Classmate still resentful?

Question

A classmate of mine is still resentful that we accused her of doing smth a year ago. Since then she‘s very distant to us and only hangs out with or talks to her friends. She‘s so antisocial, she should get over that problem! I mean it‘s already one year ago and no one in our class remembers it anymore. 🙄
What you think?

Answer 1

Zealashton

Xper 5

here's a qestion d you have a scare.

scares do not go away physical or mental
they are perminint, they are ever lasting,

what ever happened, will never change that,

I don't know what you did your your class but if you want to befirend them, you better do some major ass kissing, like, apoligize, bow deeply like in anime and apoligize. for wrong doings,

saying it your sorry is not the same is when you add in a deep formal bow,

and give them a offering, like, I don't know, a premade lunch like a sandwich or something to share, but if a whole goup that want to appoligize, then stick with a the bow but the leader of group should at least offer a token. cake sandwitch. something

Answer 2

OlderAndWiser | 1.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

You think the passage of time entitles you to be forgiven? Have you apologized to her?

Asker

30 d
No but still it wasn‘t a big deal.
OlderAndWiser

30 d
It wasn't a big deal to who?
Asker

28 d
To everyone! It‘s like still judging a little child one year after for saying that the other kid or sum is ugly. It‘s a mistake, it happens!
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OlderAndWiser

28 d
1. Do you still consider yourself to be a little child?

2. Are you saying that you accused her "by accident?" How was it accidental? Wasn't it intentional and quite deliberate? Using such awful excuses to try to avoid responsibility for your actions is a very poor reflection on your level of maturity.

Answer 3

Asker

No but still it wasn‘t a big deal.

Answer 4

OlderAndWiser

It wasn't a big deal to who?

Answer 5

Asker

To everyone! It‘s like still judging a little child one year after for saying that the other kid or sum is ugly. It‘s a mistake, it happens!

Answer 6

OlderAndWiser

1. Do you still consider yourself to be a little child?

2. Are you saying that you accused her "by accident?" How was it accidental? Wasn't it intentional and quite deliberate? Using such awful excuses to try to avoid responsibility for your actions is a very poor reflection on your level of maturity.

Answer 7

Hangry22 | 246 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I support her. If it was a false accusation, then she probably realized you guys aren't true friends.

Asker

28 d
Omg but it was one year ago! I mean okay yeah we didn’t have any evidences that it was her but we discussed it and it was no one of us so it must have been her!
Hangry22

28 d
Doesn't matter the time. She realized that you guys don't trust her and did the right thing. If it was me, i wouldn't even look at you even after 10 years. It wasn't a big deal for you people, but it was for her

Answer 8

Asker

Omg but it was one year ago! I mean okay yeah we didn’t have any evidences that it was her but we discussed it and it was no one of us so it must have been her!

Answer 9

Hangry22

Doesn't matter the time. She realized that you guys don't trust her and did the right thing. If it was me, i wouldn't even look at you even after 10 years. It wasn't a big deal for you people, but it was for her

Answer 10

HOAAH | 546 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

She isn't over it and feels you don't care about her feelings

Asker

1 mo
And what should we do? Isn‘t she in the wrong of being so childish? Anyone can do mistakes. 🤨
HOAAH

1 mo
Did you guys empathize with her? Try to understand her?

Answer 11

Asker

And what should we do? Isn‘t she in the wrong of being so childish? Anyone can do mistakes. 🤨

Answer 12

HOAAH

Did you guys empathize with her? Try to understand her?

Answer 13

gandolph3 | 100 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Did you appologize

Asker

30 d
For what? Everyone makes mistakes.
gandolph3

30 d
with that attitude, i do not blame her, i would not want to be near someone that toxic. yes everyone makes mistakes, sometimes they hurt or harm people. if we want to be forgiven for messing up, we need to apologize and ask for forgiveness. if you don't ask for forgiveness, then you don't regret what was said and it was not a mistake, but was done on purpose. she has been wronged by you, you need to make it right.

Answer 14

Asker

For what? Everyone makes mistakes.

Answer 15

gandolph3

with that attitude, i do not blame her, i would not want to be near someone that toxic. yes everyone makes mistakes, sometimes they hurt or harm people. if we want to be forgiven for messing up, we need to apologize and ask for forgiveness. if you don't ask for forgiveness, then you don't regret what was said and it was not a mistake, but was done on purpose. she has been wronged by you, you need to make it right.

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