
You said she wants to get close to you
How do you know that
No I said she knows I like her so why would she want to get close to me if she doesn’t feel the same. She has always said she doesn’t want to lead me on
Dude that's your answer right there. She doesn't want to lead you on... because she doesn't like you like that. N the thing about getting closer what makes you think she wants to be close to you when 1 she doesn't take initiative to hang out?
I never said she wants to be close withMe I said she doesn’t want to be close with me because she doesn’t feel the same.
Okay well there u go.
That doesn’t take away from why she text me. If you are not interested in anything you have no business texting me because what’s the point?
The point is she's using you for attention you should really talk to a therapist about this because others have talked to you about this. Talk to a professional