Women who have been cat called, how did you feel and react personally to it?

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I'm curious to know since plenty of guys on this site say that women should enjoy being cat called to compared to the many women who say they don't enjoy it at all. So women how do you feel? Happy, Scared? If you have a personal story you wanna tell be my guest. And I guess guys what's your opinions on women being cat called? I might be wrong about my first statement. We will find out here if I am.

I hate it and feel terrified for my wellbeing.

I enjoy it and it makes me feel confident.

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Answer 1

Anonymous

If you can’t address me respectfully I won’t even acknowledge the guy presence. Cat calling is disrespectful to me because people intentions mindset aren’t the same

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Yeah I understand. Like if they aren't polite enough than just ignore them right?
Asker

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*then sorry
Opinion Owner

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You can start by saying “hey how are you doing” or hey how you doing can I get your name? My name is so and so etc. establish a greeting with that person instead of cat calling. Not everyone takes that well
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Asker

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Yeah ok. So if they like shout at you, "Nice legs" or something it's cat calling but if they try to make conversation and are nice about it it's not. I understand now, do you have like a story about cat calling? If you don't want to say that's fine.

Answer 2

Asker

Yeah I understand. Like if they aren't polite enough than just ignore them right?

Answer 3

Asker

*then sorry

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

You can start by saying “hey how are you doing” or hey how you doing can I get your name? My name is so and so etc. establish a greeting with that person instead of cat calling. Not everyone takes that well

Answer 5

Asker

Yeah ok. So if they like shout at you, "Nice legs" or something it's cat calling but if they try to make conversation and are nice about it it's not. I understand now, do you have like a story about cat calling? If you don't want to say that's fine.

Answer 6

Anonymous

Depends on the catcalled, if it’s harmless it’s cool. If it’s creepy it’s not.

Opinion Owner

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*catcaller
Asker

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What do you mean? Do you use tone to define the difference or what they say?
Opinion Owner

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Yeah, tone, body language and word. Some guys do it as just a harmless compliment that doesn’t last very long as they quickly move on. Some guys stare way too long to the point that it’s not normal, others say derogatory things, and others are too aggressive in tone. Generally I’ve found older guys more respectful and younger ones less so. But I don’t want to generalise because I’m sure this isn’t the case for everyone. I also don’t look my age so still have young guys trying too.

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

*catcaller

Answer 8

Asker

What do you mean? Do you use tone to define the difference or what they say?

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

Yeah, tone, body language and word. Some guys do it as just a harmless compliment that doesn’t last very long as they quickly move on. Some guys stare way too long to the point that it’s not normal, others say derogatory things, and others are too aggressive in tone. Generally I’ve found older guys more respectful and younger ones less so. But I don’t want to generalise because I’m sure this isn’t the case for everyone. I also don’t look my age so still have young guys trying too.

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NYCQuestions1976 | 341 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I see it happen in the city all the time. Usually teenagers and guys in their 20s. Women just ignore them.

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