Men: Do you feel you have been unfairly judged by women?

[Citizenkirk]

No, I don't, because I don't allow them too. I also don't allow law enforcements in the court system within Clark county Nevada to judge me either, and I am quite proficient in dishing out knuckle sandwiches and Louisville slugger taps to the chaps for those who try.
This is a sad commentary in the world we live in today, where you give someone of bad character an inch, and they'll take a light year,
In case you're wondering a light year is he just in some witch light travels within a one year period of time if you want to do the math that is 186,200 MI a second multiply that times 60 seconds a minute * 60 minutes an hour and 24 hour you know where I'm going with this anyway have fun!

[HiveBee]

I think both sexes unfairly judge eachother. We see our own sex as right and good, and the opposite, being different, as bad and evil.

Some men are rapists. All men are rapists now. Some women are conniving liars who pretend to be innocent and use men for their resources, now all women are that.

Men want women who look good, women are mad about that, especially because the men they really want have way higher standarss.

Women want men who posses all kinds of ridiculous shit, and men are mad about it because the beautiful women we want have especially high standards.

And so we're all just ranting and raving because we can't have what we really want and most people have no choice but to settle.

Boom.

[menina]

When you say men's comments are you talking about men who say that women are gold diggers or that we are only interested in tall, rich good looking men?
If that's what you mean I don't agree with it. Well yes there are women who only go after wealthy men but there are also men who only go after wealthy women.
As for being interested in tall, rich, good looking men that depends on the woman. There are women who like men who are not like this.

[MCheetah]

Almost literally all the time. As if I could choose what height I am, what ethnicity I was born as, or what my face or body looks like. I've learned personality is almost completely irrelevant with most women. All you need is ego as far as that goes; just act like your sh*t don't stink and they couldn't care less about the rest of your persona. But as far as the other stuff I can't change, though? Yeah, it's unfair and I won't be capable of having a romantic relationship in my life due to these other things I can't control. However, I've learned to adjust to that and enjoy other things in life besides female partnership.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is not a gender specific issue. Some men judge women and dismiss them for superficial and shallow reasons, and some women do the same to men. That's why people break up and move on to their next victim.

[Anonymous]

All the time. It's really a sad thing to know that you're the awesome guy that they are seeking but they see you as too plain or unattractive because of things like age, skin color, body type, status. It's hard to get over that initial impression, eh? And those 2 seconds it takes most gals to decide if they would hook up with a guy, really unfair, since the focus seems to me to be on the brick shit housed and men in power with money more and more. It's not all who judge this way, but give me a gorgeous body (like a Chip-n-Dales dancer), a 12 inch tool, and a few million dollars, and I'll prove to you I can get laid by almost ANY of you, one way or another.

[Tylermassengill]

There are always people who will judge you before they get to know you but I don’t let that define me, if I want them to see me in a different light then I put in the work and show them the real me and over time a lot of people will see that I’m not like the person that they thought I was.

[John_Galt]

A lot of women in this country think that the very existence on men is “toxic”. Don’t get me wrong, I know that it is a minority of women... but they are a very loud minority! And they have more and more converts every day. So, no. I don’t think that men get a fair shake!

[MillenniumBill]

Absolutely! Dont take just my word for it.
Refer to the so-called "80/20 Rule" on that one.
Let me ask this: If you were a professional, would you get involved with a man who worked at say, Walmart?
Statistics show you wouldn't give him the time of day.

[kellytheman]

I was one time by a girl of what kind of job I had and how much I made. I was also judge by a diffrent girl by driving a jeep Cherokee. I guess there lost because all the girls that gave me a chance was glad they did either just hanging out with me or satisfying them fully in the bedroom.

[Unit1]

Nein. I love women. I have no quarrel towards women and no reason to be bitter towards women. In my experience women are like us but with different organs and thought architecture.

I have not seen women judging me. They may do it without me knowing it but still. Women are lovely.

[magiusX26]

yes for a few reasons that i know of.

that am a shy introvert so do my approaching online

that am on the shorter side

for being a guy who preffers younger women

for having high standards

for being too honest with opinions (outside of here and before i even knew of here mostly)

[COMMODOREII]

Speaking for myself no. Girls know me because i do not play games nor am i one to put on a mask around them. O also try to be a good person and a gentleman. In fact most of friends are women. They like me a lot and have defended me when others have tried to bring me down.

