According to the urban dictionary >a bad bitch is a woman or female who is confident. She is independent and strives for herself. She doesn't need anybody and you would be lucky to have somebody. She can control herself and her feelings. She is also irresistible<
Their words not mine. Curious to know your thoughts...
Men, what do you think of a woman who refers to herself as a "bad bitch"?
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Lliam | 261 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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I total respect a woman who is confident, intelligent, motivated, has healthy values, can be sweet and caring, but is no one's door mat. But "bad bitch" also implies selfishness and self-centeredness. I picture a strutting, materialistic woman who thinks she is God's gift to the world and will do anything to get what she wants. So I would want nothing to do with a "bad bitch".
I don't know why women feel the need to state that they're striving for themselves rather than just doing it. They act as if it's an achievement to be a woman AND work towards some goal as if that shouldn't be the default for anyone that wants to achieve anything in their lives. It's an insult to women.
They're trying to tell me that they can accomplish things which was already my assumption (and it is a rational assumption). Rather than it reminding me that women are capable of stuff, it just makes me question why certain women are so insecure that they feel they must state that they can do things, which leads me to question my assumption of whether they can accomplish things. Saying that they don't need anyone has the same effect.
Another thing is that they also think it's attractive when they state that they're independant. If they actively try to hint at their independance they become extremely unattractive.
These probably have a similar effect to women when a man actively tries to be attractive (licking his lips conciously etc.).
In short, if a woman I'm attracted to states these things, I will instantly become unattracted to her regardless of how attracted to her I was before she said this.
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ohshee | 377 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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There are two different types of bad b****** there is the bad b**** that thinks she's all that she uses her voice and what she looks like to get what she wants and really is the furthest thing from being it real bad b**** and they think everything is about them
And then you have the real bad b**** who is confident it doesn't have to prove anything it's just a part of her DNA she can hold her own she's independent she's confident and she doesn't even have to prove that to anybody because she knows that she is real bad b**** doesn't act like a bad b**** or pretend to be a bad b**** certain things happen that's when she comes out of her shell bad b****** are quiet are very passionate and giving in their own way and it's not all about them
She's most like a bunk bitch and probably wouldn't take her out in public out of fear of her saying some stupid shit like that. Music lovers don't need to walk around say shit like "music is my soul" or cat lovers saying they love cats. Because you can usually see it for yourself Same concept that Bad Bitches don't need to toot their own horn. Don't have to tell others what they are because it takes away from you and makes other wanna examine you and all your flaws. Also makes a girl look insecure even with the pseudo-bravado.
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TheSpaceGnome | 132 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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I dissagree with using the term bad bitch with that definition.
To me a bad bitch is a woman who is a jerk, which I have no interest in.
As far as the type of woman you described though:
1. Confidence by itself is irrelivant to attraction, her interests/hobbies are what would matter to me. and if sge was confident with me at the start of the relationship instead of a nervous wreck, then I would see that as she isn't worried she will screw up courting me, because she isn't worried about losing me, so I would at that point lose interest in her as a potential life partner.
2. A woman who doesn't need male companionship to be happy is unattractive to me.
3. Being logical is attractive. But so is being emotionally attached, so there has to be a bit of uncontrollable love based illogical pull when it comes to a guy she likes, because she has to be the type to stay even when life is hard.
I would be interested to meet her, and have a drink. So many women are just so unsure, apologetic, and apprehensive, at what it means to be an equal, from a man's perspective! Maybe a Bad Bitch, is just a confident woman that knows she is an equal, and won't apologize for being who she is!
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The_Maphio | 80 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Exactly as the guys who hang around with ridiculous pants that look like they could fall to their ankle at any moment and act as if nobody was stronger or cooler than them, women that act like this are bound to accompany themselves with similar vanaglorious rejects, and end up suffering because of that sooner or later in their lives.
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jshm2 | 351 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Usually just turns out to be a petty criminal, with mental, family and drug issues trying to normalize her poor lifestyle.
The sort of idiot that puts "If you can't handle me at my worst.." in their facebook or insta.
Good friend I’ve known for 10 or so years, She’ll go I need my bitch pills and it’s funny as hell. Don’t take life to serious. "Life’s a piece of shit when you look at it" Monty Python
It is the only way to have a balanced relationship. I sometimes refer to myself as the Pink Knight, meaning I am, working on being a balance of male and female emotions and thoughts. Which is being a male version of a bad bitch.
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Honesttguy | 105 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Sounds awesome have not seen any bad bitches out there tho. I dont think they exist, just bad bitch wannabees
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