According to women - what do women have to offer in order for her to land the man that she wants?

[Cynicaldreamer]

What a woman should offer:

• Brains (book and common sense)
• Support
• Confidence. Not just in herself, but to boost those around her
• Her ears (listen to your partner)
• Patience and understanding
• Comfort

Anything else we have to offer, such a nice body or sexual skills, should be an "added bonus" in my opinion.

[silvermoon84]

I don’t think there’s any magical ingredient that will get her the guy, but some things she needs to bring to the table are respect, good moral character, a kind heart and no drama.

[Anonymous]

That’s what I thought but in reality I noticed when a guy falls for someone, it’s not that easy.

I used to like a girl but he fell for someone who wasn’t really that pretty nor was she a good influence.

And they inevitably broke up but that proved me beauty is never enough.


Now it’s more about what kind of guy do I want?

Do i want the guy who sleeps around? Then I have to make sure I am coming across as someone who is open to hook up. (Which i am not so those crushes never made it to dating phase)

Or do I want the guy who is more serious, when he is in it, he is all in? Example my husband looked for someone modest, no sleeping around etx, and bunch more other important values which matched with mine a bit. So we locked it.


Even in this case it wasn't beauty. I am not pretty, I am average and so is he but over the last 2 years of marriage our attraction for each other grew and so on

This is a hard lesson to learn at least it took me my whole teen years

[TheorionMage]

TWO famous quotes:
1.) "Any man may be had if there be but beauty enough and...
any woman may be had if there be but gold enough, for...
ALL the World is a market."

2.) "A MATURE man will not leave what he knows he will NOT find elsewhere"

TOO many relationships are founded in "Good Enough til BETTER comes along" because 'allure' is a fleeting perishable attribute. And, for males
the infatuating neurochemistry cocktail of Dopamine, Serotonin and Oxytocin
is evolutionarily addicting. That's 'why' a break-up hurts;
you're going through 'cold turkey' detox. MANY choose a 'rebound' romance.

[lightbulb27]

Human connection
The beauty, grace that is distinctly feminine
Opportunity to share life and have more experiences and joy than alone.
Support and understanding
Ears to listen
Patience and understanding
Sex, closeness/intimacy, companionship
Opportunity to build a family
Opportunity to grow as a person

@midnightmoon05 top quality!

[lovedejj_xo]

My boyfriend fell for me because I was smart and was looking into owning my own business now that I can almost do private practice just need to pass one more exam. I’m ambitious and don’t like relying on others I can do it myself. After that honestly I think he fell in love with having sex with me lol but he likes everything because I have a lot to offer.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

For the majority of women in the USA, beauty is all they really need. Sex is abstract because it can be used as a tool and method of control, and almost always is, but sheer beauty is still #1. Physical attraction > all else. Women know this, or else they wouldn't collectively be spending billions annually on makeup products.

[Charli7]

It's a good question everyone asks at some point. My last partner said a pure heart. What are your thoughts?

[MzAsh]

A woman’s beauty is usually the first thing that attracts a man. But what keeps a man is different. What a woman has to offer beyond her looks and sex depends on her skills and what she wants to offer.

[Anonymous]

I don’t offer anything and I don’t expect my man to ”offer” anything. Like what would we offer? If I date/get into a relationship with someone it’s because I like hanging out with them, feel attracted to them and love them. Relationships are not some sort of business deal if that’s what you think. Or maybe it is to you, in which case good luck.

[Juxtapose]

Well why would they think they have to offer anything when simps throw themselves at her feet and treat her like a divine being for nothing?

Us men need more self respect but sex is constantly in our subconscious so it's hard for a lot of men.

[alice55]

I guess being loyal and supporting is quite a big things to offer considering that majority of people are cheating on their partner nowadays.

[Lιʅʅყ]

What do guys offer? Shouldn't companionship be the maximum from an relationship

[cth96190]

Sex and beauty would work for me. :-)
If she was a Feminist, or some other variety of loon, spanking her until she called me Daddy should solve the problem.

[spartan55]

This should be interesting.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Match what yourself desire in another person.

[skeetskeetskeet]

A tight pussy and a fat ass will do it

[Dinosaursandanime65]

it is true, for most males.