Ladies how come it is OK to judge what men wear but it isn't OK to judge what women wear?

Question

If a man was to wear see through pants/trousers (which men don't anyway) he would probably be arrested and be called a creep by multiple women. But women can wear see through clothes and they get called "confident" and "sexy".

Answer 1

MrsCM

Xper 4

From experience we get judged for just about anything with hidden contexts that we have no control over, I'm not sure the same goes to men

React

1 Person

Answer 2

Anonymous

Just because it isn't ok to judge women doesn't mean guys don't do that. Since guys do judge women's clothes, we are returning that favour

React

Answer 3

Anonymous

People do judge what women wear, I don’t know what society you’re living in lmao.

React

2 People

Asker

1 y
Yeah some do but after they judge they get multiple death threats and insults hurled towards them... That is proof that judging what women wear isn't accepted in society.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Lol they definitely do not
Asker

1 y
twitter.com/.../1316443790224297984?s=19
Show All Show Less
Asker

1 y
twitter.com/.../1316454306787270661?s=19
Asker

1 y
twitter.com/.../1316210607213834241?s=19
Asker

1 y
So where is your proof that people don't get insulted for judging women's body's and clothing. I'll wait.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Uh being body shamed and made fun of for my body my entire fucking life and everyone else laughing at someone else’s comments about my body and no one defending me or calling them out for it, there’s my fucking proof.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Don’t act like it doesn’t happen to women as well because it does. This isn’t a one gender only thing because it happens to both genders and I’ve had plenty of experiences to back that up lmfao.
Asker

1 y
Yes but you saying something isn't proof. How can you prove that you have experienced those things. That is the difference in my argument and your argument.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Lemme just pull up my medical records with my diagnosed eating disorder to prove to some random on the internet that I’ve been shamed for years for my body. Nah. You’re choice if you don’t believe me but I’m not about to waste my time proving to you otherwise.
Opinion Owner

1 y
There is no difference, both genders experience this. I have seen it happen to other women plenty of times and it’s happened to me enough times that food has become a fear for me.
Asker

1 y
A diagnosed eating disorder doesn't prove that you have been body shamed.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Well I didn’t just develop it out of nowhere 🙄
Opinion Owner

1 y
So yeah, my eating disorder does prove that I’ve been body shamed because body shaming is how I developed it
Asker

1 y
People develop eating disorders without other people commenting on their body.
Asker

1 y
Yes maybe body shaming has got you to develop an eating disorder but that isn't the same for everyone.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Okay? Your point being? I’m telling you how I developed MINE. Not how other people developed theirs.
Asker

1 y
My point is that you are saying that it is proof that you having an eating disorder proves that body shaming drives everyone to eating disorders.
Opinion Owner

1 y
No... I didn’t. I said that body shaming led ME to an eating disorder. I didn’t say it led anyone else to an eating disorder. Where the hell did I say it led EVERYONE to an eating disorder when I have told you multiple time’s I’m speaking of my OWN experience.
Asker

1 y
Still haven't provided me any proof. I have provided you proof that people get insulted when they body shame women.
Opinion Owner

1 y
How do you even want me to prove that my experiences happened?
Asker

1 y
You can't LOL that is my point. I went to the shop today and bought a bag of potatoes and a pint of milk. How would you want me to prove that LOL... I can't prove it.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Well then whether you want to believe me or not is up to you but it doesn’t change that it did happen and I’m still struggling because of it so
Asker

1 y
I do believe you. But my point is that you still believe that people don't get insulted by hurling insults towards womens bodys even though I have provided you with evidence.
Opinion Owner

1 y
No I do believe they get insulted for it but it’s not as common as you think it is because it’s way more common for people to jump on the bandwagon of insulting someone just because there’s tons of other people do it. Literally download tiktok and read the comments of any girl dancing on there, the majority of them are body shaming or slut shaming and people laughing about it.
Asker

1 y
Link me a video then as I linked you tweets.
Opinion Owner

1 y
I have to wait until one pops up on my fyp page
Asker

1 y
Or go and look for one as they are "So CoMmOn"
Opinion Owner

1 y
That’s not how tiktok works, the algorithm depends on the type of videos that you like. I’ll provide an example though, you can google her. Miranda Cooper, she was born with a disability where her arms didn’t form properly and the amount of insults she gets for it is insane and not one person defends her.
Asker

