Why do women disappear out of nowhere?

[Vewrie]

I think you are being childish now. This happens to girls all the time. I guess you are also young and you can’t expect people that are not middle aged behave as if they are. A lot of people are shit, you have to learn to wait with giving your heart away and get to know girls more.
That’s it. Look at how she treated her exes. How is her personality? Is she trustworthy, considerate, how does she treat her friends and family?
Look:
Bad choice of girls;
Any self proclaimed “Daddy’s girl”. This means she is a spoiled narcissist, TRUST me. She’ll only care for her own feelings and you’ll never matter, only daddy does (because he enables and spoils her).

Girls that have 7 friends, party hard, are shallow, take 10 000 selfies to get attention on sm etc. Narcissists. Avoid them.

Girls with unresolved emotional baggage. It is okay if she had a rough childhood, was bullied etc ONLY if she went to therapy for a couple of years and thus matured through therapy, learned to self regulate her emotions and be responsible in relationships. THEN, she can actually be a better girlfriend/friend than any other girl. But it is quite unlikely if she is a teenager or in her early 20s, that she will already have done this work. Instead she’d probably be unstable, unfaithful, hot/cold, disappear on you or be extremely clingey etc.

Good choice of girls;
*They takes responsibility for their actions and do not look for “supplies” to only give to them but not the other way around. Good girls care and are consistent.
*They are stable and don’t party all the time, they are not “the life of the party”. Look for the ones that are quieter or seem “sensible”.
*They don’t fall in love after 2 seconds and wants to rush things, they are careful with their feelings.

Sounds boring? Yeah, it is the same for girls. Everyone, regardless of their sex likes charismatic people that makes everyone look at them. But you can’t trust these people. They like the attention from more than just one partner...

[Xoxocutekitty]

Women disappear for "no reason " for many reasons usually only a fraction of which actually pertain to you. Maybe she's bored or not looking for anything serious.

Maybe you texted too much or you were too aloof and she wrote you off as a player. At the end of the day, if she's not gonna matter in 5 years, dont waste 5 minutes wondering what if.

Pro tip: there's no secret to finding 'the one.' The one is just someone who is interested in you and reciprocates today, tomorrow, and the next day, and ideallly every day until the end.

Remember, every woman is replacable until the last. Thats sort of how dating works. doesn't mean you should treat anyone that doesn't work out like trash, but just dont lose your sense of self over it. Someones inability to see your good traits doesn't make you deficient. It also doesn't mean theyre stupid.
Just means you didn't 'click' and thats okay.

Get back out there open and vulnerable yourself, ready to catch someone else and thats how you find someone willing to connect with you on the same level.

[Svellte]

I have seen some other comments and some of them are rude. Anyway let be straight to the point. Women leave men for only one reason
and that is HYPERGAMY. Meaning she wasn't attracted to you or she lost attraction for you. Why?
1: You weren't man enough.
2:There were other suitable options meaning better men.
Now that you have identified why she ghost you. There is a solution...
1:Work on yourself by going to the gym, building your communication skills and finding a good job

WOMEN LIKE MEN WHO ARE AMBITIOUS AND FOCUSED ON THEIR GOALS.
NEVER WORSHIP WOMEN IN ANY CASE.
IS HIGH TIME YOU MOVE ON AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE.

[MannMitAntworten]

The only thing you can remind yourself is that the next woman was not your last wan. Try not to find parallels within women in contrast to your ex either. It is nothing but self-sabotage.


When you have a litany of women pull this on you, then it will make sense to lose faith in the opposite sex. You aren’t there yet... trust me, you don’t want to be there. Not ever.

[homystew]

Have to agree with the girls in this one. Rape exists, and it happens. Yet, they move on and realize not all men are demons. So should I suspect the same behaviour of men, which are not raped as often. Men dont have any authority in saying shit like its their nature to ghost and stuff whereas men do worse. Nevertheless women who also think low on men should realize its really not every. Im tired of this toxic society.

[Unit1]

This happens often when she found someone else, that she is interested in more than you. It can be because he has more money than you. Hypergamy & briffaults law.

How can you trust girls?
Don't hand out your trust like it's public WiFi. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Take only risks you can manage to recover from.

[Agape93]

How can we trust men when they routinely abuse and murder us?


You suck it up, snowflake, and move on and find someone else like everyone else.

[iseekpinetrees]

Might of thought you weren't a good match. You came off creepy or asshole. Or she found somebody else.

[mobiusforniner]

Its called ghosting. Its a common technique used by females who are immature and cannot address conflict, so they avoid it instead

[TheFlak38]

she is surrounded by an army of thirsty, horny white knights. girls have no reason to give you any validation. for them you will always be just another loser who is supposed to give them free attention.

[cth96190]

That is what women do.
It is simply the nature of the beast.

[Anonymous]

You need to look for a bride,
Like get setup with blind date, or just get arrange marriage

[heytakeiteasy]

In the past I've done this when he either leaves me on read for several days or he says something off-color that would give me the indication that he is playing games or is very incompatible.

[Agem123]

I don't think anyone disappears out of nowhere.

There are always signs. You just happen to ignore them.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is what women do. Your last girl found someone she seemed "better" and she jumped.

Never, ever, fully trust a woman.

[Alyssa11]

You're dating the wrong kind of women.

[sheikalana]

Were you dating or in a relationship?

[ThatQuietLass]

How can I trust men when one was a rapist? 😑

[elly91]

The same reason many men do...

[stuntbrain]

Disappearing out of somewhere is amateur

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Because those women didn't like you enough.

[Jmmmfi4]

It's just what they do. They could care a less.

[pigoat]

Because they stupid