I had a arm wrestling with a man, he's a friend of mine, I had a arm wrestling with him and I win and he got angry. To me this confrontation means nothing and I'm not proud to have beaten him, but he really was upset her and he experienced it as something important. He told me he was ashamed to be beaten by a woman. which is completely ridiculous to me. I told him I wouldn't repeat it to anyone, and that he might even say he beat me, but I don't understand this ego that men have
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Master
1 mo
Because it has nothing to do with ego. A man wants to feel like a man because men are protectors and dominant leaders to women. It's not that you were stronger than him as a woman. But that he already felt weak as a man. If he was defeated by a man, he would feel the same way. But between a woman? Somebody of the opposite sex that is expected to be weaker than the man? That's worse. At least in a man's world. And as a woman, you are not a man. You don't know what a man's world is like. Saying that he can say he won won't solve anything. In reality, he lost to YOU. A woman. It is not any disrespect to you. But for a man, they feel like they not good enough. Men have insecurities too.
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Anonymous
1 mo
Because of his toxic, fragile masculinity. Something so stupid as losing an arm wrestle made him feel like less of a man lmaoBut he can't -won't- talk about it because MeN dOn'T tAlK aBoUt FeEliNgS, iT's HoW tHeY'rE wIrEd. MeN aRe NoT aS "sEnSiTiVe" As WoMeN
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Anonymous
1 mo
It's only when dealing with women. Had you been a man, he would have laughed it off.
Because believe women to be weak. No if and or butts. No matter the strides women make, theyll always think of us as inferior. And hate to tell ya, but that's life. You can't change the mindsets of a group who literally have degraded women for years on end love.
Expect nothing more from men when you beat them, and just be happy you won.
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Yoda
1 mo
I don't think it's ego. It's a societal thing at best. "Oh look, that guy just got served by a girl!" Women are assumed to be weak.
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