Are good women nowadays a needle in the haystack?

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It seems inevitable that finding a good woman is like finding a needle in the haystack. As in one in a million. Back then, women were easier to impress, but now with the internet, they're more demanding than ever. It was easier for the nerd to find the right one at the bar back then, but now, unless he's rich, women see no point in having him when she can see the alpha male from 15 miles from her location in this new tech guided society.

Plus obesity is an epidemic hitting the millennials, so it's even harder to impress even the average women who has more men asking her out and rejecting the vast majority of them.

It has now gotten to the point that a good number of men cannot take it anymore and have decided that getting married and starting a family is not worth the hassle and have decided to spend whatever money they earn on themselves.

Now I have started to see one of the main reasons for the decline in birthrates, save for immigrants. Local women in the Western world have gotten increasingly demanding to the point that women from third world nations are more likely to breed than them. I wonder how things will look if birthrates decline too much to the point of the population aging heavily.

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FocusOfSuspicion

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I dearly hope this isn’t the case, I do believe that finding a good woman FOR YOU is difficult. Not you in particular of course but for any individual. There’s a plethora of perfectly respectable, ethical, passionate, attractive women out there, but are they right for you and will you ever have the opportunity to get to know them well enough to know these things?

Imagine for a minute a woman who: is a devout Catholic, pretty, and loves children/ teaches kindergarten. Would you likely cross paths with her? Would you find her passion for religion and the moral code derived from it we endearing or off putting? Do you want kids? She does.

She exists, has a good heart, is attractive, respectful, kind, capable of hard work, etc... So you interested? Some would say yes. Some would say no. If you’re interested would you ever cross paths with her? Do you attend Catholic mass and socialize with other attendees? Do you spend lots of time around kindergartners?

Finding people is hard. It doesn’t mean there’s no one of quality out there. But there’s quality, and then there’s your type... AND there’s accessibility. And you need all three.

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Asker

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Like I said, I am not denying that there are good women, they're just rare, especially in the United States, Europe and Oceania.

Answer 2

Asker

Like I said, I am not denying that there are good women, they're just rare, especially in the United States, Europe and Oceania.

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Simplismilez | 53 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I honestly don't think I'm demanding. I don't care about money or status.. i have to at least have a little attraction and id like for a guy to not have a problem showing his interest. But then there's also the fact that id like someone to say what they mean and mean what they say

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Like a convicted felon or a rich nice guy? Seems those are the only ones women want in modern America.
Simplismilez

1 y
No. I don't want either of those guys. I just want a normal guy with a good head on his shoulders
Asker

1 y
That's what they all say.
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Simplismilez

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Okay well you don't have to believe me. Doesn't matter to me if you choose to view life through your warped lens. But don't complain that women are too demanding and then dismiss someone who is telling you that they aren't all that way. Your attitude is why you can't find a good woman ill tell you that right now.

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Asker

Like a convicted felon or a rich nice guy? Seems those are the only ones women want in modern America.

Answer 5

Simplismilez

No. I don't want either of those guys. I just want a normal guy with a good head on his shoulders

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Asker

That's what they all say.

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Simplismilez

Okay well you don't have to believe me. Doesn't matter to me if you choose to view life through your warped lens. But don't complain that women are too demanding and then dismiss someone who is telling you that they aren't all that way. Your attitude is why you can't find a good woman ill tell you that right now.

Answer 8

Anonymous

It's men's fault kinda, horny desperate incels will tell even the most average looking girl they're a 10, and when they continue over and over to be told this, they believe it, and see men of the same league as inferior, then these woman get used for sex and cry online about how men are trash. Truthfully it isn't worth it. Imagine the life you could have solo, without a woman all her issues multiple kids all their issues becoming yours, for what? I decided long ago (3 years) I'm done with relationships. I've had some instances where I know I could have had a few woman, but, I didn't want them anymore. Just gotta stop pretending everyone's life has to be a hallmark card, and start actually living yours

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MissDawn7961 | 541 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

we good women are out there you just have to know where to look for us ! try your local church or face book ! thanks

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Like I said, there are good women, but they are very rare, especially in the US, Europe and Oceania.

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Asker

Like I said, there are good women, but they are very rare, especially in the US, Europe and Oceania.

