I rarely speak but if I do it's straight to the point & nothing elseThing is many woman don't see me as asertive or commanding I'm seen as an oddball simply because I'm not some pretty boy
Do women only like assertive & commanding men if they're attractive?

I've always been a lone wolf but just a very methodical, pre planner type who sees every situation from every angle
I rarely speak but if I do it's straight to the point & nothing elseThing is many woman don't see me as asertive or commanding I'm seen as an oddball simply because I'm not some pretty boy
I rarely speak but if I do it's straight to the point & nothing elseThing is many woman don't see me as asertive or commanding I'm seen as an oddball simply because I'm not some pretty boy
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- I think I know what you're asking. Please correct me if I'm wrong...
You want to know that upon approaching a woman, will she appreciate your efforts if you're attractive. Will the flirtation, and the forwardness of a man asking for her number, her name, and general things done when approaching her - be more welcome if the guy is hot?
Simple answer: no. But there are also some reasons for yes. I'm saying "no" first because I don't want a guy to think he can jump the gun if he thinks he's good looking.
First, attractiveness is subjective. Who I find attractive, isn't going to be based on the man's opinion of himself. I can tell you I've been approached and hit on by many men in my life - many of whom fancied themselves as being something special. However, I did not think that way. Sure, maybe other woman would have (or did), but to assume that he's what *every* woman can appreciate as good looking is arrogant and presumptive.
Second, will I even be willing or in the mood to have such attention? While a lot of women don't mind the "you look nice today" if we know the guy. But if he's someone we've never met, it gets tricky. Perhaps you're giving up your seat on a bus, and say to a woman, "There's not much I wouldn't do for a woman who has eyes as beautiful as yours." (Okay, cringe if you must, but on the fly it's the only example I can give right now.)
Second - part 2: If a woman is open to connecting, I don't think "commanding" and "assertive" are particularly what she's after. Simple friendliness has always been the greatest trait of a man's personality. I'm not sure if this is just how you put the question, but I want it to be clear that these tend to be turn offs, even from good looking men.
Third, there are examples of women enjoying the attention from attractive men - and that's *only* if she happens to find the man attractive AND is in the mood to connect. I don't mean "connect" like she's willing to hand over her number. I mean in a general sense, when the attention is received well.This strange assumption that if a guy is good-looking is the first problem with all of this. Men send off signals to women that they either think their looks/power/money should give them access to do things that other men can't do, and then when denied - they blame the woman, thinking something must be wrong with *them*, when in fact, it can just be a simple matter of what the woman likes in a man. If she prefers a humble burger-flipper at Burger King who has cute brown eyes, nice smile, good sense of humour, and has some dedication to making her happy - that to me outweighs any sort of "attractiveness" a man thinks he has if he gels his hair just-so, wears designer clothes, has an important, high-paying job, drives a nice car, or even if OTHER women tell him how attractive he is. It just doesn't mean he'll be attractive to every woman, therefore - this is why men should not assume their actions will be welcome.
If you notice the woman's facial expression, she obviously thinks the first man is attractive, but does that mean every woman does? No. Therefore, he's no better or worse than the guy in the green coat to any woman who doesn't find him appealing. Maybe she's had a crush on him? Maybe she's seen that he flirts with only her and no one else? Second image: she doesn't seem to have much to offer the guy in the green coat. Perhaps he smells bad? He's her boss? He's just simply NOT her type - whatever the reason is.
You may have seen this meme on the internet. If not, here it is. When I first saw this, it actually pissed me off. It is NOT permitted necessarily in the first image, and it's NOT necessarily sexual harassment in the second image. This sort of message gives men a dangerous rationale of what they can or can't do based on *their* looks.
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So at work there's these 2 guys. I work at a tech company. One guy he's soo hot i noticed this when I first met him the other guy he's normal looking but when I got to know them the hot guy is assertive, commanding etc. But I can't help but dislike him he's clipped straight to the point direct when at work but funny charming when not working most women fawn over him. The other guy he's much shyier, when he smiles its more genuine his face lights up. His visibily nervous stammers when he presented the 1st time. He has those kind eyes when you speak to him at work or after work his so sweet when you get him to talk about his nerdy ideas his pet rabbit he gets so excited his face lights up he was a heart of gold its just all so dang cute sometimes hot guy lectures him to be serious but even then he comes to help me kindly the other guy if i ask for help his just so horrid i avoid I can already tell shy guy maybe to shy to ask a women out, I wonder if he likes me... in other ways😳😅?
Anyway thats my problem 😂 my point is... NO! His hotness charm whatever doesn't mean anything because the coldness and lack of a beating heart shit puts me right off but I can't help crushing so hard for the other guy🙈
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