1. You shouldn't trick your SO into anything.
2. It is possible that you're just projecting your own feelings on the subject onto him.
3. It could be a fantasy of his that he never wants to make a reality.
4. It might be something he would do if he wasn't dating you seriously, but something he doesn't want to do since you're a couple.
5. He might like the idea of it, but hate the idea of it (for whatever reason). If he has had some sort of past trauma regarding it, that could cause the idea of it to turn him on, but also cause him to hate it.
6. He might like the idea of having sex with a guy, but not like the idea of YOU having sex with another guy.
Basically, this is something you need to talk to him about before you do, its not something you can just do without his permission.
I hope this helps
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I've made my position on honesty in relationships known in past post, and the answer is yes if you want to kill your relationship where it stands, absolutely, trick him. Deceive him. Do whatever it takes to manipulate him into doing what you want, since it will likely be the last thing he ever does for you. Just be sure you don't ask him, because he might get the mistaken impression that you respect him.
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0 24What could possibly go wrong?
0 0 0 0Exactly...
If you are serious, you have not thought this through.
I mean... it will work out good in the end
I can't advise 'Just NO!" strongly enough...
many female impersonators like the Thai lady boys, ROUTINELY get the shit beat out of them
for such cunning deceptions---
It provokes incredible rage in hetero males when sprung upon them unwittingly!
Were my companion to spring that on me, I'd feel SO disrespected
we'd be DONE, then & there! :(0 0 0 0No, what someone says at times is not what they would be comfortable with in reality.
I would have a long hard talk, and broach the subject, you can if there is an agreement to arrange it at an unknown time in the future do it.
the reality of facing something can often have some things happen that you did not expect.0 1 0 0Okay, I would say first find out if he really does want one, Don't just go off the initial "secretly" knowing he does if he never communicated that with you, you don't want to set something up that he can potentially dislike. Find a way to know if he really does want one and then wait a while before doing it so that he won't be suspicious of it
0 0 0 0So its a 3some of guys?
1 0 0 02 guys and 1 girl
How when there is no women involved
It's me, my boyfriend, and then the third (guy)
You could set it up but don't force it if he is reluctant and feels sabotaged.
0 0 0 0And if your boyfriend ended up lusting after this cross dresser guy..
This could sabotage your relationship..
He will leave you for him..0 0 0 0I like your idea of meeting at a club and see what happens.
0 0 0 0Exactly. I figured after a night of drinking and things started to get intimate and physical... he wouldn't fight it and it wouldn't matter at that point
Yes, and that's better than having your boyfriend come over with this guy already there. I think your approach is perfect, but watch for signs that your boyfriend isn't into him.
I feel ya.. that's why Initially he will think it's just one of my girlfriends
You simply just ask him
0 0 0 0Lol.. thats interesting, how would a man want some other man to touch and bang what belongs to him.
0 0 0 0It sounds like you really want a MMF and know he doesn't.
0 0 0 0Just say you want one don't play games
0 1 0 0Its him that won't admit to it lol
Most guys want ffm
Yes I know this.. but he also has a deep down fetish of a MMF but will. never admit to it.. so the plan is he thinks he is getting into a FFM but once we start getting hot and heavy, we tell him... by that point he will just wanna go with it hopefully
Sure, give it a try.
0 0 0 0Wow... you are desperate to post on GAG... lol... way to be Needy
0 0 0 0How so? Wth?
That's the end of your relationship. He doesn't want fantasy into reality.
0 0 0 0As long you are very certain he won't have a bad reaction. this is very risky.
0 0 0 0Threesome are immoral
0 0 0 0i can't see any normal woman wanting a dick in her after its been in another guys ass
0 0 0 0that sounds like a fun evening
0 0 0 0You think so? I do too.. and I know he will too.
have to report back and tell us how it goes
Your guy is gay then cause that gay as fuck lol
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