Is this a sign she doesn't LIKE, LIKE ME?

[VitaBellaX]

▪︎I want to play the guitar, and the girl I like is pretty much a pro at it, So I asked her to give me lessons for about 2 hours twice a week and I'll pay her like £15 per hour.

▪︎She took the money last time no problem, And she laughed and stuff but how do I know IF she likes me?

▪︎She doesn't like my stuff on Facebook nor did she come in talking to me first, is this a waste of time? I want to play the guitar so it's not a waste... still tho do you think she has any or if she did how would I know?

Updates:

[AmandaYVR]

I guess ‘does he/she or doesn’t he/she’ is always the big question, right?
I think it’s good, your method of the guitar lessons. And no, it’s not a waste because you’re learning a new skill. I think it’s a clever way to get to know a girl. They often may lean towards nervousness or trepidation with guys, yet I always found personally that if it was my place of business or I was providing a service in some way, I was much more comfortable with the dynamic.
I have also been on the other side, when I was a customer at a retail place, and I was trying to gauge whether the guy was interested in me or not. It’s all a bit tricky, yes, but just know that you’re in good company, just like everyone before you, they’ve all wondered the very same thing.
Normally I would say try and watch their body language, to see if they are engaged with you, leaning in, or trying to get away as soon as possible. Although even that can be difficult to judge, because a general social anxiety can make a person look like they are facing away, when really they might internally be trying to push themselves to stay, to overcome their shyness.
I think you should just keep doing what you’re doing. Just try and elongate the lesson, if possible, and throw in some random semi-personal questions along the way, to see how much she opens up about her life.
Where do the lessons take place?

[Screenwriter]

I'm a bit confused, Vita. How do you know each other? Is she someone you've connected with to give you guitar lessons BECAUSE you're attracted to her? Are you friends in some other capacity? Of COURSE she took the money. She's skilled at playing guitar and can parley that into extra cash. 20 US dollars an hour is nothing to sneeze at! This has nothing to do with her liking you as a person. I don't have any indication from you about any attraction on HER part. Sounds like a business deal and little more.
It's not a waste if you learn guitar. But, I'd look for signs that she's interested, such as, "If you like guitar so much, there's a concert in the park we could go to to listen to Jill Shill. She's great!" Or some such other indication of interest outside of the lessons and money.
If you get none of that, I suspect she sees you as a student.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Why don't you ask her and if you are too shy to just ask her then write her a note and have it wrapped up in the money that you give her the next time for guitar lessons and have it say something like
I'd like to spend more time with you would you like to go get a cup of coffee after these lessons I'll pay for it
Make sure she likes coffee first but depending upon how she acts when you ask her and if she accepts the coffee date then you have your foot in the door once you're on the date it's all up to you to make her like you for a more than just guitar lessons but if guitar lessons is all that you can get from her tell her that you think that she is the most awesome guitar player that she's that you have ever seen and you still want her to give you guitar lessons regardless

[kikino]

You started off to learn the guitar with someone that is better than yourself, she just happens to be a girl, pretty (your likes), and is easy to be around.
Keep learning from her and if it becomes a dating relationship then thats good. Don't expect one thing from another when neither side has expressed their interest yet.
Enjoy the lessons and her company and see how it turns out.

[BassetGirl104]

I think this is a really good way of getting to know her, so congratulations on that! 😊 It’s definitely not a waste of time, as you’re learning something new and something you’re interested in.


Does she have feelings for you? Unfortunately, it’s too early to tell. I suggest you keep getting to know her. Ask her questions about herself during your lessons — what does she like to do for fun other than play guitar?


Once you get more comfortable around each other, take the chance and ask her out for lunch/dinner or a walk after your lesson. If she says yes, that’s a wonderful sign!


Best of luck!

[Butterflyy88]

It's maybe too early to tell for now, but stick to it if she doesn't like you more than a friend, at least you've still developed a new skill from attending the lessons.

You have the same hobby so that's a good start, common ground it a good way of getting to know people. Especially if you like them!

Maybe learn what type of music she likes, share some of your favourites too. Music can tell a lot about a person, especially if they're trying to send a message, pay close attention to the ones she recommends.

[jennifer_bloom]

Not liking your stuff on facebook is not a sign she does not like you but I never mix business with pleasure - she is either your teacher or your girlfriend - mixing the two could lead to a conflict of interest - if you want to date her - find another teacher - that is my recommendation.

[tjbyrd39]

Well without knowing more. Does she giggle or laugh it when you say something stupid and put her hand like on your knee or something. I'm not talking like trying to grab your junk that would be obvious. Just finding reasons to touch your shoulder your arm stuff like that. Does a smile never leave her face the entire time. Is it somebody you known for a while. Look for the signs that you noticed whenever she crushed on somebody else. I don't really know what I'm talking about though. I usually just write a note that says do you like me with check box yes or no. And the PS with a checkbox for submissive yes or no.

[loveslongnails]

I've always believed that if a girl likes you, no matter how "shy" she may be, you know it. If you can't tell, she probably doesn't have a romantic interest in you. That might change, but don't expect her to just come out and declare it one day, even if she did.

[CuriousCat123]

Well... You should just ask her to hang out with you and a couple friends. If she says yes you move foward and ask her to come over with even fewer friends eventually getting to just you asking her out. if she says no at first stick with guitar and not crushes.

[Bratsondanielle]

15 dollars an hour? U can get a blowjob at that price lol. But seriously from what you described I have no clue if she likes you or not ... only you can judge

[Massageman]

After a few months , you could casually mention that you could envision the two of you doing other things together such as seeing a movie, going out to dinner- then see how she responds to that suggestion.

[Zelda_5]

I don't think she like likes you. Keep learning guitar though!

[OlderAndWiser]

There's not enough information for anyone to guess at whether she likes you. What is your opinion?

[TheLittleInnocent]

Ah women are complicated. Even I myself a woman can't decipher the situation lmao.

[bklynbadboy1]

Well unfortunately you can't tell if a girl like you from the information that you've given likes you from the information that you've given. There's only one way to be sure

[art84]

I would ask her out and see she wants hang out with you. The worse is she says no and it makes things awkward with the guitar lessons.

[mélancolie]

can't say from just that tbh, but if you say she never talks to you first or likes you stuff i mean that kinda sounds like she doesn't but I don't know

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's hard telling if she doesn't want to do things with you it might be a sign hard say?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

All I can tell you is Facebook has nothing to do with it. Wtf is wrong with the heads of "people"?

[pizzalovershouse]

Just learn the guitar lessons an sounds like she isn't into you

[msc545]

I think you could ask her, or, just give it time. You will find out with patience.

[luvstoned4him]

See. s friendly but could change in the future..

[TheAfrikan]

Make a move on her then you will get to know.