@siseñor ya, when we kept watching, we're feeding our subconscious memory.And this may dictate our general behaviour, much like our hands and legs can drive a vehicle without our brains "thinking" every moment of the control process.
Are they oldeer like in their thirties?
No, I've seen them in their 20s as well
Men's? No not really? Remember we're the desperate sex and apparently our standards are low. As where girls are redicilous high
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You say that but i bet it's the complete opposite
I mean I do need to find the person attractive cause how would that work in a relationship? But I don’t think my standards are crazy high and I don’t have much of a preference to what I’m looking for
They have to be model types though. Girls only date model types or chads
Well I don’t think any of the last guys I’ve talked to are model type men lolllll if anything people use to tell me I could do better which I always got offended by them telling me that
That's pretty hard to believe. If you're not above average or quote"Hot" you're screwed
Not every girl is like that 🤷🏻♀️
Every girl cares about looks and only wants chads. But oh well that's life
I don’t date white guys lmao
A chad doesn't have to be white. There are tyrones as well. So if you're not into chads, then probably Tyrones then. Us guys who aren't perfect though are failures
No I’d prefer to date inside my Latin group, but I’d probably say guys have crazy standards for girls 🤷🏻♀️
Yet we're always told we're desperate or told our standards are low 🤔
Some men are just easy 🤷🏻♀️ some are overly picky even when they’re in no position to be picky
But can't you agree that women are realising their standards when it comes to looks? Can't you agree that now a guy has to look a certain way to be perfect?
There has to be balance.Sad story: Girl I know and went out with for a few months is on Twitter. All she does is moan about men. She's gained a lot of weight, and says she won't look at pics of herself before age 25. She has very high standards, even though she went out with me, who is nothing like what she says she wants
Thing is, im not looking at Instagram models. Average girls are the ones who only date above and beyond.
You didn't answer the question. How many irl guys do you actually know look like the ones you're griping about.Fuck what the girls are thinking for now. If you're competing against girls, you're going after the wrong women.What does your competition look like? How many other guys do you know irl look like the ones you used in this photo?
a lot actually. They're good looking and above average. Can't compete
Sounds like you're surrounded by guys you can ask for fitness and fashion tips, then.But if you're dead set on being a loser, then all the power to you. Just don't complain after you've made your choice.
I need genetic modifications. Hopefully it becomes a thing in the future
Dude, I'm with you there. I'd love green eyes and another 5" of height.I used to want to be a geneticist when I was younger. Then I learned it'd be unethical to create a dragon, and I moved on to a different career obsession. XD
Women chase after chads though. So it would be no different
Then let the Chads and insta models get into a relationship. Problem solved. Others can watch and simp for them
And what are guys who aren't chads suppose to do about it?
When i said "others", i meant the non Chads and non insta models
or get wrinkles or have bad hair or God forbid less than a perfect skin.. basically never look older than a doll regardless of child bearing or aging or stressBut I'm just bored here tbh. Actually I believe both men and women have high standards nowadays
@mindNsoul all those things you mentioned equally are the standard for men. But at least women don't have to go through a draconic diet and fitness regiment to look good.
hmmm I don't think getting older or shaving completely bald is a deal breaker for many women. And not many consider not being absolutely ribbed is a requirement. No woman I ever knew in real life whether at work, uni, family or friends have told me or expressed to me that hitting the gym is a requirement. I'm talking about normal people in average life and not if you live in a city like LA or Liverpool than yes the standards are different. and definitely not on social media or dating apps because life there is completely different.
@mindNsoul well it's not an requirement to be wrinkel free, anorexic with perfect hair, perfect skin and so on either. We're speaking about beauty standards in magazines.
I mean. More and more fat girls are on the covers... Don't see that trend for men.
I just saw the answers you gave girls. I don't look like a chad do I? Not only they guys you think off get girls.
That pic is like a kilometer away.. can't see your faceBut I don't like pretty boys so I do believe you. I think average men have the best of both worlds. They are attractive, smart, and compassionate. More likely to be ginuine. Of course this is a generalization
@mindNsoul The picture I had when I wrote this was of me wearing a silly hat. Far from the "Pretty boy" stereotype. And I agree, the average guy and girl actually have better than many people think.
@mindNsoul This one.
Not hitting on you but you are good looking and looks like someone who can make a girl laugh her brains off
@mindNsoul Thank you. Also not hitting on you, I am married so it would be really bad if I did, you are attractive too. I came here, like I already have in similar questions, trying to make the guy see that you don't have to be a "chad" to get girls. I am a goofy guy and I had some attention from girls specially when I was single and putting myself out there. I want to let them know that with some self improvement and a changed mindset they can have that too.
Thank you and I think what you are doing is important. But I also think sometimes blaming the world and the other gender is easier and less painful.Both my exes were average but they both were funny and generally good men. I find confidence, good character and wittiness attractive. But people want to hear what echoes and resonate with their beliefs sometimes. And they want to hear that it is the other gender fault and evilness that they can't find love.Personally, I don't think it is always like that. Some of us are simply not that lucky. And it does take a little bit of luck to initially find love.
@mindNsoul " But I also think sometimes blaming the world and the other gender is easier and less painful."YES! Yes it is and that is the problem! I didn't blame the world or girlsfor not being into me. I blamd myself! I looked into the mirror and I could see why they didn't wanted me. I changed the way I dressed, I went to the gym (I am bigger then I look) and build myself up. My personalitty didn't changed! I was still myself, but the best version of myself. I am living proof that it works. It's hard? Hell ya it is! But what do I want? To endure what I must, be better and get what I want? Or lay down in acceptance, complainmy entire life? I chose and now I have a good job, house and wife. I want to tell @ that too.People will always believe in what they want. Some chose to believe what validates their lack of will to try to make a chnage. That's on them. Not on an entire gender. It does take luck to find true love. With that me and them agree. But they will never find it if they don't try to make something happen.
@mindNsoul I would like to invite you to see something I made a year ago.Embarrassed by my own. Guys, time to wake up! ↗