Girls, Is she playing a game?

Question

This girl and I know each other and I definitely feel something is going on between us. As in it feels like we both have something unsaid to say to each other. I know I like her. Anyway I messaged her and she read my message around 6:15am but she didn't reply. She then replies to my message at 6pm that night. Do you think she deliberately did this as I must have crossed her mind to remember to reply to me 12 hours later.

Answer 1

Sawyerblu

Xper 6

To be honest, sometimes after opening something I’ll forget to reply if I’m busy until I have the time to have an actual conversation. She could’ve been busy but she also could’ve just not been feeling it and wanted to wait until she did feel something. This might sound bad but there’s one guy that I’ll not reply to immediately because I do not have feelings for him but I can tell he has them for me a little too much so it pushes me away. I enjoy the chase but in order to keep me interested in the early stages, I need space. I think it’s smart to not put all of your eggs in her basket just in case, no use getting upset over a girl who isn’t your girlfriend. I would give her space for a day or 2 and make her wonder where you went. She wants attention but mystery. Did she at least send a good reply and not something vague/short/uninterested?

ando90

26 d
The thing is she offers to help me at work over little things. I've tried just minding my own business and she still approaches me in person. She is very focused on her study. But the other night she was replying to me like every 15min or so.
ando90

26 d
She smiles when she sees me and I've even noticed some blushing when she is approaching me
Sawyerblu

21 d
Maybe you should talk to her, ask her on a date and then figure out your feelings? Just be like “I would really like to take you out, are you free this week?” or something basic and see what she says
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Sawyerblu

21 d
There’s really nothing to lose. If you think that she likes you then she probably does. If she says no then you can stop wasting your time worrying about her and move on. There’s plenty of amazing girls out there!

Answer 2

ando90

The thing is she offers to help me at work over little things. I've tried just minding my own business and she still approaches me in person. She is very focused on her study. But the other night she was replying to me like every 15min or so.

Answer 3

ando90

She smiles when she sees me and I've even noticed some blushing when she is approaching me

Answer 4

Sawyerblu

Maybe you should talk to her, ask her on a date and then figure out your feelings? Just be like “I would really like to take you out, are you free this week?” or something basic and see what she says

Answer 5

Sawyerblu

There’s really nothing to lose. If you think that she likes you then she probably does. If she says no then you can stop wasting your time worrying about her and move on. There’s plenty of amazing girls out there!

Answer 6

Anonymous

Sometimes I will forget to reply back to someone because I got distracted and sometimes I don’t know what to say or feel shy so I hold off replying right away. Maybe either one of those things happened to her as well. But if something is working between the two of you and replying late isn’t a continuous thing, I don’t think she’s playing games.

ando90

26 d
Why would she be shy?

Answer 7

ando90

Why would she be shy?

Answer 8

ushagomez | 90 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

I think people read far too much into how long it takes to reply to a message. Just carry on messaging her and see where it goes.

Answer 9

Anonymous

Maybe very busy.. maybe she wanted to talk to you outside of working hours. And she wouldn't reply if she didn't want to talk.

ando90

26 d
She smiles when she sees me in person. She has approached me in person multiple times. But she seems to play a bit of a game over text. Like when I added her on Facebook she took 24hrs to accept

Answer 10

ando90

She smiles when she sees me in person. She has approached me in person multiple times. But she seems to play a bit of a game over text. Like when I added her on Facebook she took 24hrs to accept

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