Girls, How do you play hard to get?

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Does that involve not replying sometimes

Answer 1

Yoda

It can mean the girl is uninterested. From a high quality woman's perspective (mine, lol), I would communicate to a guy if I am uninterested or yes, I would not reply sometimes.

I have completely ignored a guy's message, who I am interested in, in the past so that I play hard to get. It's not necessarily playing games, but it's just testing the waters to confirm what the guy's intentions are with me and if he'll put in that extra effort for me. It's a way for me to decide if he's worth my time. No offence, but a lot of guys chat so much shit and are just there to waste time lol.

It worked before many times. My last ex boyfriend messaged me the next day with an entire paragraph about what his intentions are with me and how he didn't want me to ignore him anymore, confirming he wanted a serious committed RS.

Hope this helps! :)

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ando90

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She was open with me originally in her person. Then one day I gave her a compliment saying she looked nice. Then she went shy with me but still would approach me but is shy
Alyssa11

1 y
Yup she might be doing what I do
ando90

1 y
Which is what?
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ando90

1 y
She ended up replying to me 12 hours later anyway haha. 12 hours after she read it
Alyssa11

1 y
Doing what I do as in what I explained in my initial answer.

She may also be very busy! :)
ando90

1 y
I must have crossed her mind if she replied to me 12 hours later after opening my message

Answer 2

ando90

She was open with me originally in her person. Then one day I gave her a compliment saying she looked nice. Then she went shy with me but still would approach me but is shy

Answer 3

Alyssa11

Yup she might be doing what I do

Answer 4

ando90

Which is what?

Answer 5

ando90

She ended up replying to me 12 hours later anyway haha. 12 hours after she read it

Answer 6

Alyssa11

Doing what I do as in what I explained in my initial answer.

She may also be very busy! :)

Answer 7

ando90

I must have crossed her mind if she replied to me 12 hours later after opening my message

Answer 8

Anonymous

I'd say not replying is just being rude or petty.
Hard to get can be teasing you and then pulling away her attention to confuse you now and again. So in that sense if you think of it like that maybe it could include not replying sometimes.
it depends on the person really.

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ando90

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It's only been a few times. Everytime it's when she opens the message and reads it at 6:15am and she says nothing
Opinion Owner

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it could be that she didn't know how to respond or was busy, if it was only a few times I wouldn't worry too much about it
ando90

1 y
At 6:15am she was too busy? Like I messaged her last night and she replied within like and hour and a half. Her message was about 5 lines long. I replied to her and she read it this morning and said nothing back
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Opinion Owner

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I'm not sure, could be any reason. What was the message along the lines of? (if you don't mind me asking)
ando90

1 y
It's ok. She actually replied to me like 12 hours later

Answer 9

ando90

It's only been a few times. Everytime it's when she opens the message and reads it at 6:15am and she says nothing

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

it could be that she didn't know how to respond or was busy, if it was only a few times I wouldn't worry too much about it

Answer 11

ando90

At 6:15am she was too busy? Like I messaged her last night and she replied within like and hour and a half. Her message was about 5 lines long. I replied to her and she read it this morning and said nothing back

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

I'm not sure, could be any reason. What was the message along the lines of? (if you don't mind me asking)

Answer 13

ando90

It's ok. She actually replied to me like 12 hours later

Answer 14

DizzyDesii | 1.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I dont think i ever tried to play hard to get. If i say no, i usually mean it. If i dont reply then im more than likely ignoring the person and wanting them to get the hint

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Answer 15

simra2109

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Yes it does

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