Girls have you been rejected from a guy before?

Question

I know this is a tough subject. I want to hear your experiences on rejections. I know women get hurt a lot easier then men do and women don't take rejections too well. Ladies when you get rejected and when you don't take it well. What do you do? Do you order takeouts, hang out with friends who can listen to you or watch sad movies?

Girls have you been rejected from a guy before?

Answer 1

Cynicaldreamer | 647 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Do you have time to sit and listen? Because if you really want to know, I could tell you so many of my rejection stories, we'd be up all night!

Of course! I'm pretty sure all women have been rejected at least once in their lives.
And if they haven't? Well lucky you; all of us cannot be that lucky or blessed in looks.

As for how do I handle rejection? Cry, get angry, then depressed. Eat comfort foods (ice cream, cookies, pizza, etc). Vent to my close friends. Exercise out my rage and sadness, especially with boxing or running. Basically distract myself until I get over him, however long that may take.

Oh and most importantly, block any and all aspects of him from my life! No checking his social media or trying to stay "friends" with him. It only makes things worse or awkward.

scott04sa22

1 mo
I don't mind hearing your rejection stories. I got rejection stories too and I can make them short. I used to run quite a lot when I was younger but after I got my gallbladder taken out it's been a little difficult. Comfort foods I do too. I have blocked people after rejections.

Answer 2

scott04sa22

I don't mind hearing your rejection stories. I got rejection stories too and I can make them short. I used to run quite a lot when I was younger but after I got my gallbladder taken out it's been a little difficult. Comfort foods I do too. I have blocked people after rejections.

Answer 3

SavySav

Xper 4

Yeah once in highscool and it kind of scared me because I haven't asked a guy out since.

Basically it was the typical scenario I asked him out after his football game but I guess he still had adrenaline from the game so when he said no he yelled "HELL NO" and yup all his teammates heard and basically anyone in that parking lot.

Answer 4

Anonymous

Yes. It was a couple years back, we had met online and were talking. He got to know my personality on an intimate level and we never met in real life, I opened up my heart to him and revealed to him my insecurities and fears. Towards the end he said he wasn't interested.

It hurts more than rejection based on physical beauty, because then you know the person you like doesn't like who you are on the inside as a person. And it hurst, a lot.

scott04sa22

1 mo
Sorry to hear that. Long time I rejected someone because at the time my grandparents was alive and my dad's family are restrict on who i dated. There was a single mother Latino girl who liked me but I had to reject her because of her tattoos and her kids because they were mix. If I dated her my dads family won't accept us. After I rejected her she back to her kids baby daddy and they got back together after that.

Answer 5

scott04sa22

Sorry to hear that. Long time I rejected someone because at the time my grandparents was alive and my dad's family are restrict on who i dated. There was a single mother Latino girl who liked me but I had to reject her because of her tattoos and her kids because they were mix. If I dated her my dads family won't accept us. After I rejected her she back to her kids baby daddy and they got back together after that.

Answer 6

MoonNieve

Xper 6

I get rejected by the same guy near enough every month, he pulls me in and then drops me. but I can't give him up he's like crack to me.

scott04sa22

1 mo
Sounds like the guy playing you or something. I let him go.
MoonNieve

1 mo
Let me PM you a sec
scott04sa22

1 mo
Sure

Answer 7

scott04sa22

Sounds like the guy playing you or something. I let him go.

Answer 8

MoonNieve

Let me PM you a sec

Answer 9

scott04sa22

Sure

Answer 10

Cherokeehp | 912 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

Not really. I’ve been dumped once before but eventually he came crawling back and generally I’ve been able to have any guy I wanted.

Answer 11

Supernatural_fanatic | 96 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Yup and I lost a great friend from it

scott04sa22

1 mo
Sorry to hear that. I've been rejected a lot more than you realized.

Answer 12

scott04sa22

Sorry to hear that. I've been rejected a lot more than you realized.

Answer 13

Justneedtokno | 72 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Yes We all have

scott04sa22

1 mo
Yeah. How is your rejection? I've been rejected more than you realized. I say I'm getting close to around 1,000 seriously I'm not joking.
Justneedtokno

1 mo
Ok I wasn’t all that later on when they decided to still come around so I don’t know. Women get shut down for relationships but always get offered sex even if we don’t want it. So it’s not a real rejection technically
scott04sa22

1 mo
Oh ok. Normally when I talk to people I don't talk about sex unless they mention it. That's kind of like my hidden rule. My other two rules are I don't talk about politics or financials
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Justneedtokno

1 mo
Sounds good

Answer 14

scott04sa22

Yeah. How is your rejection? I've been rejected more than you realized. I say I'm getting close to around 1,000 seriously I'm not joking.

Answer 15

Justneedtokno

Ok I wasn’t all that later on when they decided to still come around so I don’t know. Women get shut down for relationships but always get offered sex even if we don’t want it. So it’s not a real rejection technically

Answer 16

scott04sa22

Oh ok. Normally when I talk to people I don't talk about sex unless they mention it. That's kind of like my hidden rule. My other two rules are I don't talk about politics or financials

Answer 17

Justneedtokno

Sounds good

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