Is it rude to tell a guy he doesn't deserve to have sex with me?
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SueShe | 992 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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It sounds a little conceited to me as it does probably to a lot of people.
You make it sound as if you are so much better that you don't want to lower yourself to do with somebody that is out of your league. That is how the message comes across.
Unless it is the way you intend to make the message get through, I would recommend that you phrase it in a different way and less "uppish". You risk to get yourself a reputation and that is not really what you want.
You may of course your reasons for saying it this way but it sounds really harsh. There are more diplomatic ways to phrase your rejection.
Why would you put it like that? It's there a competition and he didn't win? "Deserve" is a strong word. You can explain to him nicely: you are not interested.
It is ok to tell him that you don't want to have sex with him, but don't phrase it that he doesn't deserve to have sex with you. The only reason you should tell a guy that he doesn't deserve you, is if he is a terrible person. It is ok to tell him you don't want sex, but saying he doesn't deserve you infers that you are better than him.
SomeGuyCalledTom | 297 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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"deserve" is a tenuous word that says more about you than it says about him. It would be more accurate to say that YOU just aren't interested in him. Rather than taking it upon yourself to arrogantly assume you know his entire value as a man.
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