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May I ask why? You don’t want other guys staring?
@Asker It's far more nuanced than that. A girl who is in a relationship, but still is dressing provocatively is pretty much seeking attention/validation outside her relationship. This is not a secret. And nobody buys the words of those who deny it, since they know better. I'm not saying go wear a hijab or a burka, or dress like a nun. But there is no need to be wearing leggings outside, bootyshorts and show your cleavage. And by that I mean a lot of cleavage. A V-neck with a bit of cleavage is fine.No man with a high level of self-respect is going to invest in a woman who advertises herself to the world in a sexual way. What we project out to the world is what we get. You dress l ike a slut, you'll attract the wrong sort of attention. How we choose to portray ourselves to the world is how we will be perceived. Dress like a slut, and people will see you as such. Dress like a high-class and respectable woman, and people will see/treat you with respect. We don't go to job interviews with booty shorts, leggings or a tanktop. Right? Also, it's much safer to dress modestly than to walk around showing off your assets. Because you're lessening the odds of attracting the wrong sort of attention. Because there are a lot of guys who see it as an invitation.So in the end, it's more of a matter of it reflects on the woman than it is about others guys will stare. As a man who is with a beautiful girl, I have accepted the fact that men will always look at women. Including her. What matters to me is how she deals with it. I hope I answered your question.
Leggings are just comfortable. But I agree w the booty shorts. But Fr leggings is a no? I wear yoga pants to the gym cuz I like working out in them and black leggings go w anything. Thats not slutty 💀
And besides I ain’t wearing them for male attention lmao. I don't know boi u got some weird opinions if u think leggings is slutty
I have to dislike now since u said leggings is slutty
@Asker depends on which leggings, some are really revealing hence why there are women wearing them, especially in the gym. That's where you see EVERYTHING. So yeah, leggings is a no-no unless she is with me in public. My girlfriend knows better and chooses not to wear them in public herself. at least not without a tunic or a coat to cover up. Because she knows they reveal a lot. She wears them at home or in the gym (unrevealing ones). Many men don't approve of their girls wearing leggings for that reason. They draw attention (depending on how they are worn). That doesn't' make us "weird". It means we are more realistic than you are as we see our partners as partners and not as trophy wives. And the "it's comfortable" is often used as an excuse to show off their butt in leggings. Asif leggings are the only comfortable thing.
Lol so she doesn’t even wear bikinis/swimsuits to the beach / pool?
@Asker The fact you've just pulled a cheap strawman gives away that you're unwilling to understand another person's perspective. Wearing a bikini at the beach/pool is a very different context on it's own since the appropriate gear is being worn at the right place. My girlfriend wears bikinis with or without me, don't worry. I don't think we got anything to discuss here anymore.
I wasn’t even tryna argue lol I was just genuinely wondering. Bye
@Asker my apologies I've read your comment wrong so it came across as wrong. That's my mistake. And like I've said, she does wear bikinis. Only at the pool/beach of course
Aw that’s so respectful
Lol I don't know I mean there’s women who are raped wearing a burka. Men will stare either way. If it makes the girl confident for herself. I don’t see the big deal but cool
But I would still say wear what's comfortable but not too revealing
She can’t wear a v neck then?
she could im talking about skin, obviously
Lmao u said as long as her boobs or ass aren’t showing. W a v neck her boobs would show. So that’s why I asked haha
and i dont mind if a bit shows like she doesn't have to be fully covered like a bit over the knees and the shirt doesn't have to be full closed but as long as its not too much boobs showing, thats all i care aboutif she covers her ass and boobs then its fine
like normal clothing you know
you see the boob crack, up to half the crack is fine
Like that would be ok? The cracks not showing , it’s prob half way up
yea something like that see, it doesn't look bad, doesn't look uncomfortable, not too much boobs showing, its fine
as long as the curve of the boobs that you can see them separate isn't showing, its fine
Exactly like how does dressing a certain way = cheating. They would’ve cheated either way doesn’t reflect on what they wear. But yea there are weirdos