Girls, What are some things a guy can do to make you feel safe when you first meet him? What are some things guys should stop doing for your safety?

[Jammaa]

A genuine warm smile is good, not a menacing grin. Show me that you don't have any weapons and talk like you're adding value to my life because you're confident that you actually are. Don't be cocky. And don't do too much for me when I just meet you cuz that's just setting off alarms. What's too much? It depends on the girl but if you're putting her on a pedestal you're most likely doing too much or too little so change that mindset somehow. Talk to people about it.

[queenish_]

Don't smoke or drink, be appropriate and funny. Just be fun to be around, have positive vibes

[MissRomantic]

Well if it’s a first date, then hold the door open for her and check on her. Ask how she is and be open about being nervous on your first date by joking about it. Chances are, she feels the same and it will lighten the mood.


If you’re just meeting her, you can start with a “hi” and test to see if she answers comfortably. Then, maybe ask her if she went to the same school as you or ask her for suggestions like where to eat. That can open up a conversation. Then introduce yourself.

[Anonymous]

Guys should stop speeding and playing in traffic

Guys should open doors for us, hold our hand, give your full name so we can do background checks lol

[Moimaris]

Be trustworthy