Guys, do you like, or dislike, the idea of a girl asking you out? (Page 2)

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Guys, Do You: Lose respect for her Think she's low-value Get turned off Feel emasculated Get the upper hand Consider it easy to manipulate her Think she's a loser Think she's pathetic Think she has low self-esteem Or dislike it... ... when a girl reaches out, asks you out, takes initiative, is clear and communicative, shows interest in a relationship or date with you, or getting to know you? The poll is simple. Yes or no. Hint: They don't believe you. You'll have to be  very  convincing. Why is it important/beneficial, in today's climate and society?  (Hint: #metoo, sexual harassment fears, gender equality...) I know you have something to say about this. I know you've said it before, it's old news to you, but please say it one more time, this time addressing these bullet points, if you can.  49 upvotes on this mytake, the highest number of all topics I've ever written about. The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships Look at all those poll results. Girls, want to know how to ask a guy out? I may write another mytake about it, from a different angle. I tried encouraging and supporting. Next time will be something different. Success! "I asked! I asked him today and he put my # in his phone and we have been texting so we can grab food soon. I thought I would update, especially since a lot of you were happily shocked a woman wanted to ask a guy for a change. Was nervous but couldn’t have done it without your help & encouragement! 😊" How Do I Ask A Guy Out As A Female (never done this)?

Avicenna · Answer

It's perfectly fine (no one who's interested in someone else should keep it to themselves- they may be waiting forever then), but it's relatively rare for a woman to do it in a slick, confident manner.

exitseven · Answer

Yes I like it. I was painfully shy around girls. Even when I was pretty sure the girl liked me sometimes I was still too afraid to make a move.
It would have been nice if somebody would have given me a little nudge.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I like it.

It''s more common for it to be the other way around TBH, so sometimes the idea of switching things up a bit, can be nice and it gives the impressions that one is attracted to me, so due to that, I think I'd be more attracted to them.

Woke51 · Answer

To me the question reads "Guys, do you like it when someone is interested in spending time with you?" Hmm, I'll have to think about this one...

K3wlD3wd · Answer

Ya know how girls fantasize about finding that Special Person that sweeps them off their feet and they live life happily ever after? ... guys fantasize about that too.

JSmuve · Answer

I have no feelings on it one way or another. What I dislike is being the one who puts in more effort because "I'm a man, therefore I have to". I don't like being taken advantage of because "I can take it".

TallAnon · Answer

Prefer it, especially outside. I'm a 6'7 dude and I'm not a twig. If I walk straight up to a random girl, there's a good chance they'll run off 😂

Spencer10 · Answer

Total no brainer... I am hugely impressed by a woman with the guts to ask me out. He stock goes up big time if she does that.

Shihab91 · Answer

It's not like i dislike or disrespect... I actually respect her bravery but it's freak me out... I always think if she broke up recently and she is just using me to get over him... Usually and sadly most of the time when women make the first move there is a reason behind that. 🤺🤺🤺🤺

Paul09 · Answer

I really love the idea! I dream of it. Id be impressed, complimented. Also depends who, hopefully I am Interested back. I'd be excited. Out of the norm, confidence. See what It feels like for a man.

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