Do people think that I oversensitive ?

Question

I knew always had issue with trying to get better and not worrying much. I know that I always will have issue with women no matter what I tried to forget. women in any time of my pas they never had true friends at all. I all I got was fake friends were same sex. I know that I am struggling with making friends with women. I just give up with being friends with women. I don't see the point of having drama and always get knock down. i don't think I am not good with controlling with my emotional. My interest is video games , golf, push scooters and likes animals.

Answer 1

talloak | 217 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

When you a number of the same kinds of bad experiences with a variety of people, the problem is not likely to all be with them. You would benefit from learning why this always goes so badly. I suggest you write down everything you can remember about what others have said about you and ask people you trust about their opinions about the matter. Try not to react to any of it, just look for consistent patterns in all this. It might give you clues that would enable you to adjust things in yourself that are contributing to the breakdowns.

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Answer 2

Tstrbrainer | 241 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

You seem to have different interests from other women. Probably that's why they are not able to be friends with you.

Have you tried making friends outside your social circle?

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CoolKatie

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yep, tried making friends online from the USA, Austisa and always say thanks you to the bus driver and wave. I Did see a lot of school buses in Florida. I like trams from Australia and trains.
Tstrbrainer

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That's really sweet
CoolKatie

1 y
I can get along fine with men. men are cool with me more then women.

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CoolKatie

yep, tried making friends online from the USA, Austisa and always say thanks you to the bus driver and wave. I Did see a lot of school buses in Florida. I like trams from Australia and trains.

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Tstrbrainer

That's really sweet

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CoolKatie

I can get along fine with men. men are cool with me more then women.

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meetkitty123 | 137 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Don't worry I totally get you I didn't make friends with women for the longest time I still don't always make friends with women they don't always get me I don't know why whatever I mostly make best friends with men and I do a lot of guyish stuff like play video games and love animals and get my hands dirty I don't know like hike to the woods or bike ride and I like WWE wrestling and baseball and watching football but I'm girly girl so I don't get it lol the few women that I do make friends with they're awesome.

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triff | 51 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Thats awful to hear that these so called friends have treated you It could be that your oversensitive in the way that you expect the friendship to die and protecting yourself from this happening a defence can be to find faults to why this person can't be your friend A god place to try to meet high morales people is within a church Not to make you take on a religion but enjoy the friendships

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AlienParasite | 198 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

It's hard to make friends especially the older you get. Most people make their long lasting friendships during childhood.

I also struggle making friends, or at least getting long lasting ones. I'd say that you can just be yourself and enjoy yourself and if the opportunity of a friendship comes, enjoy it no matter if it's lasting or not. Enjoy it while it lasts. But don't force yourself too hard to make friends because you could end beign someone you are not and stop enjoying yourself.

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CoolKatie

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tried college , high school. I was friends with mostly guys. I went to a special learning disability school & college. couldn't keep a single female friends at all.

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CoolKatie

tried college , high school. I was friends with mostly guys. I went to a special learning disability school & college. couldn't keep a single female friends at all.

Answer 10

nonratracereality

Explorer

You are a gifted and unique person who has their own way of seeing things and you should not compare or idolize with others. You are a minority of diets and should appreciate you don't have the status quo at approaching decisions or answers.

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Lliam | 261 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Nope. You learned that there are many people who can't be trusted. Just know that there are also good people out there in the world. Keep working on it. You'll find good people. I also admire your determination in striving to get ahead in the world.

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menina | 1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

It seems to me that you had bad experiences while trying to make friends but keep in mind that not all women are like the ones you met. But I don't that your bad experiences make you oversensitive.

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menina

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*I don't think that

Maybe you just need to open yourself up to new friends and good experiences.
CoolKatie

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same issue with work just women
menina

1 y
Well unless you can get another job, there's not much you can do about it.
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CoolKatie

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one of women force me to fullday at work. that was very wrong. fine be like same women that I have isuse with
menina

1 y
Oh, I see.

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menina

*I don't think that

Maybe you just need to open yourself up to new friends and good experiences.

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CoolKatie

same issue with work just women

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menina

Well unless you can get another job, there's not much you can do about it.

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CoolKatie

one of women force me to fullday at work. that was very wrong. fine be like same women that I have isuse with

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menina

Oh, I see.

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Jjpayne | 769 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I think you get frustrated quite a bit but with dating... I agree it pretty frustrating

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CoolKatie

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I know about.
CoolKatie

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the dating. it just been a waiting game to get anywhere

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CoolKatie

I know about.

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CoolKatie

the dating. it just been a waiting game to get anywhere

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Hans222 | 414 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Try coming outside Katie, maybe some hiking. Things that empty your head, that will help 😊

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CoolKatie

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I did go outside all I got was sore leg and very sore hips. while I did do hiking. I dislike hills
Hans222

1 y
That's the common error Katie, if you're not used to doing sports, start at ease. Little bits first, while your physical shape improves. And listen to your body, if it says enough than slow down or stop for the day 😊👍
CoolKatie

1 y
that doesn't happen when I play golf and or ruining or jumping and doing pushed ups. star jump.

Answer 22

CoolKatie

I did go outside all I got was sore leg and very sore hips. while I did do hiking. I dislike hills

Answer 23

Hans222

That's the common error Katie, if you're not used to doing sports, start at ease. Little bits first, while your physical shape improves. And listen to your body, if it says enough than slow down or stop for the day 😊👍