1 y
That has nothing to do with body shaming.
Opinion Owner

1 y
They insult her for the way her body looks because of a birth defect. That is body shaming.
Asker

1 y
I googled her. She gets insults because she is an animal abuser.
Opinion Owner

1 y
No, people have twisted stories about her because they don’t like her. Even so they still body shame her every chance they get
Opinion Owner

1 y
They even go as far as body shaming her mother who has the same birth defect
Asker

1 y
Yeah people insult people who are bad people get over it. I hated her as soon as I seen her. Typical SJW looking feminist.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Another one is Amberlynn Reid, she gets called all kinds of insults because of her body
Opinion Owner

1 y
Lol you just proved my point so thanks, bye now 👋🏼
Asker

1 y
No I haven't as I am only 1 person.
Mark987

1 y
Asker? man im a guy and you are wrong on this topic... lol
Opinion Owner

1 y
^thank you like
Opinion Owner

1 y
*lol
Asker

1 y
Prove me wrong then Mark.
Asker

1 y
I have supplied evidence where as she hasn't.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Don’t need evidence to prove that you’re a ignorant asshole yet I still know it’s true x
Asker

1 y
I'm ignorant yet you don't care about facts x
Asker

1 y
Also you don't know what the word bye means
Opinion Owner

1 y
Because it’s not facts love
Mark987

1 y
Okay the issue is... no matter what women wear, they are judged either with see through clothes or not... they have always been sexualized since god knows how long... Men have never had to deal with what women go through.. for an example... if a woman wears yoga pants and a sports bra... Every guy will make a comment on her appearance... now if a guy wears that it would look strange... Women have been Sexualized their whole life... it;s not the same thing.. not by a long shot
Asker

1 y
Multiple tweets shaming people for body shaming women isn't facts?
Asker

1 y
Women are sexualized more than men because men don't have ridiculous standards.
Mark987

1 y
Woman have been treated like sex objects since day 1... us guys have been lucky enough to go through that... a guy wearing see through pants will get in trouble because which guy does that? but a woman showing off her body they do it so often... but then we sexualize them
Opinion Owner

1 y
No it’s not, just cus you seen a few tweets about it doesn’t mean that’s what happens EVERY time. Jesus how gullible and closed minded do you have to be to think that that’s what happens all the time? Because it’s not.
Mark987

1 y
Okay you know what we can agree to disagree?
Asker

1 y
Yes maybe because nudity is a form of sexualization you absolute simp.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Man I got groped wearing pants and a t shirt whilst I struggled pushing my mom in a while chair and all his friends laughed because they knew it made me uncomfortable, no one defended me then either.
Asker

1 y
On what?
Mark987

1 y
I'm not going to argue... but I value your opinion.. just respect mine
Asker

1 y
Maybe because there was only his friends there?
Opinion Owner

1 y
And that makes it okay?
Asker

1 y
I do.
Asker

1 y
No it doesn't. But let's see them do that in front of 100 people and let's see how many ignore them doing that then.
Opinion Owner

1 y
It does happen, it happens often. And that’s the end of that. You are wrong on this one sorry.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Considering it was in the middle of a market in Barcelona and no one said anything lmao ok
Asker

1 y
What happens? Groping? Did I ever say that that doesn't happen?
Opinion Owner

1 y
Women get shamed and not everyone defends her, that’s what happens.
Mark987

1 y
100% no need for insults hon
Asker

1 y
Stick to things that you can provide proof on luv. Everying that I talk about I can provide proof on.
Asker

1 y
OK then mr nice guy I'm sorry.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Like I said, you are very wrong on this one. Not gonna argue with you about it anymore, peace out ✌🏼
Mark987

1 y
This convo isn't going anywhere... obviously he has his mind set
Asker

1 y
Girl come off of anonymous so I can DM you.
Asker

1 y
I'm so wrong that I can't be PROVEN wrong.
Asker

1 y
Your right mark I do have my mindset. A mindset that cares about facts.

