Girls, How long would it take you to know a guy is the one to marry one day?

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My mom has been on me (not in an overbearing way) but in a caring way where she wants me to get married. I’m 30 now, Im wrapping up grad school, saving money to have my own apt in the city. I cook good food, decent looking, in shape, I don’t sleep around or dont do drugs/don’t drink/don’t go to parties. I want to be a caring guy for the girl I potentially marry one day. My expectations aren’t high but i don’t want to marry a slutty girl, rude or lacks education. But I don’t know where to look?

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yessitsonanpoppin

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A lot of girls want to get married!! you’ll have no shortage of girls. You’re lucky you are a guy because you have a lot more time to spare and no biological clock to worry about (it’s also your decision to settle down, as it’s the guys move to propose)!

I recommend joining different clubs and events and you will definitely meet people that share your interests. You could also meet girls through mutual friends.

Just take it one day at a time and continue to be open but busy.

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14 d
But what if a girl catches my eye, I keep reading and hearing girls say “omg that’s creepy if you approach a girl randomly in public”. Obviously it’s kind of like applying for a job/having an interview. If someone just walks into a company and says can I have a job and looks unpresentable and has no resume it looks dumb right? If a girl catches my eye, I think I have a genuine, funny side. Even if a girl says “no thanks” or “not interested”. I’ll just say no worries and wish her well and move on. As a guy I have to try, I can’t just give up. I know the difference when a guy has to move on if a girl rejects him. But I can’t stop pursuing until I find the right girl. Many guys I know just give up on pursuing girls and then they have a negative view of women. I don’t want to be like that.

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But what if a girl catches my eye, I keep reading and hearing girls say “omg that’s creepy if you approach a girl randomly in public”. Obviously it’s kind of like applying for a job/having an interview. If someone just walks into a company and says can I have a job and looks unpresentable and has no resume it looks dumb right? If a girl catches my eye, I think I have a genuine, funny side. Even if a girl says “no thanks” or “not interested”. I’ll just say no worries and wish her well and move on. As a guy I have to try, I can’t just give up. I know the difference when a guy has to move on if a girl rejects him. But I can’t stop pursuing until I find the right girl. Many guys I know just give up on pursuing girls and then they have a negative view of women. I don’t want to be like that.

Answer 3

Hangry22 | 699 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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It won't take me a long time but i won't get married soon
You got all the good stuff going on in your life. There're just few good girls out there.
Don't try to jump into marriage when you meet a girl. You still have enough time to get more settled and choose a good partner. Dating sites will work but lots of people use it for hookups

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15 d
yea im not looking for a hook up, i feel cheap doing that

Answer 4

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yea im not looking for a hook up, i feel cheap doing that

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MissDawn7961 | 537 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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it all depends on how much the man and the woman get to date and talk to each other to know whether or not the R made for each other ! it could take several years of dating and talking several times a week and dating every other weekend to know for sure ! also if either has a bad temper , then they should not get married , for if they do then then he could harm or kill the other person ! thanks

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eileen_ruth | 51 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I'm never getting married so I don't know. Maybe like 3 years?

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17 d
How come you don’t want to get married?
eileen_ruth

17 d
Because I dont want to get divorced. And I can have a long term relationship without making it an official legal thing?
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17 d
But if the guy really is faithful and committed. Usually you can tell how a guy is with how he handles verbal arguments, if a guy is willing to reconcile quickly and not let his ego get in the way he’s trying. It’s a joint effort, girls have to put in the work as well.
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eileen_ruth

17 d
I just don't want to have to deal with a divorce or regret getting married. I'd consider it if I met the right person I guess.

Answer 7

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How come you don’t want to get married?

Answer 8

eileen_ruth

Because I dont want to get divorced. And I can have a long term relationship without making it an official legal thing?

Answer 9

Asker

But if the guy really is faithful and committed. Usually you can tell how a guy is with how he handles verbal arguments, if a guy is willing to reconcile quickly and not let his ego get in the way he’s trying. It’s a joint effort, girls have to put in the work as well.

Answer 10

eileen_ruth

I just don't want to have to deal with a divorce or regret getting married. I'd consider it if I met the right person I guess.

Answer 11

millsbobbybrown

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At least a few years if you will be each other for the rest of your life, a few years shouldn't hurt

Answer 12

Eliiiiii

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At least 1 or 2 years. Marriage is a big deal.

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