[ohshee]

I'm sure I have been but I it's all good I mean it's either true or it's not and usually when somebody judges somebody weather it's good or bad it doesn't really bother me I'm sure they got a good reason for it I think they do

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry if it’s offensiveBut I don’t get what’s wrong if a girl wants her boyfriend/partner to be financially independent
I don’t see why girls can’t pick guys according to their attractiveness (even tho most guys pick girls based on their physical features)
I don’t feel unfairly judged at all
It’s normal to be attracted towards a guy who works hard for his goals and tries to accomplish them
I mean even I don’t want a lazy girl who wants to play video games all day

[Jjpayne]

I'll say, I think I've been passed up way too much... I'm always option number 5 and women choose the other first four leaving me lacking more confidence and being alone. Many saying, don't worry, you are a great guy, you will find someone and 20 years later girls get bored with dating and I'm still waiting to find a willing girl to date me 🙄

[BUNroaster]

I get why women are weary of men or at least I think I try to understand more than most. Yet women get this fuck off attitude very easily and yes based off of past events maybe but still. They lose balance just as much or more as men but what ends up happening is men dont understand to begin with, and girls dont take time to learn hot to help them. They still want to be the prize without doing anything to be won. In the end the two genders just cancel themselves out. Gay people make sense on multiple levels.

[VanillaSalt]

I was on tinder, okcupid, and match for 2 years. I’m fucking tired of how tall are you... how bit are your tits is always my response... I didn’t get many dates lmao.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes a girl is too quick to assume that a guy is only interested in sex. Also, I'm terrible at reading signals as to how girls judge me, so in most cases I just dont know how they judge me, but sometimes girls forget that guys have deep emotions.

[Dontaa]

The only unfair judgement that I don't like is when some girl tells me that I'm shy because I don't talk.

I'm not shy, I just have nothing to say to you.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. I've been judged pretty fairly. On paper, I SHOULD be rejected. Every time. I'm just not that great of a catch.

Still, sometimes I wish people would give me a chance. I believe I'm a good person and I can add value to a woman's life.

[Nalix]

Often, but any guy should be used to it. It happens more online when you aren't in person, I think, but honestly who knows what goes on in other people's heads. Probably more than I realize.

[NathanDavis]

Not me, people around me know well who I am, and what I am.

[misanthropistkev]

Not really most girls think I’m a really good guy some would eve say husband material
the two things I hear the most for why I get rejected are being too lazy and being to horny
which I think is fair

[Anonymous]

Yes, even by current partner. Sucks that society has labeled guys in general as being judgmental about women behavior. It makes me a bit sick actually and at times doubt if I want a long term relationship.

[CapitalismFailed]

Yes, sometimes. I'm a man, so naturally women assume the worst.

But I've also been judged fairly, which is much worse!

[clampfan101]

I’ve been unfairly judged by both genders, so technically “yes”?

[Jackblue]

To some extent we are, but women have to be wary of men, it is about survival.

[Marco10]

100% yes. I’ve been attacked numerous times for simply being a man.

[Anonymous]

It's not that we are "unfairly judged", it's more that women are dishonest about how they judge men and what they find attractive.

[OddBeMe]

I would bet all genders feel unfairly judged by everyone. It’s not rocket science.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yes! You sexy creatures talk and cluck and judge men into..

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Well yeah.
Women now think I'm a boring asshole.

If I looked conventionally hot, I'd be the "silent, dark brooding" type.

See the problem?

[Daniel_Dano]

I dont care much after all as long as they are not openly disrespecting me

[TallAnon]

Not really, but I'm quite lucky (tall, good job, etc.)

[Anonymous]

Yep, especially in this forum, the man-hate, double standards and “wow is me” women run rampant here.

[_no_one_]

Yeah but like not just women i'd say plus i don't give a shit anymore

[hellacray]

Haha sometimes.

You know some women don't bother to get to know you and just assume things.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

They even judge me before even knowing me the slightest

[Anonymous]

Definitely, they assume that because I'm fat that I'm a bad lay. In reality I'm hung and have lot's of stamina and enjoy foreplay.

Big case of don't knock it till you try it.

[K-I-S-S]

Nah, their own choices and mistakes.

[Danny_dan92]

Sometimes yeah, other times no

[loveslongnails]

I don't think so, not in my world.

[es20490446e]

Yes, but being wrongly judged is part of life.

[Anonymous]

men are cancer. Once inside the woman, she can never come back to herself. 🥵🥶

[jasco]

Not all the time, but sometimes yea i do

[bklynbadboy1]

Yes I am all the time

[Snakeyes7]

When I was younger definitely

[Juxtapose]

Mostly not actually, they just lack initiative.

[rahulnash10]

All the time... It's just human nature.

[msc545]

I don't know a man who *doesn't* feel that way.

[EaterPeter]

I wanted to say some time.

[Bhavin2184]

No..

[Ripper_E]

Sometimes I suppose

[Anonymous]

Yes even though there is no such thing as fairness

[TheCloud2]

Yes because of my small dick

[Valnac]

No, not me!

[Slim57]

I know I have

[Michałharypoterdki]

Verybaddd

[jirwin7979]

thats for sure