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SavageGirl101 | 159 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Good women are everywhere😐🤚 such a stupid question

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I will not dispute that. But they're very rare.
SavageGirl101

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They aren’t rare u just aren’t looking hard enough
Asker

1 y
Oh, I have looked hard all the time. But I decided it's just not worth the effort anymore. Even if they are good, they're all taken.
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SavageGirl101

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Then just stay single
Asker

1 y
You're 18, what could you possibly know about what I have been through?
SavageGirl101

1 y
My age has nothing to do with anything and I don’t care what you’ve been through❤️ either stay single or stop complaining idgaf
Asker

1 y
My dear girl, please be civil. I see that you called my question stupid, so I am reiterating to you as to why it is not.
SavageGirl101

1 y
And I am reiterating to you why I simply do not care😌💅
SavageGirl101

1 y
And there was no reason to bring my age into the convo so u obviously weren’t tryna be civil. The convo ended a day ago drop it geez
Asker

1 y
Typical disrespectful teenager. Just makes me wonder how parents raise their kids nowadays.
SavageGirl101

1 y
Ok? 👋 bye

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Asker

I will not dispute that. But they're very rare.

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SavageGirl101

They aren’t rare u just aren’t looking hard enough

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Asker

Oh, I have looked hard all the time. But I decided it's just not worth the effort anymore. Even if they are good, they're all taken.

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SavageGirl101

Then just stay single

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Asker

You're 18, what could you possibly know about what I have been through?

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SavageGirl101

My age has nothing to do with anything and I don’t care what you’ve been through❤️ either stay single or stop complaining idgaf

Answer 18

Asker

My dear girl, please be civil. I see that you called my question stupid, so I am reiterating to you as to why it is not.

Answer 19

SavageGirl101

And I am reiterating to you why I simply do not care😌💅

Answer 20

SavageGirl101

And there was no reason to bring my age into the convo so u obviously weren’t tryna be civil. The convo ended a day ago drop it geez

Answer 21

Asker

Typical disrespectful teenager. Just makes me wonder how parents raise their kids nowadays.

Answer 22

SavageGirl101

Ok? 👋 bye

Answer 23

Hangry22

Guru

Take off your slut filters and see with a new view

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1 y
What slut filters? You don't know my view, especially since you're 19 and I've been out in the big bad world.
Hangry22

1 y
Oh sorry. If you're old, take out the young girl filter and see.
Ya i don't date so i don't have to see the "big bad world"

Answer 24

Asker

What slut filters? You don't know my view, especially since you're 19 and I've been out in the big bad world.

Answer 25

Hangry22

Oh sorry. If you're old, take out the young girl filter and see.
Ya i don't date so i don't have to see the "big bad world"

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Cherokeehp | 907 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

They’re literally everywhere

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I am aware. But they are rare in the USA, Europe and Oceania.
Cherokeehp

1 y
No they’re not.
Asker

1 y
Yes they are. And even if they are good, they're all taken.
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Cherokeehp

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That is not true at all in the slightest.
Asker

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Yes it is. I have been out in the big bad world and I have seen it all. The hypergamy is endless and nonsensical.
Cherokeehp

1 y
Lol, no.
Asker

1 y
Oh yes, I have seen it. My former boss had a woman 20 years his junior and it was obvious why she married him.

Answer 27

Asker

I am aware. But they are rare in the USA, Europe and Oceania.

Answer 28

Cherokeehp

No they’re not.

Answer 29

Asker

Yes they are. And even if they are good, they're all taken.

Answer 30

Cherokeehp

That is not true at all in the slightest.

Answer 31

Asker

Yes it is. I have been out in the big bad world and I have seen it all. The hypergamy is endless and nonsensical.

Answer 32

Cherokeehp

Lol, no.

Answer 33

Asker

Oh yes, I have seen it. My former boss had a woman 20 years his junior and it was obvious why she married him.

Answer 34

IlluminatiExposed0

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Women should be seen and not Heard.

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Anonymous

You lack the asshole and hero instincts 😑.

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MountAverage | 286 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Nope.

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I am afraid it is.
MountAverage

1 y
Then be afraid. But I know for a fact that it's not true. :)

Answer 37

Asker

I am afraid it is.

Answer 38

MountAverage

Then be afraid. But I know for a fact that it's not true. :)

Answer 39

SkullsandBeauty

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I'm wheezing.

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