Why does loving constructive criticism make people like my coworkers and daughters so crazy or in my sister's case suicidal?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Not everyone views things the same way. Obviously the people you are trying to help are viewing this is harsh criticism. Are they the problem? Are you the problem? Is it a mixture of both?

Giving criticisms to people who don't want it will only result in their hating you. For the people that want it you should honestly evaluate how you are communicating these criticisms.

1. Don't bother to criticize something that is out of their control to change
2. Don't criticize them when they are emotionally unable to accept your words
3. Try the sandwich approach. Give a compliment on something that they are doing right. Then give a constructive criticism. Then end with another positive compliment
4. Ask them to give you constructive criticism
5. Practice your deliverly on others who are impartial to find out if you are just saying things poorly

[Oigit]

Well it's much easier to point out other people faults, then it is to accept our own. More often then not those who ride a high horse and criticize others, do so in order to make their issues seems smaller then they are. Everything from your post to your user name makes me wonder if your behavior is the result of you trying to avoid dealing with own issues.

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Waiting for you to update the question with "joking" or "lol got you x"

[Cherokeehp]

You honestly just sound like a judgmental bitch.

[Bananaman177]

Poor husband.

Poor kids.