Am I f***ed? (Girl opinions would be most valuable to me)?

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So basically, I'm good with talking to girls, but everything turns sour when they see what my face looks like. I tested this out with omegle text chat. I would text a girl and have a solid conversation and get her snapchat. However, whenever she asks what my face looks like and I show her on snapchat, she blocks me immediately. What do I do here? I'm not even ugly. I know that I have an average face, and my body is in shape. It's upsetting because I feel like I was born to not have an attractive face, and I can't even do anything about it. It feels like my inability to get girls has been created at birth :/

Answer 1

Pistolpete90

Xper 6

Photos aren't always the best way to gauge attractiveness; often what makes someone really attractive is their expressions, how they animate when they talk, etc

Asker

18 d
Maybe only to a certain extent, but thanks

Answer 2

Asker

Maybe only to a certain extent, but thanks

Answer 3

Anonymous

You just need to find a girl whose not superficial, like the 2 b***he's who've already replied to you here. Don't try to hide who you are, and let her see who you really are.

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18 d
Gotchya. Thanks for the input

Answer 4

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Gotchya. Thanks for the input

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chriscdi | 741 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

experiment with facial hair and hairstyles, see what fits your face the best, believe it or not, hair can play a part on your face

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18 d
I'm balding a little bit, so hairstyle options are kinda limited. Growing a beard doesn't seem like a bad idea though.
chriscdi

18 d
then try the facial hair
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18 d
Do you think bald guys have a thing going for them?
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chriscdi

18 d
i have no clue tbh

Answer 6

Asker

I'm balding a little bit, so hairstyle options are kinda limited. Growing a beard doesn't seem like a bad idea though.

Answer 7

chriscdi

then try the facial hair

Answer 8

Asker

Do you think bald guys have a thing going for them?

Answer 9

chriscdi

i have no clue tbh

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alice55 | 1.8K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Don't lie to yourself if they turn you down when seeing you face then you're ugly not average if you were average they would still be talking to you...

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18 d
Well either way, that doesn't solve my problem. What should I do about that? I was just born like that
alice55

17 d
You can do plastic surgery and if you don't want to then you just have to wait for the day a girl will like your appearance or just don't care for it.

Answer 11

Asker

Well either way, that doesn't solve my problem. What should I do about that? I was just born like that

Answer 12

alice55

You can do plastic surgery and if you don't want to then you just have to wait for the day a girl will like your appearance or just don't care for it.

Answer 13

basedbun

Xper 1

if they think you're ugly then you're ugly dude.

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18 d
Well what can I do about that? I just can't get attractive girls no matter what I do?
basedbun

18 d
probably not. i mean, you can if you have a lot of money. why would an attractive girl want an ugly guy? whats in it for her otherwise?
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18 d
I don't know, his personality? I thought girls were the gender that is known to not care as much about what a guy looks like.
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basedbun

18 d
I mean, I would say we are more forgiving than guys (im not), but i've learnt that girls can be pretty ruthless too. if she dates an ugly guy, its usually to take advantage of him. she'd typically cheat on such a male.
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18 d
I feel like I should probably stop trying to date girls for now. I've been trying to get into a long term relationship basically ever since I hit puberty, but it never works out. I can't even get average looking girls. But the thing is, I don't think I'm ugly. My body is fit, but my face is pretty average. I did a poll on GaG awhile back, and the results said I have an average face. I also have never had a girl tell me that I'm ugly to my face. Like 99% of girls reject me though.
basedbun

18 d
girls dont really say shit like that to your face. as for gag, its a bit of a weird shithole. they could have been voting you up out of pity. girls are stupid like that. all i can say is that whatever you think about yourself doesn't count. if girls find you ugly, then you're ugly
Asker

18 d
Ok, could I dm you a picture of what I look like and get your opinion on some things?

Answer 14

Asker

Well what can I do about that? I just can't get attractive girls no matter what I do?

Answer 15

basedbun

probably not. i mean, you can if you have a lot of money. why would an attractive girl want an ugly guy? whats in it for her otherwise?

Answer 16

Asker

I don't know, his personality? I thought girls were the gender that is known to not care as much about what a guy looks like.

Answer 17

basedbun

I mean, I would say we are more forgiving than guys (im not), but i've learnt that girls can be pretty ruthless too. if she dates an ugly guy, its usually to take advantage of him. she'd typically cheat on such a male.

Answer 18

Asker

I feel like I should probably stop trying to date girls for now. I've been trying to get into a long term relationship basically ever since I hit puberty, but it never works out. I can't even get average looking girls. But the thing is, I don't think I'm ugly. My body is fit, but my face is pretty average. I did a poll on GaG awhile back, and the results said I have an average face. I also have never had a girl tell me that I'm ugly to my face. Like 99% of girls reject me though.

Answer 19

basedbun

girls dont really say shit like that to your face. as for gag, its a bit of a weird shithole. they could have been voting you up out of pity. girls are stupid like that. all i can say is that whatever you think about yourself doesn't count. if girls find you ugly, then you're ugly

Answer 20

Asker

Ok, could I dm you a picture of what I look like and get your opinion on some things?

Answer 21

ChefPapiChulo | 68 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

lift weights

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18 d
I do. I am definitely in decent shape. I bench 215 and squat 300
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18 d
180lbs body weight
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5'11
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ChefPapiChulo

18 d
not sure what to tell you. besides stop looking for girls. The right one will come to you.
Asker

18 d
If you say so 😭😂. I appreciate it though
ChefPapiChulo

18 d
That’s typically the advice you’ll get from anyone. You can’t force feelings, they happen naturally.

Answer 22

Asker

I do. I am definitely in decent shape. I bench 215 and squat 300

Answer 23

Asker

180lbs body weight

Answer 24

ChefPapiChulo

not sure what to tell you. besides stop looking for girls. The right one will come to you.

Answer 25

Asker

If you say so 😭😂. I appreciate it though

Answer 26

ChefPapiChulo

That’s typically the advice you’ll get from anyone. You can’t force feelings, they happen naturally.

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