Women often say it’s them & not the guy in rejecting but do they really just mean she doesn’t like him enough to overcome what’s holding her back?

[JackSmy]

When she says it's her, and not you, SHE IS LYING!! SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU!! But she is trying to make it less hurtful, to you, for NOT GETTING IT!
It hurts, and you need to learn to read the obvious signs that women give, when she just doesn't like you that way!
That is life!
My dad told me when I was in Junior high: "Of the 50 you really like, two will actually go on a date, and if you are lucky, one will want another date! Deal with it, that is life!!"

[Anonymous]

Yes that’s exactly it - it just means she doesn’t like him enough and if Prince Charming came along she would say yes without hesitation