Girls what does this behavior mean I just met this girl at work so I don’t know her personality?

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So we talked briefly in the break room she was trying to hold a conversation I wanted to eat. Then when I was working on the floor she wanted to grab something to eat and I happened to be working in that aisle and she goes I promise I’m not stalking you

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Answer 1

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Yoda

The business or whatever she was doing might have been legit. That is definitely not something to take as a sign or anything.

Asker

1 mo
She wasn’t doing anything she was lingering trying to determine what snacks to buy lol
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
Ahh, maybe she thinks you’re attractive in appearance.
Talk to her more 😉
Asker

1 mo
When I was on break in the break room she was asking me what sounded good to eat. So when we talked in the back office or anywhere else her cheeks are really red. She also picked up on the fact I’m quiet. She offered to give me a ride home and she was really pushing me in conversation. I suck at keeping conversations going and she just kept it going when it was just her and me in the car
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Asker

1 mo
Also when she was giving me and then other girl a ride home after she dropped off the other girl she wanted me to get in the front
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
She’s into you, definitely. Make your move. Don’t come on too strong, so if you know something she likes then think of something within that category and ask her for a small date. I always say the more creative the better. (Especially during a pandemic 🤷🏻‍♀️) So maybe be different but simple... That’s if you’re gonna ask her out though. If you’re shy then get her number first so you’re not under face-to-face pressure.
Asker

1 mo
Yeah we have polar opposite personality’s she’s really extroverted and in your face lol I’m more low key.
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
By creative I mean something that doesn’t really cost you but is different for her. Like my example would be that once a guy took me to the community art museum because they were showcasing one of my favorite painters. Didn’t cost him anything but I loved it. Get the idea?
Asker

1 mo
So this all adds up to her liking me it’s not just being friendly
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
Ask her for a ride home then, and during the ride ask her out? 😉
Asker

1 mo
No but I’m asking if all that adds up to her liking me like it’s not just her being friendly
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
99% of the time we are not gonna randomly start talking to a guy just to be friendly. Considering she’s very social though, consider the situation. If you just started working there she’s probably just being friendly. But if you’ve been there a while and she has noticed you but just now started talking to you... ;)
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
Also consider how she acts around other guys there
Asker

1 mo
Well I did just start working there but there were things I was noticing like in the break room how she continually wanted to talk and wanted to know what sounded good. Then when I was back in the floor how she found her way over near I was and was like I promise I’m not stalking you. The red cheeks she had each time we talked and ultimately her offering to give me a ride like she doesn’t know me this was my first time working with her. Secondly like I said she was really pushy about me sitting in the front after she dropped off the other girl then like I said she carried the conversation in the minutes it would drop she would ask me something else and pick it right back up
Yads_Is_Back

1 mo
I still say she’s into you, but if you wanna be sure then try asking her out or for something small. Don’t ask her outright, “Do you like me?” Because that’s like 4th grade and a turn-off lol
Asker

1 mo
Yeah it was just interesting adding all these things together

Answer 2

Asker

She wasn’t doing anything she was lingering trying to determine what snacks to buy lol

Answer 3

Yads_Is_Back

Ahh, maybe she thinks you’re attractive in appearance.
Talk to her more 😉

Answer 4

Asker

When I was on break in the break room she was asking me what sounded good to eat. So when we talked in the back office or anywhere else her cheeks are really red. She also picked up on the fact I’m quiet. She offered to give me a ride home and she was really pushing me in conversation. I suck at keeping conversations going and she just kept it going when it was just her and me in the car

Answer 5

Asker

Also when she was giving me and then other girl a ride home after she dropped off the other girl she wanted me to get in the front

Answer 6

Yads_Is_Back

She’s into you, definitely. Make your move. Don’t come on too strong, so if you know something she likes then think of something within that category and ask her for a small date. I always say the more creative the better. (Especially during a pandemic 🤷🏻‍♀️) So maybe be different but simple... That’s if you’re gonna ask her out though. If you’re shy then get her number first so you’re not under face-to-face pressure.

Answer 7

Asker

Yeah we have polar opposite personality’s she’s really extroverted and in your face lol I’m more low key.

Answer 8

Yads_Is_Back

By creative I mean something that doesn’t really cost you but is different for her. Like my example would be that once a guy took me to the community art museum because they were showcasing one of my favorite painters. Didn’t cost him anything but I loved it. Get the idea?

Answer 9

Asker

So this all adds up to her liking me it’s not just being friendly

Answer 10

Yads_Is_Back

Ask her for a ride home then, and during the ride ask her out? 😉

Answer 11

Asker

No but I’m asking if all that adds up to her liking me like it’s not just her being friendly

Answer 12

Yads_Is_Back

99% of the time we are not gonna randomly start talking to a guy just to be friendly. Considering she’s very social though, consider the situation. If you just started working there she’s probably just being friendly. But if you’ve been there a while and she has noticed you but just now started talking to you... ;)

Answer 13

Yads_Is_Back

Also consider how she acts around other guys there

Answer 14

Asker

Well I did just start working there but there were things I was noticing like in the break room how she continually wanted to talk and wanted to know what sounded good. Then when I was back in the floor how she found her way over near I was and was like I promise I’m not stalking you. The red cheeks she had each time we talked and ultimately her offering to give me a ride like she doesn’t know me this was my first time working with her. Secondly like I said she was really pushy about me sitting in the front after she dropped off the other girl then like I said she carried the conversation in the minutes it would drop she would ask me something else and pick it right back up

Answer 15

Yads_Is_Back

I still say she’s into you, but if you wanna be sure then try asking her out or for something small. Don’t ask her outright, “Do you like me?” Because that’s like 4th grade and a turn-off lol

Answer 16

Asker

Yeah it was just interesting adding all these things together

Girls what does this behavior mean I just met this girl at work so I don’t know her personality?

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