If your ex wants to be friends and still hangout, is there a chance she wants to get back with you?

Question

If she still watches all my stories, hasn't blocked me, says we can hang out and just "see what works" does that mean she can potentially want to get back with me? When she broke up with me she said she wants to be friends with "no expectations".

Answer 1

HollyK21 | 205 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Well, do you feel like you can be her friend without expectations? Just because she feels like this is doable does not mean that it works for you or would be healthy. Does it mean that she wants to get back together? Slim chance. But you don’t wanna begin a friendship if you’re still hopeful, even a little bit.

Asker

10 d
as a girl, have you ever said this? Or do you know what she means when she says she wants to be friends.
HollyK21

10 d
I have done this in the past, but only on one occasion. I’d grown very close with my ex, even outside of romance and hoped we could still be friends, just to stay in each others lives. But it was too hard for both of us, mostly for him. This was a few years ago though. Anyway, I think she has good intentions, but they may not be the ones you are hoping for, and you don’t wanna set yourself up for heartbreak.

Answer 2

Asker

as a girl, have you ever said this? Or do you know what she means when she says she wants to be friends.

Answer 3

HollyK21

I have done this in the past, but only on one occasion. I’d grown very close with my ex, even outside of romance and hoped we could still be friends, just to stay in each others lives. But it was too hard for both of us, mostly for him. This was a few years ago though. Anyway, I think she has good intentions, but they may not be the ones you are hoping for, and you don’t wanna set yourself up for heartbreak.

Answer 4

Anonymous

I don't know a thing about your relationship or her so grain of salt with this one, but it seems like she's putting you in a holding pattern of keeping her options available. If nothing turns up, she doesn't appear to hate you, and you seem cool to her, you might be back on if that's what you want, but if someone else comes along, all this friendship no expectations may just go out the window and she may abandon even your friendship altogether. I mean really the ball is in your court on this one because if you don't want to just be friends, whatever you have isn't going to work, or if you or she would be really jealous or upset if either started dating someone new, there is no friendship that's going to fix that to where you/she doesn't feel that way.

Asker

9 d
she's very on and off and impulsive. I have no idea what she's going to do next.

Answer 5

Asker

she's very on and off and impulsive. I have no idea what she's going to do next.

Answer 6

iFarted | 394 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

sure, there's always that chance. In the past, everytime my ex came back into my life we just fucked, never for a relationship. they were single and horny, I was single and horny. We fucked before so I'm "safe" to them.

Answer 7

cth96190 | 475 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

I cannot think of any other motivation that a female might have.

Asker

9 d
to want to get back with me, you mean?
cth96190

9 d
Yes, to get back with you.

Answer 8

Asker

to want to get back with me, you mean?

Answer 9

cth96190

Yes, to get back with you.

Answer 10

Anonymous

Talk to her about it is my first recommendation. There is no point in beating around the bush, go on a date with someone else or just yourself and let her know you're going on a date (If your going on a date with yourself don't tell her that, let her assume it is with another girl) her reaction to it will tell you everything.
- if she's happy for you
she doesn't have feelings for you anymore, if she does have feelings they are completely platonic

-If she's angry or behaves jealously
She is most likely still interested in you romanticly and expected something more from the relationship than what you gave her.

Keep in mind that everyone reacts differently in different situations, personally, I can tell you that if I really wanted to be JUST FRIENDS with a guy I was always serious about it.

Asker

8 d
She still always views my stories... whats up with that? We've only been broken up with for about 4 days.

Answer 11

Asker

She still always views my stories... whats up with that? We've only been broken up with for about 4 days.

Answer 12

MissEmilyRose

Xper 3

She wants to keep her options open to other guys while still keeping you close. She’s afraid to let go of you when there isn’t someone else to fill that time and space in her heart with. I’m sorry, but that’s how I’d see it.

Answer 13

ITGirl95 | 63 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

It can go both ways. Observe her for some time. Do you still want to go back to her?

Asker

9 d
Kind of do want to get back with her. But i dont know what she meant by what she said.

Answer 14

Asker

Kind of do want to get back with her. But i dont know what she meant by what she said.

Answer 15

SongBird3 | 90 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

She wants you to simp for her! Dont do it!

Asker

9 d
I won't be. Definitely won't be taking the bill or doin any shit for her.

Answer 16

Asker

I won't be. Definitely won't be taking the bill or doin any shit for her.

Answer 17

pigoat | 398 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

There is always a chance

Answer 18

Gedaria | 1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

There is always a possibility.

Answer 19

Agem123 | 253 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

She could be using you for attention.

Asker

9 d
in what way?

Answer 20

Asker

in what way?

Answer 21

memelover

Xper 1

Kind of sounds like she wants to control you.

If your ex wants to be friends and still hangout, is there a chance she wants to get back with you?

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