Answer 4

Asker

Yeah some do but after they judge they get multiple death threats and insults hurled towards them... That is proof that judging what women wear isn't accepted in society.

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Lol they definitely do not

Answer 6

Asker

twitter.com/.../1316443790224297984?s=19

Answer 7

Asker

twitter.com/.../1316454306787270661?s=19

Answer 8

Asker

twitter.com/.../1316210607213834241?s=19

Answer 9

Asker

So where is your proof that people don't get insulted for judging women's body's and clothing. I'll wait.

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

Uh being body shamed and made fun of for my body my entire fucking life and everyone else laughing at someone else’s comments about my body and no one defending me or calling them out for it, there’s my fucking proof.

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

Don’t act like it doesn’t happen to women as well because it does. This isn’t a one gender only thing because it happens to both genders and I’ve had plenty of experiences to back that up lmfao.

Answer 12

Asker

Yes but you saying something isn't proof. How can you prove that you have experienced those things. That is the difference in my argument and your argument.

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Lemme just pull up my medical records with my diagnosed eating disorder to prove to some random on the internet that I’ve been shamed for years for my body. Nah. You’re choice if you don’t believe me but I’m not about to waste my time proving to you otherwise.

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

There is no difference, both genders experience this. I have seen it happen to other women plenty of times and it’s happened to me enough times that food has become a fear for me.

Answer 15

Asker

A diagnosed eating disorder doesn't prove that you have been body shamed.

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

Well I didn’t just develop it out of nowhere 🙄

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

So yeah, my eating disorder does prove that I’ve been body shamed because body shaming is how I developed it

Answer 18

Asker

People develop eating disorders without other people commenting on their body.

Answer 19

Asker

Yes maybe body shaming has got you to develop an eating disorder but that isn't the same for everyone.

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Okay? Your point being? I’m telling you how I developed MINE. Not how other people developed theirs.

Answer 21

Asker

My point is that you are saying that it is proof that you having an eating disorder proves that body shaming drives everyone to eating disorders.

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

No... I didn’t. I said that body shaming led ME to an eating disorder. I didn’t say it led anyone else to an eating disorder. Where the hell did I say it led EVERYONE to an eating disorder when I have told you multiple time’s I’m speaking of my OWN experience.

Answer 23

Asker

Still haven't provided me any proof. I have provided you proof that people get insulted when they body shame women.

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

How do you even want me to prove that my experiences happened?

Answer 25

Asker

You can't LOL that is my point. I went to the shop today and bought a bag of potatoes and a pint of milk. How would you want me to prove that LOL... I can't prove it.

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

Well then whether you want to believe me or not is up to you but it doesn’t change that it did happen and I’m still struggling because of it so

Answer 27

Asker

I do believe you. But my point is that you still believe that people don't get insulted by hurling insults towards womens bodys even though I have provided you with evidence.

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

No I do believe they get insulted for it but it’s not as common as you think it is because it’s way more common for people to jump on the bandwagon of insulting someone just because there’s tons of other people do it. Literally download tiktok and read the comments of any girl dancing on there, the majority of them are body shaming or slut shaming and people laughing about it.

Answer 29

Asker

Link me a video then as I linked you tweets.

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

I have to wait until one pops up on my fyp page

Answer 31

Asker

Or go and look for one as they are "So CoMmOn"

Answer 32

Opinion Owner

That’s not how tiktok works, the algorithm depends on the type of videos that you like. I’ll provide an example though, you can google her. Miranda Cooper, she was born with a disability where her arms didn’t form properly and the amount of insults she gets for it is insane and not one person defends her.

Answer 33

Asker

That has nothing to do with body shaming.

Answer 34

Opinion Owner

They insult her for the way her body looks because of a birth defect. That is body shaming.

Answer 35

Asker

I googled her. She gets insults because she is an animal abuser.

Answer 36

Opinion Owner

No, people have twisted stories about her because they don’t like her. Even so they still body shame her every chance they get

Answer 37

Opinion Owner

They even go as far as body shaming her mother who has the same birth defect

Answer 38

Asker

Yeah people insult people who are bad people get over it. I hated her as soon as I seen her. Typical SJW looking feminist.

