This was a fun one, Lady asked the question below and I responded, she deleted my response Don't you just love when that happens?

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I believe this is the same 30+ y/o woman who keeps posting the exact same question but rephrasing and morphing the story until she gets an agreeable answer. Then she continues to go on and on under your comment, trying to twist the story more and “not understanding” what you’re saying. She’s unbelievable and I guess she’s still at it. But aside from that, I’d humbly advise you to not take these instances to heart. Majority of us are only on this site because we want to offer our advice and help where we can. Not everyone is like that though. Some peoples “advice” comes off as judgmental and/or harsh, and it makes the asker feel belittled or embarrassed, so they lash out. Its important for us, as the responder, to not take this as a window to get insulted and sling shit back and forth like monkeys. Just notice the situation making a negative turn and dismiss yourself, since they very clearly have had a bad experience on here, or simply don’t want your advice. But that just comes with the territory on here and you can’t take these instances personally.