Rejection hurts badly because it awakens a primal need that we all have for social connectedness. Lovers sometimes think about suicide after suffering a loss of their boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse. In other words, we fear that we will not survive if we are abandoned. On a certain level that is not fully conscious, we need to feel that we belong, are included, are part of the group or partnership and if we are we can feel happy. That a certain percentage of people who are depressed either fear social isolation or are socially isolated. Among these are individuals with poor social skills and cannot seem to find acceptance from other people, and people who are shy and socially avoidant. The point is that rejection awakens early fears of being left to the "wolves." In short, "it hurts to be left out."
Worse for men since we don't have options
Are you an introvert?
Nice. I am also an introvert, and I discovered recently that something else hurts more than being rejected by a guy, being ostracized is basically a death sentence.
No but girls have options and can get over shitty moments faster
I agree with you in that we have "options" but the latter part is debatable
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Men get cheated on fairly often most guys I know have been cheated on.
There was even this one girl I was close friends with who admitted to me that she cheated on her ex boyfriend and I know she cheated on at least one other ex boyfriend. So that means she cheated on at least two men.
@KatanaSlice but girls get cheated on more then guys
Desperate could also mean more open and more accepting of all kinds of girls
It does. Dudes are more accepting recently than girls. Girls standards have risen higher than normal and we can't be all be models for you girls
If that were true he would’ve asked a not so hot girl out first. And only cause he really liked her.
What if the dude isn't asking out models or hot girls?
Does he really like her?
What does that have to do with the question i asked
Because if you don’t really like her you’re desperate af and deserve to be rejected
I would never leave a girl that had arbys roast beef curtains
Of course you wouldn't. I can see your desperation
If she's my girlfriend, how would that make me desperate retard?
If she's your girlfriend, she's probably a slut like i said. And sluts need real hard desperation to be forced to stay
Don't do much since im not desperate
Your question shows how much rejection had hurt you. So desperation would come along when tou get a girl
It's a general question