Answer 39

Opinion Owner

Another one is Amberlynn Reid, she gets called all kinds of insults because of her body

Answer 40

Opinion Owner

Lol you just proved my point so thanks, bye now 👋🏼

Answer 41

Asker

No I haven't as I am only 1 person.

Answer 42

Mark987

Asker? man im a guy and you are wrong on this topic... lol

Answer 43

Opinion Owner

^thank you like

Answer 44

Opinion Owner

*lol

Answer 45

Asker

Prove me wrong then Mark.

Answer 46

Asker

I have supplied evidence where as she hasn't.

Answer 47

Opinion Owner

Don’t need evidence to prove that you’re a ignorant asshole yet I still know it’s true x

Answer 48

Asker

I'm ignorant yet you don't care about facts x

Answer 49

Asker

Also you don't know what the word bye means

Answer 50

Opinion Owner

Because it’s not facts love

Answer 51

Mark987

Okay the issue is... no matter what women wear, they are judged either with see through clothes or not... they have always been sexualized since god knows how long... Men have never had to deal with what women go through.. for an example... if a woman wears yoga pants and a sports bra... Every guy will make a comment on her appearance... now if a guy wears that it would look strange... Women have been Sexualized their whole life... it;s not the same thing.. not by a long shot

Answer 52

Asker

Multiple tweets shaming people for body shaming women isn't facts?

Answer 53

Asker

Women are sexualized more than men because men don't have ridiculous standards.

Answer 54

Mark987

Woman have been treated like sex objects since day 1... us guys have been lucky enough to go through that... a guy wearing see through pants will get in trouble because which guy does that? but a woman showing off her body they do it so often... but then we sexualize them

Answer 55

Opinion Owner

No it’s not, just cus you seen a few tweets about it doesn’t mean that’s what happens EVERY time. Jesus how gullible and closed minded do you have to be to think that that’s what happens all the time? Because it’s not.

Answer 56

Mark987

Okay you know what we can agree to disagree?

Answer 57

Asker

Yes maybe because nudity is a form of sexualization you absolute simp.

Answer 58

Opinion Owner

Man I got groped wearing pants and a t shirt whilst I struggled pushing my mom in a while chair and all his friends laughed because they knew it made me uncomfortable, no one defended me then either.

Answer 59

Asker

On what?

Answer 60

Mark987

I'm not going to argue... but I value your opinion.. just respect mine

Answer 61

Asker

Maybe because there was only his friends there?

Answer 62

Opinion Owner

And that makes it okay?

Answer 63

Asker

I do.

Answer 64

Asker

No it doesn't. But let's see them do that in front of 100 people and let's see how many ignore them doing that then.

Answer 65

Opinion Owner

It does happen, it happens often. And that’s the end of that. You are wrong on this one sorry.

Answer 66

Opinion Owner

Considering it was in the middle of a market in Barcelona and no one said anything lmao ok

Answer 67

Asker

What happens? Groping? Did I ever say that that doesn't happen?

Answer 68

Opinion Owner

Women get shamed and not everyone defends her, that’s what happens.

Answer 69

Mark987

100% no need for insults hon

Answer 70

Asker

Stick to things that you can provide proof on luv. Everying that I talk about I can provide proof on.

Answer 71

Asker

OK then mr nice guy I'm sorry.

Answer 72

Opinion Owner

Like I said, you are very wrong on this one. Not gonna argue with you about it anymore, peace out ✌🏼

Answer 73

Mark987

This convo isn't going anywhere... obviously he has his mind set

Answer 74

Asker

Girl come off of anonymous so I can DM you.

Answer 75

Asker

I'm so wrong that I can't be PROVEN wrong.

Answer 76

Asker

Your right mark I do have my mindset. A mindset that cares about facts.

Answer 77

Anonymous

Leftist Double Standards. There are Many of them

React

1 Person

Asker

1 y
Very very true.

Answer 78

Asker

Very very true.

Ladies how come it is OK to judge what men wear but it isn't OK to judge what women wear?

AI Bot Choice

Most Helpful Girl

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes